1.When you're strong, everyone is a friend; When you are weak, there are enemies everywhere. Don't blame others for being snobbish, just blame yourself for being incompetent, you are the same person.
2.Everyone is living in masks, harmonious on the surface, and intrigue behind the scenes. Trust others too much and sooner or later you will get hurt.
3.People who praise you don't necessarily really come from the heart; The people who criticize you often express their truest thoughts. You can't pick and choose good things to listen to, and bad words may be more useful.
4.It doesn't have to be your enemies who defeat you, it can also be your friends. In the face of interests, who is a friend and who is an enemy, and who can clearly distinguish it.
5.Sometimes your excellence is not valuable, and you may be infinitely squeezed by your boss. When hard work is not duly rewarded, it is better to reward yourself with ease.
6.If you want to be popular with everyone, you need to express yourself appropriately, but please avoid showing off too much and show that you are a little better than others.
7.When communicating with others, let them feel your respect and understanding first, and then have the opportunity to make them accept your opinions and ideas.
8.Don't try to change a person, the few words you say don't have that much power, just say what others like to hear.
9.No one likes to be criticized and blamed, even if you know that the problem lies with you, give someone a step down, and the other party will be grateful to you.
10.A person's first impression is very important, and if the first impression is too bad, it will not be able to talk about the future. Always keep an eye on your image and don't miss every opportunity.
11.If you don't know what to do when dealing with a conflict, please remain silent and remember not to talk nonsense. At least there is room for salvation in this way, and if you say the wrong thing, it may be irreparable.
12.Don't sympathize with a person casually, there must be your own reasons behind it, and this may be the retribution that the other person should bear for doing something wrong.
13.No relationship is long-term and stable, family, friendship and love may change due to interests, and you can prepare for the worst at any time, so that you will not be easily defeated.
14.No matter who you associate with, keep your distance. The same relationship and relationship may have a very different status in the hearts of two people.
15.Sometimes others are now worthy of you because they have no interests**. Once there is an exchange of interests, you may be betrayed by the other party. You have to be vigilant at all times and don't make a fuss when you are betrayed.
16.Learn to accept criticism from others, and never have a glass heart, because you will never be able to mature.
17.When you don't feel good at the first sight of someone, trust your instincts and don't come into contact with them in the future.
18.People tend to make wrong judgments because of prejudice, so don't easily label anyone, try to be an objective person.
19.Be a person with your own opinions, and you can't be too soft and controlled by others. Others are not necessarily for your own good, but probably for their own good.
20.Try to care less about other people's affairs, what can teach people to grow is not the truth, but the south wall, and if you don't have pain, you won't really have a long memory. If you don't be a bad person, you can avoid unnecessary troubles and live comfortably.