When it comes to growth, many people are like a little faster, it must be that kind of quick success, they will always ask a question, when can it be completed, when can it be effective, always can't wait, such an idea of the final result is needless to say.
However, this is indeed in line with human nature, especially in the Internet era, the kind of seven-day learning to sing, 21 days to develop a habit, and even wrapping such words, constantly stimulates all kinds of needy whites, one after another, investing in the same thing, thinking that as long as you sign up for classes, you can succeed.
As everyone knows, this phenomenon is like seeing my favorite book and buying it directly home, thinking that I have bought it and learned, but most people have almost never opened the cover, and they will become more and more impatient under the influence of this idea.
I don't have the patience to learn anything at all, and after being injured a few times, I lose confidence in improving my course, even if I really need it, I won't learn it, until I find out why I didn't learn it in the first place, and I will regret patting my thigh all the time.
At this time, slow growth, long-termism is what we need, give up those unrealistic ideas, master a skill really needs to learn little by little, you can't see progress in learning, there will be a qualitative breakthrough.
Reduce your desires, you can do a lot of things, choose a goal, you have to be prepared to fight a protracted battle, no matter what problems you encounter, just solve them, you will find that the method of doing one thing can also be used for other things.
At this time, the last thing you should have is distraction, obviously you want to do your own thing, but you are interrupted by trivial things, and you can come back, but basically those who don't come back are all sliding away by inertia.
The general is in a hurry and doesn't chase the rabbit, I have been using this to remind myself now, other things are dispensable, when doing things, can I migrate to my goal, if not, say no decisively, be sure to say it, this will make you sober.
To extend the time to do things, three years is the basic line, as for whether there is practice during this period, this is not something that anyone can supervise, you need to endure it yourself, this process is unavoidable, and anyone must go through this moment.
Slow down, you will take a good look at yourself, very glad, I found a little way when I wrote, and always wrote it out immediately after reading, this is very exercised.
Maybe you didn't write anything about what you were looking at, but because of this trigger, you can associate other content, revolve around a theme, and find another angle.
By the way, don't deny this germinating thought, this is a new transformation of the subconscious, so that more neurons in the brain are strengthening the connection and strengthening their cognition.