For children, exams are a key way to test their learning results, and grades are also the best reward for children's hard work. If parents find that their child's grades have declined, they should not be too anxious, but should calm down and communicate with their children to see what the reasons for the decline in grades are, and then go to targeted solutions. So, how to communicate the decline in children's grades?
First, listen patiently to your child.
Seeing that the child's grades have declined, parents should not rush to blame the child and talk to the child about the truth, but first listen patiently to the child and be a listener. If you let the child say it himself, the child will say which question he would have done wrong because of sloppiness, next time he must read the question carefully and check it carefully after doing it; Which question can't be asked, the teacher didn't listen well when he talked about similar questions, he didn't practice to consolidate the knowledge points, and he must listen well in the future class, etc.
Second, work with your child to analyze the reasons for the decline in grades.
After all, children's understanding and evaluation of themselves are incomplete, and their own shortcomings are sometimes not visible, so they need the participation and help of parents. Analyze the reasons for the decline in grades with the child, in addition to the child's own words that he is not serious about doing the questions, and some knowledge points are not firmly grasped, parents should look at the test papers with the child to see what the child did wrong, whether he is really not serious, or really can't do it.
This is the case with our children, who are not interested in learning at all, so their grades have not been improvedIt wasn't until the later study planning in Tutu Classroom that the results were obviously much better, and there were actually tricks to each subject. The child is interested in learning, and the parents are finally relieved!
Then, encourage your child to keep trying.
Parents should let their children understand that the decline in test scores does not mean that their IQ is not good, or their learning ability is not enough, but it can only indicate that their learning status in the previous stage is relatively relaxed, they have spent too little time on learning, or they have not found a learning method that suits them. As long as you redouble your efforts in the later study and review and consolidate the knowledge points involved in the exam, you can fill in the loopholes in the study, completely get rid of the learning dilemma, and make progress in the next exam.
Finally, provide appropriate help and support.
As parents, we need to provide appropriate help and support to our children. It can help them solve the problems they encounter in learning and provide them with necessary learning resources and materials. At the same time, we should also pay attention to children's learning methods and skills to help them improve the efficiency and quality of learning. However, we should also be careful not to interfere too much with the child's learning and give them a certain amount of space and freedom.
How to communicate about the decline in children's grades? The main reason for the decline in children's grades
1. Partial grades. In junior high school, students do not have a subject, they all speak by the total score, even if there are individual courses that are biased, other courses can be appropriately made up, so that the gap between the total grades is not obvious, but after the second year of high school, because the child finally chose science, there are 2 courses that have always been the child's weakness, so there will be a decline in the total score.
2. Lack of interest and motivation to learn. Children's academic performance and intellectual development are closely related to their motivation to learn. If a child lacks interest and motivation in learning, it can be difficult to stay focused and proactive in learning. This may be because the learning task is too boring and uninteresting, or parents do not pay enough attention and support to their child's learning.
How to improve quickly if your child's grades are not good
1. Make a reasonable study plan
Having a reasonable study plan is the basis for improving your grades, first of all, you should arrange your study time reasonably every day to ensure that each subject has enough time to review and consolidate. Secondly, according to their actual situation, they should reasonably allocate the key points and difficulties of study, and study and practice in a targeted manner. Finally, it is necessary to regularly review and adjust the study plan, and adjust and optimize it according to the actual situation.
2. Return to textbooks
If children want to improve their grades, the most important thing is to understand the knowledge points in the textbook, and then do some targeted exercises to achieve the purpose of consolidating the knowledge. There are many students who feel that they understand the knowledge points of the text, but they lack the practice of exercises, so the process of solving the questions will be very slow during the exam, and they may only complete one question after completing two questions. For students in this situation, they can quickly improve their grades by doing more questions.
If parents can often say to their children: "Look how fast you do", "It's awesome, come on", "It's great, now I don't need to remind you", the child will be exposed to positive external stimuli, and the child will consciously remind himself to hurry up next time he does things in order not to disappoint his parents.