My dear, we all have a special ta' in our hearts, and we will all take different paths in the pursuit of love. Some people may choose to accompany each other silently, some may pursue passionately, and some may choose to be "low-key" or "humble" to please each other. But how do you really win someone's heart?
First of all, you need to be more proactive, proactive, and understanding of others. For example, we pay attention to each other's interests, observe their personality traits, understand their usual lifestyle, and study their values. If you know the person well, it's easier to find similar topics and make a strong impression on the other person.
Think about it, I once had a crush on a girl, and then I took the initiative to start dating her. I found out that she loved to read, so I started reading several different books to show off my erudition in front of her. Because I took the initiative to get to know her, I was able to occupy a little place in her heart.
The second step is to take the initiative to care. For example, in the process of pursuing a woman, if you care about her life, how her work is performing, and how she feels, she will naturally feel your sincerity. Laugh. I'm sure he'll fall in love with you. What an amazing feeling!
I remember once having a friend. When he chased the girl, he took the initiative to care about her daily life. When a girl is in trouble, she is always there to cheer her on. When she was sick, he personally went to the pharmacy, prepared the medicine and delivered it to the girl's door, and at the same time helped her make porridge and soup. He felt a warmth she had never felt before, and eventually she was deeply moved and accepted his pursuit.
Finally, take the initiative to express your feelings. Even if some people find confession embarrassing, they are afraid to act because they are afraid of being left out, afraid of rejection, or afraid of losing a friendship. But it is precisely because of fear that we should be bold and move forward. When you get to know someone better and feel that they are truly worthy of you, you are free to express your love to them.
In retrospect, one of the most memorable things I remember was confessing my feelings to a girl I once loved. At that time, I chose a particularly pleasant environment and openly expressed my feelings. I was sweating profusely, but I plucked up the courage to tell him how I really felt. Luckily, she felt the same way about me at the time.
That is to say, when chasing a girl, pay more attention to her life, care more about her mood, and have the courage to express your feelings directly. Of course, every girl perceives feelings differently, and the three positive approaches mentioned above are by no means fixed. When you pursue a woman you like, you believe that if you are brave enough to speak and express your feelings, then everything will be fine.