In the world of feelings, we often encounter a strange phenomenon: one person is as passionate as fire, while the other person is as cold as ice. At this time, the enthusiastic party can't help but wonder if the other party has changed his mind and whether he no longer loves himself. However, this is often not the case. So, how do you maintain lasting attraction in your relationship so that the other person is always enthusiastic about you?
In the TV series "Homecoming", the actor Hong Shixian initially had no deep feelings for the heroine Lin Pinru. However, when Lin Pinru changed her identity and image and returned gorgeously as Gao Shanshan, Hong Shixian became interested in her. This is because Gao Shanshan's transformation made Hong Shixian feel challenged and fresh, and stimulated his desire to conquer. Therefore, to remain attractive in a relationship, you need to have your own framework, learn to be appropriately indifferent, and let the other person have the desire to chase and conquer you.
In love, getting too close will consume your own attractiveness. Keeping a certain distance can increase the sense of mystery and power, and make the other person full of desire for you. When you get infinitely close to the other person, your shortcomings will be exposed, and your own charm will also decrease. Therefore, instead of showing your enthusiasm and proximity to the other person unconditionally and without a bottom line, learn to maintain proper distance and independence.
The ancients said: "If you are far away, you are not close, and if you are close, you are disrespectful." "It's the same in relationships. If you get too close to the other person, it may make the other person feel oppressed and constrained, and even want to run away. Therefore, you need to maintain a certain distance and independence, respecting the other person's personal space and freedom. At the same time, don't pursue the other person's response and attention too much, but learn to be self-satisfied and independent.
To sum up, to maintain lasting attraction in a relationship, you need to have your own framework and independence, learn to be appropriately cold and keep your distance. At the same time, you should also respect the other person's personal space and freedom, and do not pursue the other person's response and attention too much. Only in this way will you be able to maintain lasting attraction in your relationship and keep the other person enthusiastic about you at all times.