"I'm all for your good, I'm your dad, can I hurt you? ”It is said that parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans. However, there are too many "Chinese-style parents" in China, who satisfy their desire for control under the banner of being good for their children.
In 1999, Dai Liu, the top student in the college entrance examination in Huanggang, Hubei Province, was secretly changed by his father. I missed out on the Peking University of my dreams.
So, which school did Dai Liu's father fill in for her? What should she do after Dai Liu's volunteer was changed?
In 1980, Dai Liu was born in a family of intellectuals in Huanggang, Hubei.
Dai Liu's parents both had decent jobs and were one of the few literate people of that era. Dai Liu's mother is a teacher and his father is an editor.
This also led to Dai Liu being shrouded in a strong cultural atmosphere since he was a child. Under the influence of his parents, Dai Liu loved to read. She was fascinated by Chinese culture, so she wanted to be admitted to Peking University and study at one of China's top universities since she was a child.
For this reason, Dai Liu worked very hard when he was in school. She is also very talented in the subject of language, and has won many prizes in language-related competitions.
After graduating from junior high school, Dai Liu successfully entered Huanggang Middle School with his excellent grades.
Although the reputation of Huanggang Middle School is slightly inferior to that of Hengshui Middle School in Henan, its teachers and education quality are the first in Huanggang.
Huanggang Middle School is also full of talents, and after Dai Liu entered high school, he really felt the tense learning atmosphere in the class.
But Dai Liu is like a sardine that has been stimulated, and under heavy pressure, his academic performance has jumped up. In the first year of high school, Dai Liu's grades left off his classmates. Stable occupies the first place in the grade.
Dai Liu's teacher also thinks that Dai Liu has great potential, and he is definitely able to impact the provincial champion in the college entrance examination.
Three years of hard study is not short, but it is not long. Dai Liu takes the phrase "Starlight lives up to the passerby" as her motto, and she firmly believes that as long as she can persevere, her efforts will not be disappointed.
Sure enough, after the results of the college entrance examination came out in 1999. Dai Liu's results have lived up to her three years of hard work. In the college entrance examination with a full score of 750 points, Dai Liu scored 687 points, and Dai Liu successfully became the female champion in Huanggang, Hubei!
Dai Liu cried with joy when she saw the results, she knew that she had finally been admitted to the coveted Peking University. I was able to continue my studies at Peking University.
At that time, it was far less convenient to fill in the college entrance examination than it is now. The online application method has only been popularized since 2010.
In 1999, the college entrance examination volunteers were uniformly issued by the school, and then the students filled in and handed back to the school, and finally the school declared it uniformly.
Every year, when filling in the volunteers, a large number of students take their parents to inquire about the school's score line, and then think about how to fill in the best possible application without wasting a single point.
But as the top student in the college entrance examination, Dai Liu naturally does not have these troubles. Her score has already built a Yangguan Avenue to Peking University for her.
After getting the admissions ** given to him by the teacher, Dai Liu carefully filled in all his information. She carefully wrote the words Peking University on her first choice.
After writing it, Dai Liu seemed to have seen Peking University beckoning to her. She happily ran home to share the good news with her parents.
One month after filling in the volunteers, major colleges and universities began to distribute admission notices one after another. Dai Liu is at home every day and hopes that the postman will come to the door as soon as possible, so that he can see the admission letter of Peking University as soon as possible.
Finally, after Dai Liu's day and night thoughts, the postman finally knocked on Dai Liu's door.
Under the congratulations of the postman, Dai Liu excitedly accepted his admission letter. However, as soon as Dai Liu looked down at his notice, he was immediately stunned, this admission letter turned out to be China University of Political Science and Law!
Dai Liu was very puzzled, she obviously did not fill in the China University of Political Science and Law, why was it the admission letter of China University of Political Science and Law?
Could it be that the postman delivered the wrong one? She immediately checked the mailing address, but the information on the cover of the acceptance letter was indeed her name and address.
Dai Liu panicked, she hurriedly called the Education Bureau, asking to check whether her volunteer information filling form was entered incorrectly.
However, after the inquiry, the staff clearly informed Dai Liu that her first choice was China University of Political Science and Law, and there was no mistake in the entry by the staff of the Education Bureau.
Dai Liu had a faint guess in her heart, could it be that someone changed her will?
But who would do this to her? Dai Liu was puzzled, so she called her teacher another ** and asked if anyone on her volunteer form had done anything after she turned it in.
But what the teacher told Dai Liu made Dai Liu never believe that the one who changed Dai Liu's wish was none other than Dai Liu's father.
After Dai Liu found out, he was speechless for a long time. It was obviously the height of summer, but Dai Liu felt that his hands were colder than in winter.
On the same day, after Dai Liu's father returned home, Dai Liu and her father broke out into a fierce quarrel.
Dai Liu asked his father why he had to change his mind without his consent. Why should he not care about his efforts for so long as if they were garbage.
But Dai Liu's father felt that Peking University, which Dai Liu filled in, was not easy to employ at all, and he told Dai Liu that he was for Dai Liu's good, and he would not harm her.
Dai Liu's father said that China University of Political Science and Law is not only a 211 university, but also a platoon. Moreover, students who graduate from China University of Political Science and Law can find a good job.
In the face of Dai Liu's father's self-righteous words, all of Dai Liu's questions seemed so weak. For the first time, she realized that this was her father, a father who controlled her life in the name of doing good for her.
Dai Liu didn't have the heart to question, and went back to the room to cry silently. The fact is already like this, no matter how much you question, it can't be changed, and Dai Liu seems to have no other way but to cry.
Dai Liu thought to herself that she must stay away from this home in the future, so that her father has no way to intervene in her life.
The holiday passed quickly, and even if he didn't want to, Dai Liu packed his luggage and got into the bus to China University of Political Science and Law.
From the moment he stepped into the school gate, Dai Liu knew that he must escape from his father.
It's easy to get into college" is the biggest lie in the world. But the saying "it's easy to get into college" is very true.
Although in college, Dai Liu still gets up early and studies late, but she has a different feeling. Out of his father's sight, Dai Liu felt that his body and mind were greatly relaxed.
Dai Liu was no longer obsessed with not being admitted to Peking University, and she accepted her fate. But her resignation does not offset the resentment she has against her father in her heart.
Even if Dai Liu didn't say it, there was still a thorn hidden deep in her heart. Every time she communicates with her family, she can only talk to her mother. In the face of his father, the final result was only unhappy.
Dai Liu decided to study in South Korea when she was a senior, but when she told her parents, she met with strong opposition from her father.
Even though Dai Liu told them that she had completed all the formalities, Dai Liu's father still did not agree with Dai Liu to study abroad.
Dai Liu's father even locked Dai Liu in his home, ignoring Dai Liu's objections. Later, Dai Liu's mother relented and quietly released her daughter, so that Dai Liu could escape smoothly.
After this series of events, Dai Liu was completely heartbroken to his father. After going to South Korea, he only contacted his mother, and Dai Liu never went back to the home where he grew up.
Dai Liu has been gone for 20 years, although she sometimes misses her mother and wants to go home to see. But as soon as he thought of his father, Dai Liu let go of the idea of going home.
For Dai Liu, there has always been a thick gap between her and her father. She never figured out how there could be a father in the world who would treat his children like that.
Dai Liu sometimes wonders if his father will regret it, but the past cannot be traced, and Dai Liu will not indulge in the grief of the past. For Dai Liu, even though the past has given her pain, the road to the future is still bright.