I am 27 years old this year, from the countryside, with a college degree, average appearance, and I plan to marry myself.
First, the man must have a good character, be responsible for the family, know how to be considerate, not gamble and play cards, never take drugs, smoke less, drink less, after all, men need to socialize outside, I can understand this.
Second, the man's family must have a house, it doesn't matter the size, as long as they can live in it, they can live with their parents after marriage, after all, after marriage, they must pass on the family to have children, and with parents to help take care of the children, we can be a little easier. As for the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I have a gentle personality and don't like to quarrel, and everything is prosperous in my family and talent.
The third bride price still has to be had, 68,000, 80,008 can be, you can give a little more, you can give a little less if you don't, this money is not what my parents want, it is to prove that the man's family's attitude towards me is not important, not an empty glove white wolf. And my parents said that the bride price money should be saved for me.
The fourth man must have a job, it is best to have a technology, at least to be able to support himself, after getting married, the two of us can work together, so it is easy to get started, otherwise it will be difficult to work hard alone.
Fifth, after giving birth to a child, it is best for grandparents to be willing to help take care of the child, and grandparents can also help, and there are elders involved in raising the next generation, so that you can also enjoy the joy of family. And I don't worry about asking others to take care of the children, we will pay the money ourselves, and the elderly only need to help take care of the children.
Sixth, after getting married, whether it is taking care of the children or doing housework, the husband and wife must share the responsibility, and the man cannot be machismo, be the shopkeeper, and push all the housework to me to do, after all, I also have to work, and I am also very tired.
Seventh, a man must have filial piety, not only love his parents, but also my parents should be treated the same.
The eighth point is very important, there is no genetic history in the family, which is for the sake of the future health of the child. Once two people get married, they are not allowed to regret it, they are not allowed to go outside to mess with flowers and grass, they are not allowed to divorce, in my marriage dictionary, there is only widowhood, no divorce.
Marriage is not a child's play, but a lifelong thing, since two people are destined to come together, they must never give up, always be together, respect and love each other, and support each other. I don't know if these requests are too much, if the man has no comments, you can contact me. When the man gets married, the woman gets married, I'm not too young, I hope to find that person as soon as possible!