Accompanying children to do homework is a headache, in fact, it is not the child's problem, but the parents do not help the child to do these things.
Parents can use the right methods to get their children through homework problems.
In the past, I was most afraid of accompanying my children to do homework, and every time I accompanied the writing, I would be angry, either going to the toilet, drinking water, or being hungry.
In short, a lot of problems, looking at the loss of time, it is extra irritable.
Finally, in the book, I read that the child was procrastinating, and it was only when the parents did not grasp the correct method that I began to change the strategy.
When I used the correct method, the child's homework was immediately efficient, and then I realized that compared to the nagging of parents.
The most important thing is to use the right method for children, because in many cases, it is not the child who deliberately grinds and disobeys, but the nature of people.
Since we understand our nature, we should not let our children go by nature, but set rules for them and let them play freely.
Here are 5 things that children need to do when they write their homework:
Exercise first after school and then write homework.
When the child starts school, do you take the child home directly, or let the child play for 30-40 minutes first, after different attempts.
It can be concluded that the child can write homework with peace of mind, and let her play first.
After a day at school, the child is bound by such and such rules, and finally ends school, thinking that he can have a good time.
But what awaits her is not play, but the next round of constraints and homework.
Therefore, even if I am forced to agree, I will not pay special attention when I do my homework, and I will be thirsty, hungry, and go to the toilet for a while.
Either the fingers are buttoned, the eraser is buttoned, in short, the soul is not there.
Clinical psychologist Lawrence has also mentioned:
If you want to improve your child's concentration, you can schedule an hour a day to do a self-regulating game – jumping.
In children, levels of serotonin, adrenaline, and dopamine all change after exercise.
Dopamine keeps children in a state of high learning;
Serotonin can help children release stress and improve memory;
Adrenal hormones can help children improve their ability to concentrate and concentrate more in class.
So, don't start doing your homework when your kids get home.
Let your child play for 30-40 minutes, you can skip rope or play ball, or go for a walk outside with your child, or play with your friends.
When the child releases the emotions and depression of the day, he will not always run outside and not focus on his homework when he comes home.
Let your child eat something before writing.
When you get home, let your child eat something, such as fruit or bread, so that his stomach is not empty, and he will not be hungry and thirsty when he writes his homework.
Eating is an important part of satisfying children's psychology, and if you don't eat, you always feel that something is missing, so you must let your child's emotions be soothed.
Don't eat too much, just eat some in moderation, too full children are easy to doze off, and it is easy to lead to skipping meals.
After the child has eaten, ask her if she has eaten and drunk well, go to the toilet, and write her homework in 3 minutes, and everything is done.
That's when the child understands in his heart that I'm going to do my homework soon.
When writing homework, set rules.
I can't move for 30 minutes in the process of writing homework, I can't look up the dictionary if I can't look up the words, read the big questions 3 times first, think about it, and then find my mother if I don't know how to do it after thinking.
When there are clear rules and instructions, the child may not be as comfortable at the time, but after a few times, the child will slowly get used to it.
This not only cultivates the child's independence, but also develops his ability to concentrate and think, and the mother can also do some other things.
Give your child 20 minutes to review what they learned that day.
The review step seems meaningless, but in fact, he can let the child not have to keep turning the book during the homework process, and he will not just turn the book.
In fact, the most time-wasting thing is to review the classroom knowledge again.
Write out the inscriptions that you don't know.
If there are questions that you can't know, let the child write them out, and then focus on practice and review, and with continuous practice, the child can quickly grasp the difficult points.
After writing the check assignment, write down the wrong questions.
Check the homework yourself, read it 3 or 3 times, and if there is a mistake, write the wrong question and write it in the wrong question book, so that you can check it regularly.
Until you understand the wrong questions, you will continue to copy the wrong questions, and the wrong questions are the weak points of the child, and there is nothing to be careless.
I didn't make mistakes with my heart, in fact, the child didn't grasp it well, and the learning was not firm enough and not flexible enough, so it was necessary to strengthen the mastery.
Only in this way can we help children overcome their weaknesses one by one.
Write at the end: The best way to love children is to give them the right way to grow up on the road of their growth.
About the author: I am Tonglu's mother, a mother of the second child born in the 90s, I am very happy to meet you here, I am here, focusing on women's growth and parenting.
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