The "Don't Give Spring Outing" incident that was scolded by the whole network Reflection on the failure of poverty education
Today's teaching methods are very different from those of ten years ago, and spring outings are also different from what was previously written in books"Concept"It became the current one"Small parent-teacher conferences"Parents accompany their children on a spring outing and participate in school activities together, which has become the most anticipated thing for every child every year! This has become the most anticipated thing for every child every year.
However, there are also many parents who think that these activities are a waste of money and time and do not want their children to participate. Recently, there was an incident in which a father did not let his son go on a spring outing, which was reprimanded on the Internet and aroused heated discussions among netizens.
After the recent melting of snow and ice, spring has officially begun, and it is also in time for the annual Arbor Day. As in previous years, many schools have also begun to prepare their teaching plans for the new year, in which elementary school students are also welcome to participate in the spring outings for the new year.
The teachers quickly made a plan, announced the details of the spring outing in class, and drew the route on posters and distributed it to all students.
At the same time, the head teacher also sent a message in the WeChat group to inform parents of the plan for the spring outing, hoping that parents can find time to participate together, so that this spring outing can become a bridge to deepen the communication between parents and children.
All the students who heard the news were extremely excited, especially since they were able to go and play with their parents, classmates, and teachers. Our protagonist, the little boy, is no exception, and he returns home and tells his parents the news.
To the little boy's surprise, the father did not show a look of joy, but became very serious after listening to his enthusiastic description of the entire spring outing plan and seeing the poster he brought.
The little boy watched his father's reaction and was afraid that his father would not let him go, after all, all the spring outings were very attractive to him.
Let's postpone this spring outing, 240 yuan is enough for your parents to take you to the amusement park once"
Soon, the little boy's devastated words came out of his father's mouth.
The little boy was more or less surprised, and after arguing with his parents a few times, he got the same answer.
The little boy was also completely disillusioned, sitting on the sidelines alone, holding the poster sent by the teacher, looking at the route on the poster repeatedly, and shedding tears of grievance, at this time he didn't understand why his father didn't let him go on a spring outing.
The father looked at the offended son, looked at the poster, cried for a whole hour, felt that maybe what he was doing was wrong, and finally decided to pay for his son to go on a spring outing.
* After the release, netizens unanimously condemned the father.
Netizens began to accuse the father of being insensitive, and also hugged the boy in **, saying that the time when the boy cried made his parents plant the seeds of inferiority in the boy's heart.
While defending the boy's justice, netizens are also relieved by his past, as many of them have experienced the same experiences as the boy as children.
Netizens also expressed their grievances in the comment area, and some netizens talked about their Spring Festival experience when they were children.
I had to pay 100 yuan for a ticket to go to the spring outing, and I had to prepare other meal money, but my parents finally begged for it, but they only gave 100 yuan for the ticket, and I ended up shopping for a day and hungry for a day.
Some netizens also said that their parents often tell them to be generous to others, but when they were children, they would be scolded by their parents for giving other children a piece of candy, how can they be lenient now?
In addition to their own personal experience, netizens also cited the example in "Morning Flowers and Sunset": Lu Xun's father asked Lu Xun to finish memorizing the book before he could go to see the Wuxiang Festival, but when Lu Xun finished reciting the book, the Wuxiang Festival was over.
Many parents have a misconception that educating their children is easy. Not really. If parents want their children to be what they want to become, they must first be themselves.
Many parents want their children to be optimistic, cheerful, and generous, but in the face of a certain choice of their children, they provide negative help, how can this prevent their children from having an inferiority complex?
Just as the parents of the little boy thought it wasn't worth spending 240 yuan just for a spring outing, it might not be worth it if you carefully calculated all the costs of the spring outing.
Providing your child with a fun and memorable spring outing experience that will make them feel inferior in the process of socializing with their peers is no longer worth being measured in money.
We always say that we can give everything for our children's education, but when it comes to making a choice, many parents will still hesitate, what can this teach their children?
Poverty education is the most failed education for children!
No spring outing"The incident is worth pondering for many of our parents, not that it is right to spend money on their children, but that they should spend the money in the right place. This is the greatest help parents can give their children as they grow up.
Do you have any thoughts about not being able to participate in the spring outing, or have you had similar experiences?