When we were students, we would have a few classmates who had a good relationship with each other to spend a short time on campus together.
But after graduating from growing up together,Many students also parted for a long time because of their own futures
When we join the work and our lives are relatively stable, we will invite our former classmates to participate in class reunions together.
However, there is such a strange phenomenon in the party, 4 types of students must come whenever they are calledThe 3 types of students are not invited to come
So, what is behind this "strange phenomenon" in class reunions?What kind of reasonThis?
I always have good memories when I was a student, and the friendship at that time was very simple, and I could become a good friend as long as I talked about it.
And there are people with all kinds of personalities in a class, some students may be more lively, but some are comparativeSilent
They don't seem to be very good at socializing, and they have very few friends in the whole class, and they are even ignored in the class.
Therefore, some classes will organize some group activities, and they rarely take the initiative to participate, and even if they do, they remain silent.
It can be said that they do not have a close relationship with their classmates, so when they are invited to a class reunion, they will directly refuse.
Because even if they go, they will feel uncomfortableAnd there are no classmates who are too good, so I don't feel the need to participate
There is also a kind of student with strong self-esteem, whose living conditions are very average after graduation, and are not as superior as other students.
He will have a very low self-esteem, feeling that if he attends a class reunion, other classmates will laugh at him when they see his state.
And when attending class reunions, many people will talk to each other, but they don't have the "capital" they can get their hands on.
In order to avoid other people's jokes, they will choose to refuse to participate in class reunionsso as not to prevent yourself from entering an awkward situation
The last kind of classmates left are the classmates who have been targeted by the class, and the two may have friction because of something.
Another classmate will target her everywhere in her life, so she will feel very disappointed in this kind of friendship with her classmates.
When she received an invitation from her old classmates after graduation, she wouldI don't feel the need to maintain a relationship, so it will be ignored directly.
This kind of person feels very weak about the friendship between classmates, so even if the other party sends out repeated invitations, they will not choose to participate.
Except for these three types of students, they will refuse to participate, but for the other four groups, their attitude towards participation is very enthusiastic.
So, why would they be so willing to go to class reunions? What are the four types of students?
I believe that when every little friend was a student, there was a person in the class with very good conditions, and they were all dressed by famous brands.
Maybe when we go to school, we don't pay much attention to who dresses better, as long as we can keep clean clothes.
At that time, it may only be a comparison of learning, as long as someone is better at studying in the class, thenWe really wanted to be friends with her
When we grow up, we realize that the reason why we want to study well is to have a good job and income.
But for those students with better conditions, they have far surpassed those who struggle in material life.
So I was very happy to receive an invitation from my former classmates again, after all, I could show my worth.
In the past, I may not have had a sense of presence in the class, but now the abundant materials will make my classmates very envious.
When they go to class reunions, they will dress very brightly, so that they canGet more compliments from your classmates
However, in addition to this kind of students with better family conditions, there is also a kind of students who are very "fun".
It can be said that they do not have much success in their careers, and the family conditions they live in are very ordinary.
But they are very fond of joining in the fun, wanting to see how their classmates are developing and whether there is any new gossip.
This type of person may have been in school for a long timeVery fond of joining in the fun, I want to find out about all kinds of gossip.
In the face of the invitation of their former classmates, they are very willing to participate and want to see the living conditions of their classmates.
In this way, they can add some fun to their ordinary lives, after all, people who love to be lively like to be lively.
There is also a type of person who has a very strong sense of vanityNo matter how good your life is, you will perform very well
They are very fond of "bragging" about their lives, and always exaggerate some small things.
When they enter the society, if they receive an invitation from their old classmates, they will be very active and enthusiastic to participate.
In the conversation of the class reunion, they will blow themselves very hard in order to gain the envy of other students.
When they receive compliments from their classmates, it can be saidGreat satisfaction of vanity, it will also make them feel very presence.
The last one is comparisonPeople who value feelingsWhen they were students, they had a very good relationship with other classmates.
I also left a good memory when I was a student, and when I got to work, it was like reuniting with other classmates.
Let's look back at the friendships they had, so when they receive an invitation to a class reunion, they are very willing to participate.
Every friend has received an invitation to a class reunion in their lives, but there is still a lot of controversy about this kind of party.
Some friends feel that it is very necessary to participate in class reunions, but some people think soThere is simply no need
So should we attend the invitation to the class reunion?
Many people are very entangled in whether to participate in class reunions, after all, we will all encounter them in life.
Some friends feel that there is no need to participate in class reunions, after all, classmates have not been in touch with each other for many years.
And when people reach middle age,There are obvious differences in the status of each student, which inevitably makes people jealous
There are even people who can better save face at class reunions, so to speak, think of various ways to package themselves.
I don't know if you've heard of it."Rent a car"There are no fewer people who attend class reunions, and there are no longer a few incidents.
If a person uses false appearances to make his former classmates identify with him, then such a party is meaningless.
There will be some people who feel that the class reunion is one".Hate the poor and love the richSo there is no point in participating in the show.
The original intention of holding a class reunion was to miss the friendship of the past, but now the class reunion,Many people feel that it has changed its taste
Now that we have matured and grown up, we will not look at the friendship of our former classmates with a simple heart.
For the good memories of our student days, it can be said that it is better to miss each other, and it will always be cherished in our hearts.
For example, when we were students, there would be some boys who had a good impression, and the boys were very handsome when they were students.
But when we met, we found that the boy who used to be had deteriorated into a greasy uncleThe original good impression just disappeared
There are also some students who are developing well, and it can be said that when they attend the party, there will be a lot of people who want to ask for help.
If we refuse, he will feel that he is not taking it as his true friend, and will use it".Friendship"Conduct morality**.
But if we agree, it can be said that more people will ask us to do this, which will cause a lot of unnecessary trouble.
However, some people disagree very much, they feel that participating in class reunions is a good memory of their student days.
Because when we enter the workplace, we will feel that the relationship between colleagues is very complicated, and the relationship between classmates is not simple.
And then we'll slowly miss this wonderful friendshipSo I want to participate in the class reunion and relive the good old days
And there is a certain understanding between classmates, so when we participate in class reunions, we can also use the exchange of resources.
After all, the work content of each student is basically different, so the resources in the field they are good at are also different.
In this way, when we participate in class reunions, we can not only miss the good times together, but also each otherIntroduce resources
Regardless of which view it is, there is no right or wrong, we just need to participate according to our hearts.
If we had a very good relationship with our classmates when we were students, then we could go to a class reunion.
But I feel the relationship with my classmatesIt's very thinIf we feel that there is no need, then we can choose to refuse.
After all, we go to class reunions to make ourselves happier, and there is no point in participating if we are not happy.
Therefore, friends can choose according to their hearts, and the most important thing is to make yourself happy compared to class reunions.
In our class reunions, the students who mix well are very willing to participate, but the students who mix poorly will not want to go.
But whether we participate or not, don't put too much pressure on ourselves, after all, only the best thing is to live well.
And to participate in the class reunion is to remember the friendship of the past, and if there is no friendship between classmates, it is meaningless to participate.
So those of you who have read the article, if you receive an invitation to the reunion of your old classmates, will you participate?
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In order to facilitate the reader's understanding, the characters and examples in the article are all fictional creations, which are intended to simplify the complex and lead people to goodness