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* There was such a strange woman in the period, it can be said that this woman combines status and talent and beauty.
But in 1948, she was diagnosed with heart disease by the hospital, and it was not effective**Doctors believe that she will most likely not live to be 50 years old.
Ordinary people would have been shocked by the news when they heard the news, but this woman was very optimistic about it and did not give in to her illness.
After diagnosis,She immediately formulated the "three noes" principle for herself.
Relying on these three principles,This ** strange woman broke the curse of not living to be 50 years old, and lived hard to be 93 years old, even the doctor who diagnosed her in the first place did not have a long life expectancy!
So, who is this ** strange woman who defeated the disease by herself? What are the three no's principles she formulated?
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Famous ladies
This strange woman who fights against the disease is named Zhang Yunhe, and in 1909, Zhang Yunhe was born in Hefei, Anhui Province.
Her grandfather was a famous general in the Huai army in the late Qing Dynasty, and her father was an educator. Many people believe that born in such a wealthy family, Zhang Yunhe's life must be smooth sailing.
In fact, Zhang Yunhe was on the edge of life and death when she was just born, and she was born with a blue face and did not cry or make trouble.
This made the Zhang family very anxious, thinking that Zhang Yunhe was a dead baby. People used various methods, but Zhang Yunhe still didn't open his eyes or cry, and his body temperature was cold. Seeing that he "couldn't live", his parents discussed choosing a good place to bury Zhang Yunhe.
At this time, her grandmother remembered a home remedy, and the family put the burning smoke next to Zhang Yunhe's nose with the mentality of trying. The choking smell of smoke really woke Zhang Yunhe up, and she let out a whoow cry when she opened her eyes.
Living in a scholarly family, the three sisters have been very talented since childhood. In those days, many children from scholarly families received education in traditional thoughts, but Zhang Yun was different from his family.
Her father was a well-known educator who taught his children the latest ideas and knowledge.
Therefore, the three sisters of the Zhang family have always been outstanding among their peers, and in addition to their talents, the three sisters are also very beautiful.
At the age of 16, Zhang Yunhe was admitted to the Girls' Normal School affiliated to Peking University, where Zhang Yunhe received a more advanced education and met many friends with new ideas.
Many rich children are Zhang Yunhe's suitors, but Zhang Yunhe is unmoved, what she wants is a partner who can really resonate with her thoughts.
Once, Zhang Yunhe went to a friend's house to play, and by chance met a very bookish teenager, and after understanding, he learned that this was the brother of his classmate, named Zhou Youguang.
Through chatting, Zhang Yunhe found that Zhou Youguang's thinking was very progressive and he was kind to others. Zhou Youguang also felt that Zhang Yunhe was talented, so the two had a good impression of each other.
Compared with the family background of the two, Zhang Yunhe's family conditions are far better than Zhou Youguang's family, but this cannot stop the two from falling in love.
After Zhou Youguang started school, the two often exchanged letters. In the letter, Zhou Youguang said to Zhang Yunhe with great worry: My family is not good, and I am afraid that I will not be able to give you happiness.
After Zhang Yunhe saw it, she immediately replied to a long letter, and she firmly said to Zhou Youguang: Happiness is created by ourselves.
In those days, if the family conditions were too different, they were destined to be opposed by the family. But Zhang Yun and his family are very open-minded, and after Zhou Youguang visited Zhang Yunhe's home, the elders of the Zhang family recognized this polite and talented young man.
Jang Yoon-ho's parents supported their daughter's choice, which made the two very happy.
In 1930, Zhang Yunhe, who had excellent grades, was admitted to St. Mary's Women's University in Shanghai, and Zhou Yongguang was also hired as a teacher at Shanghai University because of his outstanding performance.
The two finally didn't have to get together less and leave more, and in 1933, the two held a new-style wedding in Hefei. Because of the influence of the Zhang family, many celebrities from all walks of life came on the wedding day of the two.
Through the ordeal
After marriage, the two lived happily, and in the few years after marriage, Zhang Yunhe gave birth to a son and a daughter one after another.
The lives of the two became lively because of the arrival of the child, and soon after, the peaceful life was shattered by the news of the Japanese invasion of China.
In order to escape the war, Zhou Youguang had to flee to Sichuan with his wife and children. During the escape, their six-year-old daughter became seriously ill due to poor conditions.
The couple finally found a hospital, but due to the delay in the disease, their daughter's condition deteriorated and eventually passed away.
Jang Yun-ho was very sad, but the misfortune was not alone, her son was hit by a stray bullet on the way to escape, but fortunately his life was saved.
Jang Yoon-ho has not been able to come out of the grief of losing her daughter, and another bad news has come, her father has also passed away. After arriving in Sichuan, due to the war and social chaos, the couple's few savings were burglarized.
At this time, it coincided with the famine in Sichuan, and the grain was greatly improved, and the two could only buy a little coarse grain and their children to barely survive.
Zhang Yunhe has lived a life of fine clothes and food since she was a child, and after suffering life blows one after another, her already fragile body finally couldn't hold on.
Zhang Yunhe's health became worse and worse, so the family of three fled to a place where there was no famine.
After going through hardships, they finally settled down completely, and both husband and wife found a job in the local area where they could earn a living.
In 1948, Zhang Yunhe, who was 39 years old at the time, suddenly felt dizzy and had pain in her heart while working, so she went to a nearby hospital for examination.
Zhang Yunhe thought it was caused by work fatigue, but after a doctor's examination, it was found that Zhang Yunhe actually suffered from a serious heart attack.
Judging from the development of the disease, Zhang Yunhe is afraid that he will not live to be 50 years old. If ordinary people hear this news, they will inevitably not be able to accept it for a while.
But Zhang Yunhe has experienced all kinds of hardships such as the loss of her daughter and father, and she did not show a little panic about the news, but accepted it calmly.
The doctor told Zhang Yunhe that there was no special medicine for her heart disease, and after hearing the news, Zhang Yunhe immediately got up and went home.
Zhou Youguang was heartbroken when he learned that his wife had a serious heart attack, but Zhang Yunhe was very optimistic.
She is a very stubborn person, she does not believe that she can only live to be 50 years old, so she formulates the three nos principle for herself. And it was these three no's principles that finally enabled Zhang Yunhe to defeat the disease and create a medical miracle.
Three "no" principles of medical miracles
First, not to take the mistakes of others to heart, which is the first of the three principles.
Zhou Youguang was very puzzled when he learned about it, he didn't understand what effect this principle formulated by his wife had on ** heart disease.
Zhang Yunhe said that it is someone else's business to make mistakes, and don't care too much about the mistakes made by others. If you care about this, you will let your emotions accumulate in your heart, which will cause unhappiness.
In fact, in layman's terms, the meaning of this principle is to relax one's mind in life or work, and not to remember it in one's heart because others have committed a little mistake.
The second point is not to anger others with your own faults. People are not sages, who can do nothing, Zhang Yunhe believes that in life, people will make big and small mistakes. And these mistakes will make people's mood depressed, and naturally they will be more or less angry.
When communicating with others, it is definitely not right to take your bad feelings out on others and vent your anger on others.
Zhang Yunhe formulated this second principle in the hope that he can actively correct his mistakes after making mistakes, and apologize in time after saying angry words to others. You can't hurt yourself and hurt others, this is a very emotional thing.
Finally, don't hurt yourself for your mistakes, Zhang Yunhe once said that she often made all kinds of mistakes in life since she was a child, and sometimes she kept blaming herself for mistakes in her heart.
For example, her six-year-old daughter died of illness on the way to escape, and after her daughter's death, Zhang Yunhe often couldn't sleep at night.
This is not only sad for the loss of her daughter, but also ashamed of not taking good care of her daughter. In this way, her body became extremely weak.
The death of his father is even more so, Zhang Yunhe feels that his father did not do his filial piety by his side when he was alive, and he was not by his side when his father died, as a daughter, this is his own fault.
In the years after these two incidents, Zhang Yunhe kept blaming himself day and night. After formulating this principle, Zhang Yunhe was also relieved about these two things, because people can't always live in the past.
The daughter and father have passed away, and it is useless to blame yourself. Zhang Yunhe hopes that he can establish an optimistic attitude, even if he makes mistakes, he can't punish himself blankly.
In the eyes of many, these three principles formulated by Zhang Yunhe are useless. But modern medicine has proven that many diseases are caused by mood, and there is an idiom called accumulation of depression and illness, which is what it means.
Especially for people with heart disease like Zhang Yunhe, if they don't control their emotions well, they are likely to have heart attacks due to violent emotional fluctuations.
Zhang Yunhe strictly abides by these three principles set by herself, and she has always maintained an optimistic and flat attitude. In the rest of her life, even if she encountered great tribulations, she did not show much mood swings.
Not only that, since being diagnosed with heart disease, Zhang Yunhe has insisted on exercising every day, rain or shine.
Driven by her, her husband Zhou Youguang also joined the ranks of exercise, and the two maintained an optimistic attitude and good living habits, and finally defeated the disease and achieved a long life.
Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang have been together all their lives, and there has never been any quarrel. In their later years, the two also engaged in some small romances from time to time, which made the young people around them envious.
In 1995, Zhang Yunhe, who was in his 80s, learned to type with a computer. Together with the children of the Zhang family, she founded a magazine that was very popular.
Zhang Yunhe is worthy of being a talented woman, and she also wrote a book about her life experience and married life with her husband Zhou Youguang. In her later years, Zhang Yunhe was still very elegant, and her gestures revealed a strong bookish atmosphere.
In 2007, the long-lived man passed away at the age of 93.
Zhang Yunhe told her son to scatter the ashes after death, and later her son sprinkled his mother's ashes in the mountains and planted a favorite red maple tree in the place where the ashes were sprinkled.
Although this legendary woman born in ** has left people forever, her talent and her legendary story have always been celebrated.