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Today is the open day of the kindergarten of the best friend's child, parents can listen to the class on the open day, it just happens that there is a concentration class today, after the girlfriend listened, said that their child's concentration is too poor, the teacher read the story when he looked out the window for a while, and then turned his head to look at his mother.
When the teacher asked him to choose the answer, he craned his neck to see what everyone else had chosen.
In fact, every parent hopes that their child has good concentration, because this is a key to open the door to their child's internal drive.
But the reality of life is that no matter how you tell your child, pay attention and pay attention, the child still looks around, not knowing what you are talking about.
The French biologist Georges Cuvier once said: ".Genius, first of all, attention. Attention is the window to knowledge, without which the sun of knowledge cannot shine through.
Education experts point out that children aged 3-6 years old are a critical period for attention development, and parents need correct protection and guidance.
If you want to cultivate a child with full internal drive, parents must first give their children a good focus. The reality is that the child's attention is ruined by the care of the caregiver.
Nowadays, children are very delicate, and there will be several caregivers at home, for fear that the child will have a bump.
The neighbor Tingting, who was raised by her grandmother and grandmother together, every time she went to her house to play, her grandmother or grandmother would compete to hand water to Tingting to drink, and when the child was playing with toys, she did not forget to stuff a mouthful of apple into the child's mouth.
Educators have a famous saying: ". .Never bother your child unless you are invited by him.
Only when the child is in a state of continuous work can the child develop inner attention, and when the child focuses on playing, it is the time for the child to develop the inner willpower.
If you want your child to develop inner self-motivation, thenStop bothering children in the name of love.
There is such a phenomenon in life, in a family with more family members, the housework at home is basically not the turn of the child, let alone the turn of a child under the age of 6 to do housework.
But the truth is that when children are more than 3 years old, they are happy to be used.
Parents' excessive arrangement will make children lose a lot of opportunities to exercise themselves, and they will lose interest in many things and lose their attention.
Philadelphia likes a saying: ".Children grow up in places where their parents can't see them.
Parents let go in time and let their children do what they can do in order to feel their own value.
When children do more, they will naturally filter out the things they like from experience, become more independent and assertive, and their attention will be more concentrated, and then develop internal drive.
Recommend a few mini-games for children under 6 years old to develop attention:
1. Listen to the password game.
For example, when a parent says left hand, ask the child to lift his left foot. The parent says the right hand and the child raises the right foot.
2. Retell the story.
When parents read with their children, after reading a book, they can ask their children who the protagonist of the story is, what happened to the protagonist, etc., so as to improve the child's concentration in reading;
3. Inverted word game.
For example, parents say quilts and children say quilts, which can help cultivate children's auditory attention.
In the process of parenting, as long as parents keep their mouths shut and boldly let their children explore on the premise that they do not harm themselves and others, their children's concentration will definitely improve.
I'm Carl's mother, a psychological counselor mother who loves to read, welcome to pay attention!