Respecting the old and loving the young is our traditional culture, and honoring parents is also what every child should do.
But sometimes, in the process of providing for the elderly, there are occasionally some very unpleasant things, such as common conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, and siblings passing the buck to each other.
The cousin took care of her mother-in-law for eight years, and usually her eldest sister and eldest brother flocked to her house to eat and drink, and when she was sick and had to have surgery, she wanted to ask her mother-in-law to go to their house, but everyone shirked each other, no one wanted, and her mother-in-law did not speak.
My cousin has been living with her mother-in-law in her 70s since she got married, because my cousin-in-law is the eldest in the family, and my mother-in-law said that she couldn't do without her old son and had no money to buy him a house, so they lived together.
My cousin's mother-in-law is very good at talking:"I especially like children, don't look at my daughter and son a lot, I will treat my daughter-in-law as a daughter. I have a sore leg and can't get off the ground in winter, but I can still show you the door, and they all say that the family is like a treasure. I'm not a baby, but I'm sure I'll take care of my daughters and sons and don't let them bully you. "
My cousin was so excited that she got up early every morning, heated the house, and cooked the food, before letting her mother-in-law go down to the ground to freshen up and eat, and then put away the dishes and chopsticks, and hurried to work.
Although my cousin's home is far away from the unit, she relies on her good health, and every morning after eating, she rides to the unit, eats the food brought in the morning at noon, and goes home in the evening to buy vegetables at the vegetable market, and then goes home to cook.
My cousin is always energetic every day, and she is happy to serve her mother-in-law, and every week when she is on vacation, her eldest sister and eldest brother come to her house to eat in the name of watching her mother, and her cousin is happy to serve the whole family to eat.
In winter, my mother-in-law never went to the ground, she sat on the kang and waited for food, and my cousin's mother-in-law was very good at playing tricks, giving my cousin a glimpse of her beard, even if she was tired, she would be relieved by sleeping young.
After my cousin gave birth to a son, my mother-in-law said that she had a bad heart and couldn't see the child, so my cousin's mother helped to watch the child.
But not long ago, my cousin had a cyst on her thigh and needed to go to the hospital for surgery, and my cousin-in-law was very busy with work and couldn't take care of her mother-in-law.
The cousin went to discuss with the three eldest sisters and brothers, and asked them to take turns to take care of their mother-in-law for a period of time, but the three eldest sisters and eldest uncles were silent, and they were afraid that they would take their mother-in-law home and prick it into their own hands.
When my cousin saw that they were silent, she asked"What do you mean? Do you want your mother to come to your house? I've been serving my mother-in-law for eight years, and I haven't asked my mother-in-law to cook me a meal, and now I'm going to have surgery on my leg, so let her go to any of you's house for ten days and a half months, are you all so embarrassed? "
The eldest brother was the first to speak"My unit is too busy, and I often work night shifts, and your sister-in-law and my mother can't get along together, so it's not okay to go to my house. "
The eldest sister said:"My house is small, and my mother has nowhere to live. "
The second aunt said"My family runs a hotel, I have to do business, and I don't have time to take care of my mother. "
The third aunt said"I am married to the one in my family for the second time, I can't be the master at home, and your third brother-in-law will not agree to support my mother. "
My cousin was very angry and said:"In that case, then I'll go back to my mother's house for treatment, and you can arrange shifts to serve your wife. "Everyone stopped squeaking after listening to it.
After the cousin finished speaking, she went back to her parents' house, and after she recovered from her illness, the cousin proposed to take turns to support the elderly, and the aunt and uncle no longer passed the buck to each other.
It is our duty as children to support our parents.
Every child has the obligation to support his or her parents. Among the brothers and sisters, if the conditions are good, they can bear more.
But it cannot be said that all the responsibilities and obligations are put on one person's head.
The human heart is full of flesh, and it can be warm or cold.
When a person is wronged, he will also be cold!