If you want to say that ** is the best way to see reality, that is, the village heads and alleys during the New Year, different industries and different cities, from the elite to the grassroots, may be a village, and then in this time period of national celebration, return to your hometown, report your achievements and achievements for a year, and then accept the secular judgment and feel the warmth and coldness of human feelings. And one of the topics that will never go cold is marriage and love.
As a member of the post-90s army, he is not only a party group, but also a melon-eating player.
Life is difficult, and girls should help girls. In this article, cut melons and encourage each other.
The first melon, the protagonist we call him Xiao A, Xiao A gender male, household registration in a small village in Jiangsu, ordinary two bachelor's degrees, according to his parents is working in a state-owned enterprise in Shanghai, the monthly salary is not more than 10,000 yuan, the welfare is also average, there is a car without a house, height 180, and the appearance is mediocre. This condition is also very mediocre in the blind date market, and the blind date experience has been two or three years, and the people who say the matchmaker say that people are too honest and a little muna, and they are reluctant to spend money, so that they have not met the right one before this New Year. But according to rumors, he once released a bold saying, "Now sensible girls are very independent and will not spend boys' money." (Listen, it's like what some people say on the Internet.) ）
This year's Chinese New Year, according to the latest news from the Village Intelligence Bureau, "After being introduced, Xiao A has a girlfriend, and on Valentine's Day, he drove the girl to the city to play, and prepared a gold necklace as a gift." Many people may say that it is not very romantic, but you must know that Xiao A's previous blind date resume is that girls pay for meals and movies.
Could it be that Wang Ba looked at the mung beans and the iron tree bloomed?
Actually, it's not, it's just that I don't want to work hard for the rest of my life. Or the village mouth intelligence bureau news, his parents have already publicized that the girl's family has two suites in first-tier cities, and there are multiple shops and one suite in Jiangsu's hometown, no bride price is required for marriage, no need for a house, and there is a trace of pity in the proud words - that is, the girl is a little fat. And Xiao A also said that he had Valentine's Day before marriage, and this kind of holiday is nothing after marriage.
When I saw Xiao A himself, those who advocated on the Internet that independent women should not receive a bride price were suddenly concretizedIn their eyes, "independent women" are the shackles put on you, you have to prove yourself by not spending men's money, and you get more costs in marriage and love, all you get is a sentence, you are an independent woman in the new era. In fact, it's not that they don't have money, they don't like independent women, they just think you don't deserve to let him spend money. (If you really don't have money yet, it's even worse, you don't have money yourself, and you choose morality to kidnap others!?.)）
There are a lot of small A, but in fact, it is still relatively easy to distinguish, but there are still some traps of "independent women" to keep your eyes open.
One of the most typical is sibling love. How many people are advocating sibling love, both men and women. Those men who advocate sibling love, their lines are that their sisters are gentle and sensible, can make money, and do not need them to provide emotional value, and they are good-looking. This calculation is so successful that capitalism thinks it is a good deal.
And for women, what do you get?
The younger brother is handsome, the younger brother will be spoiled, and the younger brother is in good health? Not necessarily. Handsome regardless of age, there is a scarce resource; There are too many coquettish boys, and they are not exclusive to younger brothers; Finally,The younger brother's health is not necessarily good, after all, good health is talent + nurture, and it is also a scarce resource.
But most of the younger brothers who are looking for their sister are interested in their sister's maturity and independence, so it means that he wants to pay less, which is a high probability, and the relationship is a two-way rush, it is a mutual pay, and he enters the relationship with a game mentality, so he feels that he will exit the day of the loss.
The rise of feminism is also the awakening of women's consciousness, and even resistance, we want to write our own heroine script too much, so many women subconsciously feel that talking about an object younger than themselves is a victory. But this is typical of male thinking.
What is an independent woman?
An independent woman should be independent in my thinking, independent in my personality, I can make my own decisions, take responsibility for my actions, I eat on my own ability, my existence, my value does not depend on anyone's approval and exists, I don't need to prove to anyone that I am an independent woman, just like no man will prove that he is an independent man.
So stop advocating independent women in marriage and love, women should be self-reliant, but there is no need to prove it to anyone.
ps: Never overturn a boatload of people with a rod, I hope that every sincere person can get good results, regardless of gender.
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