The love is deep and the love is not good, and we know each other. Only when you are sure that you have found the right person will all your dedication and efforts be meaningful; Otherwise, everything will be in vain.
People are eager to experience a sincere love that is light-hearted and does not require too much embellishment, a simple companionship, a way of getting along that does not need to be deliberately pleased, and a deep sense of protection. However, this ideal love is not ubiquitous, but very rare, and its scarcity does not mean that it does not exist, but that it is too precious.
Men tend to be more direct and explicit in their choice of love than women, and their emotional boundaries are clear: true love and simple liking are very different concepts.
True love can make men give it their all and do whatever it takes, while mere love will make them more cautious and weigh the pros and cons.
Male realism and rationality usually only manifest themselves when they simply feel "like" for someone. When you observe a man showing an objective, realistic, and rational attitude, it may mean that his feelings for you only stay at the level of liking and do not further develop into deep love.
Conversely, when a man begins to show affection and devotion to you, willing to give up all other possibilities for you, it is usually a clear sign that he loves you deeply.
Some specific signs, such as his concern for the dynamics of your life, his willingness to spend money for you, and his frequent presence around you, are all telltale signs that he is in love with you.
Whether or not he is truly in love with you, a man's unconventional behavior often provides the clearest answer. If he behaves with ease, it may just be out of love; And if he starts to behave unnaturally, abnormally, or even change himself, this is usually a sign that he is really motivated.
Emotional fluctuations can cause people to behave differently from their usual behavior, which is a phenomenon common to everyone after being emotionally touched.
01: Pay attention to the dynamics
The water flows for a long time, and the affection is lingering. He always pays close attention to your social dynamics, not only out of curiosity, but also because he cares about your daily life and details.
He is eager to learn about your preferences, personality, habits, social identity, and work environment through your feed. This attention is not superficial, but a deep concern, and he hopes to understand you better and connect more closely with your life through this information.
When you post some troublesome or disturbing messages on social networks, he will not sit idly by, but will take the initiative to leave a message or contact you privately to ask about your situation and offer help. This concern and anxiety transcend ordinary friendship and reflect his deep love for you.
In an ordinary romantic relationship, the other person may only give attention and help when they are explicitly asked for help. However, in an affectionate relationship, even a slight change in the other person can cause him mood swings, and he will be happy or sad because of any word or action you make.
The same social dynamics will react differently in the eyes of different people. Some may just be a bystander, while others will put in the effort to not only observe carefully but actually intervene to help you solve the problem. This difference is the essential difference between love and liking: love is accompanied by action and deep engagement, while mere liking may be only a momentary mood swing and lack sustained and deep communication.
True love doesn't just stop at the psychological level, it translates into concrete actions that penetrate into everyday life. And mere liking may quickly fade, leaving only superficial interactions and forgotten memories.
Love and liking are indeed not on the same level, and when you feel that someone loves you deeply and chooses you steadfastly, you will appreciate the weight and value of that love.
02: Send you red envelopes
The affection is deep, and the courtesy is not light. On special days such as Valentine's Day or birthday, he will send you a digital red envelope with special meanings, such as "520" for "I love you" and "1314" for "a lifetime". Although the amount of these red envelopes is not large, the emotional value contained in them is extremely high. In this case, it's not the value of the gift, but the emotion and meaning behind it that counts.
Especially when the relationship between the two is not clear, such behavior is particularly conspicuous. By sending such a profound red envelope, although he did not directly express his heart, he hoped that you could feel his heart and understand his hints without words, thus reducing the embarrassment and uncertainty of direct confession.
The generosity of the festival and the giving of red envelopes, although he does not express his love directly, these subtle acts are enough to convey his emotions. It's not just a material giveaway, it's an emotional investment.
Any conjectures and expectations you have about him are not groundless, but based on these specific actions of him.
His actions, in essence, are trying to make you feel more and stimulate beautiful fantasies about what the future might be, so that he doesn't need to explain more. This behavior often means that he is trying to create a tacit understanding between you and hope to deepen the understanding and affection between you through this non-verbal communication.
When a guy frequently sends you red envelopes, it is not just because he has a lot of money, but more likely that he has real feelings for you. It's not easy to make a rational person so emotional, even willing to pay for you at any cost.
Only when he is truly attracted to you and has deep feelings for you will have this kind of consistent and dedicated behavior.
03: I meet you frequently
Fate is you, and together you meet. In your life, if you often meet someone in unexpected circumstances, it may not be just a coincidence. For example, if you love desserts and frequent a certain dessert shop, and he can always show up there "by chance" and even offer to pay for you when you finish your selection, it is not that he is really interested in desserts, but that he is looking for an opportunity to meet you.
He may have given up many other things when you couldn't see them, just to create an opportunity to meet you, which seems to be accidental on the surface, but in fact he did it deliberately.
While one or two chance encounters aren't enough to tell the story, if such "chance encounters" become frequent, it's clear that this is beyond chance.
If he is always there where you are, not only to surprise you, but also to offer help and care, these are not random events, but his intentional actions. This frequent "chance encounter" shows his concern and love for you, and he may have given up other important things for the sake of these encounters, just to make you feel happy and loved.
This behavior is a manifestation of his deep affection for you, and he silently plays the role of guardian in your life. If you find someone who is always there when you need it, that's a sign of love. You should respond appropriately and give attention to this love that appears in your life.
When you can feel the care and concern of others, you should cherish and respond to this feeling. Because true love is not just a one-sided giving, but a mutual cherishing and response from both parties.
I hope you can recognize that when true love comes, responding and cherishing at the right time can bring shared happiness and fulfillment.
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