Hello, I'm Sugar.
Zhang Xiaoxian wrote in "Please Love at Least One Man Like a Man":
As a woman, you can be simple, but not stupid, you can be heartless, but not brainless, you can be stupid, but don't be really stupid. ”
A woman in love will always habitually ask the man next to her: Do you really love me?
If she gets the answer she wants, she will be overjoyed. However, true love is never just words, but is reflected in the relationship between two people.
Love or not, no need to ask. Men have these three distinct characteristics, which are the manifestations of loving you.
01 Enough security.
I've seen a story. A man's ex-wife always comes to pester a man after he remarries, and she also finds a sense of existence in front of the man's current wife. Make the current wife look like a superfluous.
However, the man gave the current wife enough security.
The ex-wife is now taking care of the man's sick mother, and the man mocks the ex-wife as a nanny.
The ex-wife complained that the current wife didn't know how to clean up, and the man accused the ex-wife of my wife for not needing outsiders to point fingers.
The ex-wife took the opportunity to celebrate her daughter's birthday and asked the man to get back together with her in front of the man's current wife, but the man couldn't bear it anymore and roared that the ex-wife's family would never come back.
If a man wants to be happy with a woman for a long time, he will give the woman enough security to prove that she is his preference and firm choice.
02 The pampering of happiness.
I once watched a paragraph**. Men and women attend a friend's party together. Men chatted with their friends, while women buried their heads in eating.
The woman's hair was long and fluttering, and when she buried her head, her hair would always fall out, and the woman had to hold her hair with one hand.
Seeing this, the man got up and walked to the service desk, and when he returned to the table, he had an extra rubber band in his hand. Naturally, the man walked around the woman and helped her tie up her hair that was scattered on both sides.
The man and the woman did not communicate during the whole process, and the woman did not show surprise. The man's natural and skillful movements can be seen that this is not the first time he has done such a thing.
I have read a sentence: The highest state of a man's spoiling of a woman is to be careful and attentive.
It is true that delicate minds are not the preserve of women. Men love their women, and they will also give women ubiquitous care and pampering in subtleties.
03 I don't want you to be wronged.
There's a story like this. Because of work, men can't see women every day, but men will go to women every other day, which is their untouchable agreement.
One day, it was time for them to meet, but on this day the man had to go to a relative's house for dinner, so he didn't have time to go to the woman. The woman was very lost.
When a man sends a message to a woman during a meal, the woman turns a blind eye, and the man calls the woman ** and learns that the woman sulks because the two of them can't meet.
The woman was absentmindedly watching a TV series at home, and the doorbell suddenly rang, and the woman opened the door to see the man's handsome face.
The woman exclaimed, "Why are you here?" ”
The man said, "If I don't come again, you'll be angry." ”
In a word, all the grievances and sadness in the woman's heart were resolved.
The person who loves you will not let you be sad alone, no matter when, he will hold you in the palm of his hand, take care of you with his heart, and do not let you suffer the slightest grievance.
Conclusion: Kazuo Inamori once said:
For a man who truly loves you, actions are always more heartwarming than promises. ”
It takes a lot of effort to say a lot of love words, but it takes a lot of thought to take action.
Although there are many ways to express love, the man who is willing to take practical actions for you is the man who is worthy of your heart.
Love, in its truest form, is giving.
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