Many people believe that whether people live well in their old age has a lot to do with children, and the traditional concept of Chinese is to raise children and prevent old age. Is it really like raising children to prevent old age? In fact, this is the value of equal exchange, what is called father's love boundless, mother's love is great, borderless and great is a realm, not in return! When it comes to raising children, we just want to enjoy the joy they bring us at different stages of their growth, and thank them that children are just a continuation of life, and whether they are bitter or sweet are meaningful.
We can't say that raising children is hard and you don't have children! In fact, whether people live well in their old age depends on the following points:
First: Are you healthy? In old age, people are deaf and clear-sighted, free of illness and pain, and can take care of themselves, not only their own body, mind and wallet will also suffer less, but also will not bring pressure and burden to their families and future generations before the bed of long-term illness. The body is better, I can eat and sleep, I can run and jump, I am better than anything else. You can eat as much as you want, you can live as you want, and you don't have to rely on your children at all. Therefore, when we are young, we must exercise our bodies, pay more attention to physical health, and strive not to drag down our children when we are old. Older people are stronger than anything else to have a healthy body.
Second: Do you have money? Whether you want to admit it or not, after having money, people's mood will be much better, the mood is better, they are not anxious, they will be less sick, even if they are sick, they have money in their hands, and they can enjoy better medical resources and care when they are in trouble. I'm afraid that I don't have money in my hands, many people say that money is not everything, but at this time, if you don't have money in your hands, you can't. Therefore, when we are young, we must plan well and leave a little emergency money for ourselves, so that we can use it when the time comes.
Third: Do you have a hobby? Many people think that as long as they are healthy and have money in their hands, everything will be fine, but hobbies are a person's spiritual sustenance, and spiritual sustenance also includes the children brought to us, and children are also our spiritual sustenance. You can read more books, watch more news, go to sports more, or go dancing with a few elderly friends, and participate in various community activities.
Fourth: Do you have a good mindset? Truly do not envy, do not envy, do not compare, go your own way, and live your own life. Don't envy others, maybe others are also envying you, don't compare with others, what you have may not be others, maybe others are also quietly envying you, live your own life.
If you have a good mentality, everything will be fine! Allow others to be others and allow yourself to be yourself. What if you don't worry about getting old? It's better to manage your body now, exercise when you should exercise, don't worry less about those trivial things, don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes, and don't be anxious and afraid of something that didn't happen.