Day 12:17
Concern. Since ancient times, people have praised the beauty of love, but I tell you, it is just the will and blessing that people give to love. The brutal truth is that love is pain in the truest sense of the word.
As soon as you fall in love with someone, it is the beginning of pain. Because love is selfishness, love is exclusivity, love is expectation, love is dependence. From the moment you fall in love with the other person, you lose yourself, and your joys, sorrows, and sorrows will be controlled by the other person. He doesn't reply to messages in time, you suspect; He forgot your anniversary, and you were disappointed; He doesn't care when you're sick, you're sad, and so on, it turns out that you don't need to worry about things alone, a person doesn't need to wait for care, and a person can face everything happily, and now because of love, you are looking forward to the response that the other person expects. If you don't get what you want, your resentment will arise. And the short-term happiness that love brings you is far from offsetting the pain and troubles it brings you.
You must know that once you have true feelings, you care about the other party's every move, word and deed; Once you have true feelings, you want the other person to be centered on you; Once you have true feelings, you want to transform the other person according to your own ideas. What's even more terrifying is that love and jealousy are twins, and from the moment the fire of jealousy is lit, it is you who burns both physically and mentally. Why bother?
Therefore, a person's greatest happiness is to wander in a loveless world. Remember, lovelessness can break the situation, and ruthlessness can break the overall situation.