The pattern is big and the vision is long. There are always some people in this world who look at things from different angles. It is as if they are standing on the top of a high mountain, overlooking the whole world, and they can see more openly, and they can see farther. These people are those who don't care about a little thing, and they won't affect their mood because of unwarranted contradictions.
When I was a child, I once heard a famous saying: "The sea is tolerant, and tolerance is great." "A person's pattern should be broad and inclusive, just as the sea can accommodate hundreds of rivers. When we magnify our own pattern, allow others to make mistakes, and allow ourselves to let go, life will become better.
Once, I met a guy with a big pattern. It was at the company's annual meeting, and the atmosphere was a little tense due to a little problem at work. Everyone was arguing to find a solution to the problem, but Manager Li remained calm and smiling. He said without hurry: "Don't worry, let's analyze the problem together and find a solution." ”
Manager Li did not panic because of small things, on the contrary, he faced difficulties with a calm mind and looked for ways to solve problems. In the end, under his leadership, we were able to solve the problem and the meeting was successfully concluded.
People with a big pattern often know how to let go and don't worry about some small things. This reminds me of a proverb: "Ten years is not too late for a gentleman to take revenge." "A person who really has a pattern can be patient, can tolerate, and can let go of past resentment, instead of blindly holding grudges and calculating.
A famous person once said, "Life is like a play, the key is whether you are willing to play a role." "Life is like a play, everyone is playing their own role. And those who have a big pattern know how to let go of some trivial things that are not worth caring about in this scene, so as to better interpret their lives.
I still remember a little conflict with a friend, which was originally just a joke and caused a misunderstanding, but the two sides got into a lot of trouble because of it. Later, I remembered those people with a big pattern, so I took the initiative to talk to a friend, and finally resolved the conflict. At that time, I deeply realized that it was really worth the loss to affect my mood for the sake of gratuitous contradictions.
People with a large pattern are like a vast and infinite starry sky, containing all things and accepting the troubles and difficulties of the world. They will not be immersed in complaints and calculations because of a little thing, and they will not affect their mood for unwarranted contradictions. Instead, they choose to face every challenge with tolerance and understanding, and treat everyone with tolerance and kindness to make life better and their hearts clearer.
In this complex society, we may encounter a lot of trivial things, and we may be troubled by unwarranted contradictions. However, if we can be like those who have a big pattern, let go of their calculations, resolve conflicts, and be open-minded, life will become more relaxed and happy, and our mood will become more comfortable.
The pattern is large and the heart is broad. I hope we can all learn to let go, not to worry about a little thing, and not to affect our mood for unwarranted contradictions. Let us face the world with a tolerant attitude, treat people and things with a kind attitude, make our lives more colorful, and make our hearts more pure and bright.
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