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Bingxin.com veterans will go home for the Spring Festival of the Year of the Dragon in 2024, mainly to accompany the elderly at home for the New Year, and by the way, go to relatives' houses to visit and greet relatives! When I visited my relatives, I saw many left-behind elderly people who were at home for the New Year, and I was very emotional, and I mainly felt a few points:
First, the elderly left behind in rural areas have children, but they are very lonely. This time, I went to the homes of relatives in the countryside to pay New Year's greetings, and I saw some elderly people who insisted on celebrating the New Year in the countryside, they had children and daughters, but no one accompanied them to celebrate the New Year! The main reason is that the children who work in the city have their own families, and the children are used to the city. In addition, there is no holiday Chinese New Year's Eve today, and some of the children have to go to work on this day, so they will not return to the township after discussion. It stands to reason that in the past, the family would go to the countryside for a few days during the New Year's holidays. Slowly, the Spring Festival only comes back once every other year. This year, several relatives and children did not come back, and invited the old man to go back to the city for the New Year, but the old man was reluctant to go, so he had to let the old man spend the New Year alone in the countryside.
Second, the left-behind elderly in rural areas do not leave home, but they are very contradictory. The elderly left behind in rural areas do not leave home, and in the final analysis, they are nostalgic for rural life. They feel that the air is good, they can grow vegetables, and they are very free in the countryside! In fact, in addition to these living habits, the difficulty of leaving the homeland is also a fundamental one. As a native of the countryside, the veteran of Bingxin.com also has this complex, and feels that rural life still has an indescribable comfort! In the city, the atmosphere is bustling, life is convenient, and everything is very comfortable, which is the favorite group lifestyle of human beings. Especially now that the advantageous resources such as medical care and education in rural areas have been withdrawn or even dried up, it is difficult for the elderly to be left behind in rural areas, and in fact, they are also very conflicted.
Third, the left-behind elderly in rural areas are getting old, but they are very stubborn. Bingxin.com veterans believe that those who grew up in the city, once they arrive in the countryside, can't bear the loneliness, and will soon leave, after all, they rely on all the lifestyles of urbanization, which involves all aspects. The left-behind elderly in rural areas are getting old, their legs and feet are not dexterous, but their personalities are stubborn. I have heard in the countryside that many elderly people are dying at home, and their children outside do not know about it, and the result is very desolate! Among my relatives, there are also elderly people whose children are all outside, and they all say in unison, "Let's take one step at a time, and I gave many examples to persuade them." But they all stubbornly insisted on their own opinions, and they all made it clear that they would talk about it when the time came! Now the hollowing out of the countryside is indeed worrying, this is my deep experience of the Spring Festival!
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