Documentary: 300,000 for the life of the old father, and the 5 children have the same opinion: we will not save it.
Text edited by Yu Xiaoran's notes.
300,000, we don't save it, we choose to be conservative**".
When their father's life hung in the balance, the five children were faced with a difficult choice.
This is a true story that takes place in an ordinary family, and it exposes the cruel struggle between family and money in contemporary society.
Sky-high surgical costs" The children choose to be conservative.
This old man's name is Zi Congxuan, sixty-nine years old, he originally farmed at home, and his body was also very tough, but he had a little high blood pressure and had been taking medicine.
A few days before the onset of the disease, because the old man had a cold, the children stopped the cold medicine, who knew that it was this stop, and the old man had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage!
The children were in a panic instantly, and the old man was also rushed to the hospital for rescue.
After the doctor's rescue, the attending doctor judged:
The patient's condition is critical, and his life is in danger at any time, and surgery must be performed immediately! But surgery is very risky, and even surgery can be fatal!
In addition, multiple surgeries will be performed, and the estimated cost is about 300,000 yuan.
This astronomical amount was unbearable for the Zi family after all.
After hearing this, the children instantly fell into a dilemma, and their hearts were very uncomfortable, and whether to save or not to save became a stone in the hearts of the five children!
Outside the ward, they gathered uncomfortably to discuss their father's whereabouts.
The youngest son choked up and begged his brothers to "give 100,000 each", but received an indifferent response.
But his father's life and death are not up to him alone!
The father was also uncomfortable lying on the hospital bed, listening to his children decide his life and death as if they were discussing commodities.
At this time, the attending doctor came to the ward again and explained in detail that the situation was serious and his life was in danger at any time.
But the children's attention is all about the medical expenses and how much the surgery costs. Because they simply can't come up with so much money, the sky-high figures proposed by the doctors are undoubtedly a heavy blow to them.
The two daughters wept bitterly, and the sons were speechless with red eyes.
As he waited, the eldest son took the lead in asking if he could keep it. The doctor said that the conservative ** is the current state that cannot be improved.
Combined with reality. The daughters considered the pressure caused by the huge cost of surgery, and finally the brothers agreed to be conservative**, and finally signed the conservative** decision.
Everyone breathed a sigh of relief, and the life and death of their father were questioned.
To everyone's surprise, my father's condition deteriorated rapidly.
The doctor again asked the family to come to the ward, explaining that the father had reached the last stage of his life and recommended that he be sent back to his hometown.
A stretcher, in this way, the old man who has raised children for decades is sent back to his hometown, waiting for death to come on the familiar rural land.
Food for thought. This thought-provoking and real-life event has sparked heated discussions online.
Some people denounce their children for their unfilial piety, believing that they have been people for a lifetime in vain. Each child can save his father's life if he takes out 60,000 yuan, and even if his father dies, he has no regrets even if he spends all the money.
Some people even analyze that even if the operation is successful, the father may become a vegetative person, so conservative ** is also an option.
There are also voices expressing understanding of the plight of their children, and it is indeed difficult for ordinary families to bear the medical expenses of 300,000 yuan.
Please don't kidnap morality, those who spend money are not necessarily filial, those who can't take out money are not necessarily evil sons, it's good to have a clear conscience in your parents, it doesn't matter what others say!
Some netizens also pointed out from a professional perspective that the success rate of cerebral hemorrhage treatment is low, and the children's choice is not completely incomprehensible.
If I were this old man, I would definitely hope that the children would not save me, this kind of brain stem hemorrhage, there is a high probability that I will sleep in bed forever after the operation! It's better to live than to die! Suffer alive!
Don't blame these children, if the hospital can guarantee that 300,000 yuan can save a healthy life, they will definitely borrow it without hesitation. The key is that the 300,000 in exchange for uncertainty is uncertain! Death goes to wealth, and vegetative people (who can't take care of themselves) go to sin with money! How do you choose? If it is a wealthy family, it will definitely not worry about money, but this is an astronomical amount for ordinary people. If I were that old father, I would support my children's choice and I would not complain!
Some people lament that birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable things in life, and the balance between family affection and money has always been difficult. Therefore, we should not simply attack the client, but understand the different circumstances of each family.
In this materialistic era, family affection has become extremely fragile.
This scene happened in thousands of ordinary families, when the moment of life and death came, how will we choose?
Which is more important, the happy life promised by money or the miserable years cultivated by parents? This requires everyone to ask their own conscience, and all choices may not be perfect, but we also have no right to beak others.
These stories also warn us not to be carried away by money, to care more for our parents in our daily lives, and not to regret it when we lose it.
As children, we must learn to be grateful and cherish our hard-won family affection.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are issues that every family has to face, and in the face of life and death choices, we must examine ourselves and reflect on the meaning of family affection.
The result may not be perfect, but we still need to maintain human warmth and care in the process.
This is the most important lesson we have learned in this long generational legacy.
May every family cherish the present, have fewer regrets, and be more grateful and tolerant.
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