Someone once said: Hu Ge can stand side by side with all women in the world, but Xue Jianing is the only one who occupies the heart. This couple may be an eternal knot in the hearts of many viewers. Because of his mother's opposition, Hu Ge had to part ways with Xue Jianing, who he had loved for many years, which also made him suffer the accusation of "Ma Bao Nan". And a car accident almost killed Hu Ge, it took him up to six and a half hours to get rid of the threat of life and death, and during this difficult period, Xue Jianing was his companion almost day and night.
Although Hu Ge's career is getting higher and higher, the two chose to separate in a low-key and peaceful manner. Many years later, when Hu Ge mentioned Xue Jianing again in a certain show, he fell into a long silence, and finally only said: "She is really good". Hu Ge's career is in full swing, especially the hit of "Flowers" has pushed his reputation to a peak. And Xue Jianing, who has been in love with him for many years, has chosen to retire.
What kind of love experience is there between Hu Ge and Xue Jianing? What kind of life is Xue Jianing living now? Xue Jianing has signed many advertisements and scripts with her image during college, which indicates that her future in the entertainment industry may be limitless. On campus, there are naturally many people who have a crush on Xue Jianing, even including the young Zhang Yi, who will revel in her beauty when they see Xue Jianing. Xue Jianing became completely popular in 2003 with "Pink Girl", and also got many starring opportunities. But what really changed her was the drama "Unparalleled in the World", because the actor Yuan Hong's friend was Hu Ge.
Hu Ge was not famous at that time, and Xue Jianing was already a famous star. Although there was a secret feeling in his heart, Hu Ge could only endure it silently. At that time, because of Yuan Hong, Hu Ge could often see Xue Jianing, and he longed to become a big star one day, so that he could have the courage to confess to her. The opportunity finally came, and a year later, Hu Ge became an instant hit with "Fairy Sword", but his confession ended in failure.
The reason is that Xue Jianing is four years older than him, and she thinks that the two may not be suitable in many ways. However, Hu Ge didn't care about any of this. After a long period of pursuit, Xue Jianing finally accepted him, and in 2006, their relationship was **. However, for Hu Ge's mother, what she wants is a woman who can take care of her son and take care of the housework. And Xue Jianing, who was at the peak of her career at the time, obviously did not meet the standards of her daughter-in-law in her mind. Therefore, for Hu Ge, Xue Jianing is destined to be the best ex-girlfriend. The two have been in love for about half a year, but a car accident suddenly befell Hu Ge. His assistant was killed on the spot, while Hu Ge was in danger and was rushed to the hospital. He suffered a severe blow all over his body, and more than 100 stitches were sutured in his right eye. This sudden accident is undoubtedly a huge blow to Hu Ge, who has just become popular. During that time, Xue Jianing put everything down and took care of Hu Ge wholeheartedly, accompanying him through the darkest moments.
In an interview, Hu Ge affectionately expressed that he had received Xue Jianing's meticulous care when he was at a low point, and she gave up her job and sacrificed a lot for him. However, what is surprising is that with Hu Ge**, the two chose to break up peacefully, and Hu Ge regretted not mentioning a specific person when he thanked all the people who supported him.
Although it was not explicitly stated, everyone knew that the person in Hu Ge's mouth was Xue Jianing. The ending of this relationship became a regret in Hu Ge's heart. What's even more unexpected is that after it was revealed that the reason for the breakup was because of Hu Ge's mother's opposition, netizens caused an uproar.
When Hu Ge fell into a trough, Xue Jianing was always by his side and took care of him meticulously. However, in the end, just because of his mother's opposition, Hu Ge had to give up Xue Jianing. This decision has attracted many accusations, with some people calling him a "mother-treasure man" and a "negative man".
However, Xue Jianing said in a later interview that during that time, due to the full work arrangement, she did not take care of Hu Ge much. Regarding the reason why Hu Ge and Xue Jianing broke up, perhaps only they themselves understand, this relationship was finally summed up by Hu Ge in six words: there is no way to make up for it.
In Hu Ge's heart, he also knew that he had missed an outstanding girl, but for some reason, the two were destined not to spend their lives together, and could only end up with regrets. They can't be lovers, they can't work together to build a future, but they still maintain a deep friendship with each other.
In a later reporter's question, when Xue Jianing frankly said whether she and Hu Ge would be together in the future, she replied indifferently: "We will always be good friends." As for whether she still likes Hu Ge after the breakup, she admitted that she still likes him, but that is just the special emotion between fans and friends. This relationship may no longer be lovers, but they have chosen to leave a strong and precious friendship in each other's lives.
The reporter asked again, if Hu Ge is your boyfriend, what do you think of him? Xue Jianing hesitated for a moment, and then replied with a smile: "It's good." In "Interview with Lu Yu", when Hu Ge mentioned Xue Jianing, he lowered his head and fell silent, as if recalling the past, and finally just said: "She is indeed very good." Lu Yu said at the time that with Hu Ge's current situation, Xue Jianing could be recovered, but was this really possible? Hu Ge just sighed deeply. After the breakup, the two barely crossed paths in front of the public until 2017, when Xue Jianing suddenly posted an article that shocked everyone. In those years, she put aside all her work, traveled the world, and finally found her inner home in Buddhism.
However, Hu Ge announced on January 31, 2023 that he was about to become a father, and emphasized that his wife was not a public figure. This news once again made many people feel sorry for Xue Jianing, but she seemed to be completely relieved. Xue Jianing is the only girlfriend that Hu Ge has publicly admitted, and Hu Ge is Xue Jianing's first love, and this relationship has left a deep memory and regret for them. Whenever Hu Ge becomes a hot search topic, Xue Jianing is often involved. In the comment area, netizens called for Xue Jianing from time to time, especially when Hu Ge announced that she was about to become a father, her comment area was flooded with blessings: "I hope you can find your own happiness and be happy as soon as possible." ”
Hu Ge actually has a child, this news is really surprising. The fans who were once full of expectations for their reunion are probably going to be disappointed. May he find true happiness.
The story between Hu Ge and Xue Jianing may be like a doomed regret. Perhaps, the passage of time is a fulfillment of them. They are just passers-by on each other's paths.
When mentioning each other, Hu Ge and Xue Jianing would only rush over. For them, that encounter is destined to become a lifetime memory. In the days to come, they will be okay and go their separate ways, and maybe one day, they will face the past calmly and be relieved.
Mountains and seas have a return date, and life has a meeting and parting. May they find their own destiny in their respective lives, let go of their chaotic minds, and move towards a better tomorrow.