I chased my high school classmate for 3 years, but she didn't answer, I don't marry someone else, she gave me another chance
I am 29 years old and met a girl half a year ago through a blind date arranged by my family. We are planning to get married at the end of November and everything is going well.
Recently, I met Liu Ya, a classmate from high school. Together, we went to a nearby restaurant and began an unexpected reunion.
In the chat, I mentioned my wedding and invited Liu Ya to attend. She accepted the invitation, but there seemed to be a hint of hesitation in her expression.
What's wrong?I asked, sensing her uneasiness.
She was silent for a moment, and finally spoke: "Are you really no longer feeling for He Yun?"”
I sighed in my heart, but didn't answer immediately. He Yun, this name has left a long mark on my heart for 13 years.
She was also my high school classmate, and she was the class girl at that time, and her appearance was outstanding and exciting. The first time I saw her, I was fascinated by her, and from that moment on, my heart belonged to her.
At first, I didn't pursue her. The school is very strict about falling in love, and we don't dare to violate discipline for fear of getting into trouble. What's more, I was also worried about my parents' reaction and didn't want to disappoint them.
I grew up in a small mountain village, and my family was not wealthy. My father went out to work when I was very young, leaving me and my mother to depend on each other. My mother worked hard to take care of me and the elderly, and at the same time had to do some farm work to support the family. Due to the family's financial constraints, my parents could barely make ends meet, and having to pay for my grandfather's medical bills and my school fees made matters worse. My mother always looked at me with tears in her eyes and said to me, "Son, we are sorry for you, we cannot give you a better life. But you have to know that only by studying hard can you change your fate. Her words made my heart twist.
During the summer vacation, I went to my father's factory. Watching the scene of my father and other workers working hard, my heart welled up with infinite emotion. They live in a simple rental house, they dare not ask for leave when they are sick, and it is very difficult to wash and eat. I have a deeper understanding of the expectation and helplessness in the eyes of my parents.
I don't want to repeat the trajectory of my parents' lives, and I don't want my offspring to face the same dilemma. Therefore, I vowed to study hard and change my destiny. I have an emotion for He Yun in my heart, although I can't confess it to her, but I hope that through my own efforts, I can one day reach her university and let us have a bright future.
10 years ago, I successfully passed the college entrance examination and entered a university with a 985 rating. My family was very happy about this, but He Yun and I did not choose the same university. I left my hometown to study in another province, while she stayed in her hometown's provincial capital.
After graduating from university, I decided to return to my hometown and find a stable job in order to take care of my family more conveniently. Thanks to my unremitting efforts, my annual salary has now reached 300,000 yuan, which is equivalent to more than five times my father's salary.
Three years ago, the class president invited me to a reunion of my high school classmates, so I met He Yun again. Knowing that He Yun is still unmarried and has no lovers, I mustered up the courage to confess to her.
After hearing this, she did not directly refuse, nor did she agree immediately, but left a sentence: "Let me see how you perform." ”
This sentence filled my heart with hope, and I thought I still had a chance. So I started to pursue her with all my might, not only trying to find time with her, but also spending a lot of money.
Growing up, I have always lived a frugal lifestyle, and I try to save every penny except for necessary expenses. I knew that I had to save money on my own so that I could marry and have children in the future.
However, in order to pursue He Yun, I will carefully choose gifts for her every holiday, just to see her smile.
Three years have passed, I have spent a lot of money on her, she accepted all my gifts, but our relationship is still vague and far from being a couple.
As time went on, I noticed that my parents began to care about my marital problems and frequently urged me to find a suitable partner. The peers around me have all started families, and I also feel the urgency and envy in my heart.
When testing He Yun's attitude, she always vaguely expressed that she hoped to enjoy life more and was not in a hurry to enter marriage: "After getting married, I have to raise children and do housework, I would rather have more time to live my own life, and I don't want to become a mother so soon." ”
At first, I chose to respect her choice, but my colleague disagreed and bluntly criticized me: "Why are you so naïve? Do you know, in He Yun's heart, you are just a spare tire. ”
My colleague revealed some truths to me, and I realized that He Yun was not the only one who was pursuing her, but several other men were also pursuing her. And her attitude towards these people is the same as that of me, vague, neither rejecting nor accepting.
I was blown away by these findings. I have always been very demanding in my relationship, and I have been liking her for 13 years, during which time I have never been interested in other girls and love her with all my heart. If in her eyes I am just a spare tire, then what is my dedication over the years?
Faced with this fact, I tried again to understand He Yun's true thoughts, but the result disappointed me. I pursued her for three years, but she kept being ambiguous and disappointed me. I couldn't afford to wait, so I made up my mind to give up on her, follow my parents' advice and go back to my hometown to go on a blind date and find my other half. Eventually, I was introduced by an aunt to meet my fiancée.
My fiancée is from another place, her family is similar to mine, she also graduated from a well-known university, and her annual salary is quite good. She is two years younger than me, and we share many interests and topics.
It was a life-changing journey that was difficult, but in the end I found the partner I wanted.
When I was with my fiancée, I found myself feeling at ease and exhausted with He Yun. This made me realize the difference between love and marriage.
I decided to release He Yun once and for all, and proposed to my fiancée, and she gladly accepted. We started planning our wedding and decided on a wedding date, ready to go to the city we wanted to work hard together, and run it for the sake of the family and the filial piety of both parents.
When I told Liu Ya: "I finally understand, I have always been unrequited love, I have always been unrequited love. For 13 years, I've been tired and I need to let go. ”
When I got home, I threw myself into the wedding preparations and stopped thinking about things related to He Yun. But the strange thing is that maybe Liu Ya told her something, and I actually received He Yun's **.
He Yun asked, "Wu Jiong, do you really want to give up on me and marry another woman?" How long have you known her before you plan to get married? Don't you feel at a loss? ”
I was silent for a while, and He Yun continued: "Wu Jiong, I figured it out, you are the best for me. I'm willing to be with you, really, can you give me a chance? ”
My fiancée came over and asked me who I was talking to, and I replied simply, "My high school classmate, I'm inviting her to the wedding." ”
Then, I said to He Yun: "He Yun, since you don't have time to participate, then forget it, I wish you happiness and goodbye." ”
I blocked He Yun's ***, and I also truthfully told my fiancée my feelings for He Yun. The fiancée didn't care: "I'm sure you've seen her true colors and won't think about her anymore, so what do I have to worry about?" ”
My fiancée and I looked at each other and smiled, and put our heart and soul into our wedding preparations, and let the past go by over time!