In recent days, the "second uncle" has swiped the screen.
It's not because he makes a lot of money, and he's not particularly capable, but because "Three Days Back to the Village, Second Uncle Healed My Mental Internal Friction" has been sought after by everyone.
The second uncle was born in the countryside, and when he was a teenager, he was given four injections because of a high fever, and he was left with a disability - his feet were no longer sharp, and he had to walk with crutches.
He never married and earned his living by teaching himself carpentry. There is an adopted daughter who has grown up to be married. He paid more than 100,000 yuan for his adopted daughter to buy a house in the city, but he still lived in the countryside.
In order to take care of his elderly mother, the second uncle bought three wheels. From now on, no matter where you go, you have to take your mother with you.
Most of the young people in the village have gone out to earn a living, and the second uncle has become the person the villagers rely on the most. The electrical appliances in the villagers' homes are broken, and the doors and windows are broken. The first thing I think of is my second uncle.
Hu Xijin, a special commentator for the Global Times, said"In life, it is pain to open up happiness, and it is happiness to open up pain. ”
In this life, who does not have a little setback, in the end, he has to find a reason to comfort himself and insist on self-healing.
If you have spiritual internal friction, then look at the life of the "second uncle" and find the key to life.
First, kindness: but do good deeds, and leave the rest to God.
The ancients said, "But do good deeds, don't ask about the future." ”Try to do good deeds, and as for whether there is a reward or not, don't care;Don't worry about what will happen in the future. It seems that this logic makes many people unconvinced. After all, everyone is worried about the unexpected.
It's nothing, good things are done during the day, and dreams are sweet at night. If you are kind all your life, nothing terrible will happen. Just like a mantra - Ji people have their own natural appearance.
Filial piety comes first. A person's attitude towards his parents is the luck of his life.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, Zi Lu, a student of Confucius, often worried that his parents would not eat well, so he walked to the market hundreds of miles away to buy rice. In winter, when I walk in the snow and my feet are cold, I trot a few stepsWhen your hands are cold, put them in your mouth to warm them. In the summer, when it rains heavily, I put the rice in my clothes to avoid the rain.
After the death of his parents, Zilu went to the state of Chu. The king of Chu made him an official.
Liu Xiang, a writer from the Western Han Dynasty, praised Zilu"The poor and the elderly do not choose to do anything. ”
Heaven has the virtue of a good life", if you are kind, then God will bless you. Starting from caring for parents, to caring for everyone around us, caring for the whole society.
Perhaps, the "second uncle" in ** didn't know the allusion of "Zilu Negative Rice", but he did it. He also regarded the old people of the village as his own family.
In Faust, it is written: "A good man, even if he is confused in his pursuit, will eventually realize that there is a right way." ”Kind people, soft in heart, gentle in their eyes, sincere in their treats, like flowing water, benefiting all things without fighting, how can there be any internal friction?
Second, let go: don't think about the past, the future will always be better.
Looking back, who has no scars in their lives, visible or invisible.
The physical wound is on the skin, and it will get better after a while. The invisible scar is in the heart, in the spirit, so it is uncomfortable for a long time.
**There is a very inspirational sentence in "Alive": "People, no matter how much you suffer when you are alive, you will think of a way to comfort yourself when you are about to die." ”
** The "second uncle" wrote in his notebook: "Make up your mind, not be afraid of sacrifice, overcome all difficulties, and strive for victory." ”It is not difficult to find that after being crushed by fate, the second uncle was confused, and then completely sobered up. There are many ways to live, but you don't have to choose your own way of life. Only by standing up on your own will you get better. Others can pull you up, but they can only pull up your body, not your spirit.
There is a way that if you don't think about the past, you won't be afraid of the future.
When a person is having a hard time, look forward. It is night at the moment, and then the next time will enter the dawn; It's evening at the moment, so you can see the stars and the moon every few moments.
The sun rises, the moon sets, the cycle goes on and on, all of them are beautiful. If you don't think it's beautiful, it's because your spirit has paused, life has pressed the pause button, and you don't know where to go.
In real life, the lives of many rural people are similar to those of the "second uncle": they make a living by farming and growing vegetables, and occasionally raise a pig. The house is very simple, and I don't have tens of thousands of dollars in savings for my life.
If you don't like life, then you live in a "bad room"; If you love life, then you have the feeling of "Burrow". Whether it's good or bad, it's just a thought.
Third, accept fate: conform to the times, and life will naturally be smooth.
The ancients said: "One foot in life, not one zhang." ”
There will be what should be, and even if you refuse, there will still be.
People with rich spirit are recognizing their fate; People who have spiritual internal friction are resentful of fate.Understand that fate will not change for the better just because you complain a few words; It's that you toss a few times and it gets better.
A person with a handicap can rely on his feet, pedal a tricycle, and sing all the way; A person with a disability in his feet can walk with the help of crutches and can also work with his hands. If you can't use your hands and feet, then use your brain, your eyes, and your smiling face.
**The "second uncle" has been accepting new things since the day he learned carpentry. Repairing electrical appliances, making dowries, driving tricycles, repairing mobile phones. It seems that there is no one who he won't.
The living environment is very backward, but life must catch up with the times, and the spirit must surpass the times.
A philosopher said, "Even in a small ditch, you still have the right to look up at the starry sky." ”Those who are always unhappy and resentful of society are not that they can't live anymore, but that they simply don't look up at the stars and give up the right to change their fate.
The times want to abandon a person, and they will not hit one when they greet them; The times want to help a person, but in fact, that person is "self-crossing".
"Second Uncle" is a microcosm, you and me, him and her, middle-aged and elderly.
We've read books, we've got our hands working, our feet walking, our brains are good, and we're standing on the busy streets, so what's there to complain about?
We have a pension, our children have jobs, our houses are in high-rise buildings, we have some savings, we can square dance when we go out, what is there not to be satisfied with?
We have the love of our parents, the teaching of our teachers, the distance to worry about, the companions holding hands, the food and clothing, what is so sad?
Don't "internal friction", from tomorrow, be a happy person, feed horses, chop wood, and travel the world. Give every river and every mountain a warm name, stranger, and I bless you too.