The two disputed women in front of her are the mother Fu Yuemei and the eldest daughter Lin Fei, Fu Yuemei was angry at this time, she even picked up the fire extinguisher in her daughter's store, and wanted to do it to her daughter, and her eldest daughter did not show weakness, and even used divorce to threaten her mother
Fu Yuemei temporarily lives in the security room where her brother works, and she and her brother's daughter and grandson are crammed into a single bed in the small attic of the security room, which is obviously not a long-term solution.
Fu Yuemei has been working as a nanny all year round, she has been living in her employer's house for many years, as she grows older, her health is not as good as before, she wants to go home more and more, but when she quit her job and went home, there is no place to stay. Fu Yuemei obviously has two daughters, why is she unwilling to support her mother?
Fu Yuemei took the reporter to the eldest daughter's shop, and the eldest daughter Lin Fei saw her mother coming, but she didn't want to take a second look, so she turned around and avoided. The eldest son-in-law, Zhang Tao, said that this is not the first time that her mother-in-law has come to the door, she often comes to the door**, and she has also mediated with other TV programs before. In his words, Zhang Tao was very disgusted with this mother-in-law, but Fu Yuemei said that her eldest daughter was unfilial and unwilling to accept her as a mother.
Zhang Tao told reporters that they have been taking care of their mother-in-law, contributing money and efforts when they are sick, and will give her living expenses, no place to live, and rent a house for her, and Zhang Tao is also helping her deal with the lawsuit, but no matter what they do, the mother-in-law is always dissatisfied, can't see their efforts, and will only pick bones in eggs. For this reason, the mother and daughter often quarrel, and if they disagree, the mother-in-law will pack up and leave, no matter how he tries to keep it, it will not help.
Fu Yuemei was very annoyed by Zhang Tao's statements, she complained that the filial piety of her eldest daughter and son-in-law was superficial, in fact, the rent of renting the house was her own money, Zhang Tao just helped her find a house, and Fu Yuemei also said that her eldest daughter and son-in-law were unwilling to live with her from the bottom of their hearts.
Zhang Tao told reporters frankly that he really didn't want his mother-in-law to live too close to him, for fear that she would often affect his business, but considering that he could take care of him, he still found him a nearby house. At this time, Zhang Tao broke out a hidden secret, it turned out that Fu Yuemei divorced her husband when Lin Fei was 8 years old, and Lin Fei has been living with her father since the divorce, while her mother has been wandering around, and she does not have much affection for her mother.
Zhang Tao said that now his mother-in-law is clamoring to sell her house in the countryside and pursue a life in the city. So what is Fu Yuemei's house like in the countryside? Is it possible to buy a new house in the city if you sell it? What about her little daughter in **?
The mother remarried four times, abandoned her two daughters, and came to her daughter to support her in her later years. Coming to Fu Yuemei's old house, the area here is very large, and the house is not very dilapidated, if it is renovated, it is still very suitable for the elderly to live for the elderly. Fu Yuemei thinks that she will feel lonely when she lives alone in a big house, she has been used to the hustle and bustle of the city for many years, due to the divorce from her ex-husband at that time, she only got the first floor, and her ex-husband still lives on the second floor, so she is even more reluctant to live here.
Zhang Tao did not agree with his mother-in-law to sell the house, he was worried that when his mother-in-law was too old to move, she could still come back here to serve her, and it would be convenient for her to handle her aftermath here, not to mention that the money to buy a house in the city was far from enough to sell this floor of the house. At this time, Fu Yuemei said the reason why she wanted to sell the house, it turned out that she wanted to sell the house just to be angry with her eldest daughter. He also said that he had money in his hands after selling the house, and when he was old, he asked a nanny to take care of himself.
Fu Yuemei's marriage was bumpy, she married a total of four times, the first husband was the father of the eldest daughter, and divorced due to emotional disagreement, the second husband was the father of the youngest daughter, and divorced because the other party was lazy, the third husband died of illness, and the fourth husband simply used her to take care of the sick father, and they fought a lawsuit for seven or eight years in order to divorce. She didn't have true happiness for years, she worked outside as a nanny, shining shoes, and picking up garbage. So why is the youngest daughter unwilling to support her?
30-year-old Qin Xue is her youngest daughter, she is as indifferent as her sister when she sees her mother, Qin Xue said that she did not support her mother, she invited her mother to her home to celebrate the New Year together, but she did not invite her mother, Fu Yuemei retorted that the reason why she did not go to her youngest daughter's house for the New Year was because her little son-in-law did not like her.
Because Qin Xue's husband was married for the second time, he was strongly opposed by Fu Yuemei before they got married, and the little son-in-law also hated Fu Yuemei and was unwilling to interact with her more. Now that Qin Xue and her husband have been married for many years, her mother still blames Qin Xue every time she sees her, because Qin Xue's family's money is in the hands of her son-in-law, and Qin Xue has no right to speak at home. Her mother's long-term accusations made Qin Xue even more disgusted with her mother, and there was gradually a gap between mother and daughter.
At this time, Fu Yuemei broke down again, she bluntly said that she wanted to break off the relationship with her two daughters, but the younger daughter was extremely calm, and even said amazing words, Qin Xue said that her mother had already asked her to sign a letter to sever the relationship between mother and daughter. Fu Yuemei made the decision without authorization and wanted her eldest daughter to inherit the real estate in her hometown, and the eldest daughter would support her alone in the future, so she broke off the relationship with her younger daughter, because she knew that her youngest daughter could not be the master at home, and it was impossible to expect her youngest daughter to support her for the elderly.
However, the two sisters have different interpretations of their mother's approach, the eldest daughter thinks that her mother only allows her to support her old age because she feels sorry for her sister, while the younger sister thinks that her mother only gave the old house to her sister and cut off the relationship with her, which is clearly towards her sister. However, Qin Xue was still willing to discuss her mother's maintenance with her sister. So, is Lin Fei willing to sit down and negotiate this time?
The mother abandoned her 8-year-old daughter and remarried four times, and begged her daughter for support in her later years, the daughter was extremely bored with this mother and was unwilling to communicate, especially the eldest daughter Lin Fei was even more disgusted, and the mother took the younger daughter to Lin Fei for mediation. Lin Fei turned a blind eye to her mother, did not want to pay attention to it, and even threatened not to know her mother.
Fu Yuemei was very annoyed when she saw her daughter's attitude, she had a fierce dispute with her daughter in the store, and after the dispute, Lin Fei went up to the second floor, and she didn't want to talk more. Fu Yuemei was even more emotional, she planned to write a suicide note on the door of her daughter's shop with a stroke of her pen, but was finally stopped by reporters.
Seeing Fu Yuemei again, she lay on the bed and said that she was unwell, and she didn't want to recognize her eldest daughter, the reporter saw that Fu Yuemei was unwell, so she bought her a box lunch, Fu Yuemei was very moved, and even wanted to recognize the reporter as her daughter, and finally saw her smile in the past few days.
In the dead of night, Fu Yuemei wrote a lot of words, including life essays, pleadings and suicide notes, perhaps this is another way for her to pour out her emotions. The reporter met Lin Fei alone, and she said that in her mother's four marriages, her mother had a strong personality, and many times it was not the other party's fault, but her own problem. Lin Fei also picked up her mother three times to live with her, but the mother and daughter often quarreled over trivial matters, and they broke up three times.
When Fu Yuemei divorced her last husband, she sued through the court, in order to fight the lawsuit, for more than seven years, the eldest son-in-law has been helping to deal with it, and finally won half a property for Fu Yuemei, but she didn't expect Fu Yuemei not only not to appreciate it, but also accused them of not doing things well. Fu Yuemei also often accused Lin Fei of not arranging her half-sister Qin Xue to come to the city.
Lin Fei was very aggrieved by this, she was just an ordinary worker back then, and she didn't have that much ability to arrange her sister. Lin Fei's husband took out some letters, which Lin Fei wrote to his mother many years ago, and the words were all longing and calling for maternal love, but Lin Fei did not feel much maternal love, and now that he is middle-aged, Lin Fei saw these letters again, and seemed to have a different understanding of maternal love, and she threw away all the letters without hesitation.
Fu Yuemei mentioned her marriage experience, she burst into tears, she bluntly said that no man in her life really loved her, and she never loved those four men, she always refused to admit that she was wrong in marriage, not only that, she thought she owed nothing to her daughters.
The youngest daughter said that she wanted to arrange a place for her mother to live, but her mother refused, she did not want to cause trouble for her younger daughter, she rented a dilapidated cottage in the city herself, and she planned to live alone. Lin Fei said that she also felt that her mother was pitiful, but their personalities were incompatible, and they were really not suitable to live together, and when her mother really needed her to take care of her, she was still willing to spend money to hire someone to take care of her mother.
Finally, I want to say that there must be a cause and an effect, Fu Yuemei is a strong woman, whether it is in marriage, or in the attitude towards her daughter, she is very tough, she never admits that she has a problem, let alone considers her daughter's feelings, so the daughters will feel that no matter how hard they work, they can't exchange a trace of gratitude and understanding from their mothers, such mothers are really chilling. However, the two daughters have done a good job, and they are still willing to support their mother regardless of their mother's condition!