"I regret it now, my in-laws came to our house for the New Year, spent a lot of money, and swallowed my anger, there was no place to vent, worried that my daughter-in-law would be unhappy. Originally, I just invited my in-laws to come for the New Year, but I didn't expect them to bring their small family and two grandchildren to come, and now the family is in a mess, and it is simply asking for trouble. Before leaving, my in-laws also said that they would come to my house for the New Year next year, oh my God, how do they want me to live? 59-year-old Aunt Zheng said in a depressed mood.
Aunt Zheng, who is over 59 years old.
Xiaolong Xiaohu, come and pay a New Year's greeting to your grandparents! "Chinese New Year's Eve while we were having Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, my mother hurriedly asked her grandchildren to come over and pay us New Year's greetings.
Before eating, I knew that there would be such a link, originally I planned to give each child a red envelope of 1000 yuan, but my daughter-in-law was dissatisfied after hearing it, she said that this was their first time, and the red envelope of 1000 yuan was not decent enough, and I was reluctant. I said we didn't invite them here, they decided to come over on their own, how can there be such a thing?
The daughter-in-law said, "They are my younger brothers, and they came to my sister's place for the New Year, how can I refuse?" If you're not happy, I'll take my family back to my house for the New Year. "My wife came over and took my hand and asked me to say a few words, after all, it was the New Year, and it was not good to be noisy.
The son also said: "Mom, since they are all here, you can give me a face, after all, this is the first time they have come, and you give them 6,000 yuan, which also shows that you are more generous." ”
6000 pieces? I don't just have that much money. It's nice to give 2,000 yuan. I replied.
At this time, my daughter-in-law heard it, and she said to me: "Mom, my mother's family came to our house for the first time for the New Year, and everyone in our village knows that I am married to a rich family, you only give 2,000 yuan, is it too shameless?" At least 6,000 yuan, I give my nephews 6,000 yuan, can you be less than me? ”
In order to please my daughter-in-law, my father and I only prepared two red envelopes of 6,000 yuan. I handed the red envelope to her two grandchildren, and the in-laws were very happy, and the grandchildren's red envelopes had already been stuffed into their pockets before they had time to get hot. In the blink of an eye, the 12,000 yuan I was distressed about was gone. I really regret letting them come for the New Year.
I asked my grandson to give New Year's greetings to her brother and daughter-in-law, but they only gave a red envelope of 200 yuan. How can there be such a person in the world? I'm really angry, but I can't get angry during the Chinese New Year, I'm so wronged.
I expressed my son's anguish of having to choose between face and sin, and he explained the pressure of Yajie's displeasure. I am unhappy with the return that their families have given us, especially given our generous support for them.
The son explained that his brother and daughter-in-law had always been stingy, so the 200 they could give was not bad. I wanted to let his brother's family leave, but my wife thought it was too much, especially during the New Year.
Despite my disgruntle, I held back, because it was New Year's after all. However, during the meal, the in-laws brought a plate of prawns directly to the two grandchildren, causing them to scramble. The in-laws comforted the grandson and said that they would let their aunt do it again tomorrow.
I originally invited my in-laws and my wife to come for the New Year, but they suddenly appeared with their youngest son's family, making a total of 6 people, which made me feel at a loss. Although I was reluctant, I was embarrassed to refuse, so I spent another 6,000 yuan to buy New Year's goods, and we have already spent 30,000 yuan.
I was exhausted by the Chinese New Year's Eve, they sat on the couch watching TV after eating and I didn't get any help. The younger brother of the in-laws smoked, and the sister-in-law was eating melon seeds, making the skin of melon seeds all over the ground. I don't like smoking in my room, but my in-laws think I'm exquisite.
Two grandchildren were running around in the living room and accidentally broke the 30,000 pieces of porcelain I brought back from Jingdezhen, which made me very angry. My mother-in-law was upset when she saw me, but she thought it was just a porcelain, and there was no need to be so displeased. And they are children, why should we compensate them? I really want them to leave soon.
I wanted to have a good rest in the first year of junior high school, but my in-laws asked us to accompany them to the mall. Despite my reluctance, there was no refusal. In the mall, they choose clothes like Grandma Liu entering the Grand View Garden. They ended up buying a cashmere sweater worth 12,500 yuan and two down jackets worth 1,520 yuan, which cost me 14,020 yuan in half a day.
The son and daughter-in-law took her brother and his wife shopping, and her brother-in-law fell in love with a cashmere coat, which was 9,800 yuan, while her brother had a soft spot for a suit that was priced at 6,200 yuan. When checking out, they all looked at their son and his wife, and the son's 16,000 yuan was spent all at once. My son confided in me about these things later. I asked him why they had to pay for his brother's job. My son said that they came to us for the New Year, shouldn't we be the host? I thought to myself, they were here to rob.
When noon came, they had to eat out. There are a lot of people during the festival, and the restaurants outside are also expensive. I suggested eating it at home, but the two grandchildren disagreed and insisted on eating outside. A family of eleven people spent 3,000 yuan on a meal. I said to my in-laws, there is no shortage at home, do you have to spend a lot of money outside?
My in-laws said I was stingy, and I would take care of inviting them to a meal when I came. My wife came out and said that what my in-laws said was reasonable, so let's eat outside. So, the man ordered the dish he wanted to eat, but the meal cost another 3,000 yuan.
Next, our relatives came to pay New Year's greetings one after another, and the in-laws asked their grandchildren to pay New Year's greetings to them every time, which caught the relatives off guard. Fortunately, everyone has cash in their pockets, and when I asked for a red envelope, I said that I would give 200 yuan, but my brother felt that it was too little, and gave a red envelope of 1000, and my brother spent 2000 yuan more.
When the son and daughter-in-law pay New Year's greetings to the elders of the family, the in-laws insist that the daughter-in-law bring the grandson with them. The children are going to follow their aunts and uncles, so how can I stop them?
One night, I was mopping the floor when I heard my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law chatting in my room, and her voice was always loud. She said to her daughter-in-law: "This time I spent the New Year at your mother-in-law's house, and I really made a lot of money." You see that your two nephews got 40,000 yuan in New Year's money, and this is the first time they have received so much, your brother and daughter-in-law must be overjoyed. Their red envelopes add up to more than 30,000, and your father and I must have a lot of face when I wear these two clothes. The daughter-in-law said, "It's okay, just be happy." I'll hide your and my dad's 20,000 yuan and don't let my mother-in-law know. I was so angry that I flicked the mop and went back to my room. Since then, I haven't paid much attention to them, but my mother didn't notice it.
finally got through until the son and daughter-in-law were going to work, and the daughter-in-law asked them to go back, but the in-laws said that they hadn't had enough fun, and they would go back after the Lantern Festival. After her daughter and son-in-law went back to work, her younger brother also asked for leave, saying that he was not in a hurry to go back, and planned to wait for the Lantern Festival to go back with his in-laws.
It's really infuriating, my in-laws didn't tell you before they left, and I will come to your house again next year for the New Year! It's infuriating. As soon as you calculate, it cost more than 60,000 yuan, and the daughter-in-law spent another 20,000 yuan herself, totaling 80,000 yuan. This is unjust, it is simply distressing.
Don't blame yourself too much, after all, it was for the sake of relatives that they let them come for the New Year. But their behavior is really shocking. From now on, I will never let them come to celebrate the New Year again, even if you and your wife spend it by yourself, and you will never let them participate again. This lesson has made you understand that you really have to keep your distance from relatives who don't agree with your three views, and you can't interact with them too much, right?