We women are often absent-minded, often restless, often thinking about our own gains and losses, often impatient to finish one thing, often feel physically and mentally exhausted, often anxious to succeed, what is wrong with us? The reason is simple - there is a little impetuousness in our hearts.
If a woman wants to be happy, she must first do 1 point, see if you have done it?
I remember a writer once said, "Whether you want to be happy, happy, or successful, you have to get rid of the impetuosity in the depths of your heart." ”
For a period of time, some people around me always want to get rich overnight, especially some young people who have just walked out of school are eager to earn back the tuition fees they have spent as soon as possible, and after making money, they can better honor their parents, and at the same time, some young people are eager to buy a house and a car, and are eager to travel around the world. It's not okay to be anxious for quick success and quick profit, especially if our female friends have this kind of thought.
Some people find it difficult to settle down to do a good job in their current work, among them, some people think that the existing work is not worth investing energy to do, followed by perfunctory treatment of work, and can cope with it, and even a few people complain that the boss "has eyes and does not know Mount Tai", or people feel that "they have no talent" and are indignant. They continue to change jobs, that is, people often say job-hopping, hoping to change their working environment and income, which is also human nature, but in exchange for this, some people not only do not change better and better, to achieve their lofty dreams, on the contrary, but because of lack of ability, not enough learning and waste the whole life, in this way, there is no need, the old man said: "Don't look at the mountain high, to the mountain to the foot of the mountain." Someone else said, "No matter what kind of work you do, if you do it for more than 20 years, you can almost be called an expert", and these words have always been in my heart throughout my working life.
Impetuous people look down on their current work, do not put most of their thoughts and energy on work, let alone the word serious, so that they often make mistakes in their work, which makes their bosses even more afraid to entrust them with important work and lose the opportunity to be trusted.
What makes some female friends' work plans or studies repeatedly put on hold? What makes their lofty ideals come to naught? And what makes their lives disorganized? It is the inability to control consciousness and behavior, that is, impetuousness, and the direct consequence of impetuousness is that nothing can be accomplished. As a modern woman, only by calming down and doing things in a down-to-earth manner can you not be swayed by impetuousness and will not be eliminated by the times. Plain is true, which is a good saying.
Our correct attitude towards things should be down-to-earth, and at the same time, we must have a peaceful and calm mentality, as Fan Zhongyan once said in "The Story of Yueyang Tower": "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself." ”
The world we live in, fragrant car beauties, villas and bungalows, in such an era full of **, in the face of all this, people will inevitably be involuntarily impetuous, it seems that we women also want to have everything, it seems that these are also the best in our hearts.
The experience of successful people tells us that no matter how strong your ability is, you must start from the most basic work, there will never be a step to the sky in the workplace, anyone who wants to be happy or want to succeed, the only chance is to do the current job well, create miracles in ordinary work, and if you want to do the current job well, you need us women to adjust their work attitude, cultivate responsibility, initiative, loyalty and other professionalism, and establish if their work is to clean the street, The idea of being the best cleaner is the only way to achieve your dreams in the future.
May you get rid of impetuousness in front of the screen and achieve happiness, joy and even success in life!