Zhang Lingxin, a performance artist who is loved by the public, successfully portrayed the role of "Jiang Yafei" in the TV series "Parents' Love", and performed "Xia Dong" brilliantly in "Langya Bang". At a young age, she showed her uninhibited personality.
If I have a crush on someone, I'll take the initiative. Although she was blunt, she chose her university professor Hu Yaozhi as her admirer.
What is even more unexpected is that after successfully attracting Hu Yaozhi's attention, she frankly expressed her concept to him: "We can start a relationship, but I have no interest in marriage and I don't plan to have children." In the future, we can enter the elderly care facility together. These remarks moved and helpless the affectionate Hu Yaozhi, thus starting a 16-year pursuit of love. But in the end, Hu Yaozhi let Zhang Lingxin understand a lesson.
Zhang Lingxin was born in Shanghai, and her grandfather, Zhang Fa, was a well-known film actor in the forties and fifties of the last century, famous for his works such as "Mother and Son", "Long Live the Wife", "Nightclub" and "Streets and Alleys". It's a pity that when it came to Zhang Lingxin's father's generation, for various reasons, he did not follow in the footsteps of his ancestors to enter the entertainment industry, nor did he expect his children to engage in acting careers. However, Zhang Lingxin decided to go out of her own way.
Since she was a child, Zhang Lingxin has shown a unique personality, she does not like to wear skirts, opposes the braids that her mother braided for her, and always maintains a refreshing style of short hair. While other little girls indulge in dolls and family role-playing games, she is fascinated by the story of "Journey to the West", admiring Sun Wukong's ability to travel freely around the world, and yearning for an unrestrained lifestyle.
She deeply touched her grandfather Zhang Fa and made him feel that modern girls should be confident and firm, not only have the courage to pursue, but also have to get rid of the shackles and change endlessly like Sun Monkey. Hearing this, his father frowned and warned Zhang Lingxin: "You have to keep the way you are, don't try to escape from my control." However, Zhang Lingxin eventually chose another path.
In order to change her personality, her parents decided to let her learn to dance, hoping that she would be exposed to different types of girls. But the results did not go as planned. Zhang Lingxin not only did not learn to be an elegant girl, but came up with the idea of becoming an actor.
After graduation, Zhang Lingxin insisted on being admitted to an acting school. Despite the opposition of her parents, her grandfather, who is nearly eighty years old, fully supports her. In this family atmosphere, her parents reluctantly agreed to her decision.
In fact, Zhang Lingxin's most ideal choice should be the Shanghai Theater Academy, which is convenient to be close to home and can also rely on his grandfather's relationship. However, she longed for freedom and wanted to get rid of the shackles of her parents, so she resolutely chose Beijing Film Academy and became a member of a group of outstanding classmates, including Huang Xiaoming, Chen Kun, Zhao Wei and others.
Before she left for Beijing, her father had a few rules. One of them is that you must discuss things and not make your own decisions, and the other is that you must concentrate on your studies during college and not get involved in feelings. Although Zhang Lingxin agreed, in fact, she didn't abide by any of them, not only fell in love in college, but also started a relationship with her teacher.
The one Zhang Lingxin loves in his heart is not an ordinary character. Shortly after she stepped onto the university campus, she heard that there was a male teacher named Hu Yaozhi, known as "Hu Dadao", who was notorious for his severity. There is even such a joke on campus: as long as you see Hu Yaozhi, people who are 100 meters away will run away, and people who are less than 50 meters away will choose to lie on the ground and pretend to be dead. These rumors reached Zhang Lingxin's ears, but they aroused her curiosity, but aroused some desire for challenge.
Zhang Lingxin came up with an idea to see the majesty of the "Hu Dadao" in person. Hu Yaozhi looks ordinary, not tall, but he shows extraordinary composure. Compared with Zhang Lingxin, he is 12 years older. After graduating from college, he did not immediately join the entertainment industry, but chose to stay in school and work as a line teacher. In addition, he is also a part-time actor and director, and has created film and television works such as "Ink Youth", "Call Me Three Sisters", and "Bone Language".
Zhang Lingxin secretly took a friend to sneak into Hu Yaozhi's class, wanting to take the opportunity to learn the real situation of this "Hu Dadao". It's better to be famous than to meet, Zhang Lingxin was completely conquered in Hu Yaozhi's class. Hu Yaozhi's voice was extremely magnetic, exuding a sense of majesty that was enough to hold the students' breath. In his class, no one dared to skip class, and the students remained silent.
In just a few days, Zhang Lingxin had an inexplicable emotion for Hu Yaozhi, but given that he was her teacher, she had to bury this heartbeat in her heart. It wasn't until she participated in the performance of "Never Look Away" that she made up her mind to take the initiative to attack Hu Yaozhi.
When he was working part-time in the crew of the TV series "Never Look Away", when the other girls were cheering for Lu Yi's handsomeness, Zhang Lingxin's heart was biased towards Hu Yaozhi. She was engrossed in her work, and only Hu Yaozhi was in her mind. Her calm attitude caught the director's attention, so she was chosen to play Lu Yi's first love, Zheng Wenyan.
This drama made Zhang Lingxin the focus of the class all of a sudden, and it also enhanced her self-confidence. She told herself that since she was moved, she had to take the initiative. In order to shorten the distance with Hu Yaozhi, she began to frequently ask him questions. Hu Yaozhi also admires her and answers seriously every time.
However, Zhang Lingxin's address to him has quietly changed, from the original "Teacher Hu" to "Teacher Dadao", and then to the last "Lao Hu", successfully treating him as a peer. And Hu Yaozhi, who is over 30 years old, has also begun to become a little less stable.
Until one day, Zhang Lingxin took Hu Yaozhi directly to a no-man's land under the pretext of asking questions. Hu Yaozhi looked around and began to feel bad, not knowing what Zhang Lingxin planned to do. The more nervous he was, the more satisfied Zhang Lingxin became, holding his hands behind his back and looking at him with a smile.
Just when he was about to panic, Zhang Lingxin finally spoke: "Are you willing to be my boyfriend?" Do you think it's okay? Hu Yaozhi's whole person was stunned, he didn't expect Zhang Lingxin to ask so bluntly, stared at by her bright and unevasive eyes, he agreed at a loss.
After all, Zhang Lingxin is a young woman after all. After getting Hu Yaozhi's consent, she felt a little shy and turned away, leaving Hu Yaozhi isolated and embarrassed in the wind. I can't help but wonder in my heart: "What does this mean?" Is she serious or is she joking with me? At this moment, Hu Yaozhi has not yet comprehended, he has completely stepped on a troubled "thief ship". For a long time to come, he was torn between finding a way to deal with it.
After the two confirmed their relationship, Zhang Lingxin was not immersed in the happiness of love. She looked busier than Hu Yaozhi. After "Never Look Away", she participated in the filming of two dramas, "Hard to Give Up the Truth" and "Urban Beauty", during her college years.
After getting paid, she didn't think about taking on a new theatrical job quickly, but planning to travel. For her, being an actor is essentially just a profession, and the outside world is truly colorful. Whenever Hu Yaozhi had some leisure, she would take him and set off with her.
After graduation, Zhang Lingxin did not immediately step into the entertainment industry, on the contrary, she went abroad alone for a study tour. After a full year, she returned jubilantly and then impressed the audience by playing "Sun Xiaodie" in "Meteor Butterfly Sword".
However, after the filming of this drama was completed, Zhang Lingxin mysteriously disappeared again. Carrying her school bag, she went to an unknown place alone. She warned Hu Yaozhi: "Life is too short, the world is too vast, take a look at it, and you will earn more memories." Hu Yaozhi smiled and was silent, his eyes full of deep love. He admires Zhang Lingxin's independent personality.
Although she is also an actress, she is very different from most people in the industry. In 2006, director Hu Yaozhi invited Zhang Lingxin to play the heroine "Jiang Mei" in his movie "Ink Youth". Working with such a powerful director is a dream opportunity for many actresses.
However, Zhang Lingxin put forward her conditions: "You can't shout at me, you can't lose your temper, you have something to say." Hu Yaozhi kept agreeing, but as soon as he arrived at the crew, he became a stern "Hu Dadao" and gave strict guidance to Zhang Lingxin. Despite this, Zhang Lingxin did not get angry, but tried his best to cooperate and study hard. Eventually, the film was also shortlisted for the Hawaii Film Festival.
After this incident, Hu Yaozhi admired Zhang Lingxin even more, and he almost couldn't do without her. So he took the opportunity to propose marriage, however, Zhang Lingxin replied: "If you mention marriage again, I will turn around and leave." Hu Yaozhi could only shut up helplessly.
It turned out that when the two confirmed their relationship, Zhang Lingxin told Hu Yaozhi that she was not interested in marriage. She feels that it is a waste to spend time on family and children, and believes that love is two people together, and family is not a necessity, and nursing homes are also a good home. Although Hu Yaozhi was puzzled by this, he was convinced that Zhang Lingxin would definitely change his mind as time passed. However, what he never expected was that after a few years of love, Zhang Lingxin did not change at all.
After the filming of the movie, Zhang Lingxin packed up her bags for the next journey, and she planned to climb the snowy mountains. Hu Yaozhi was not angry, but personally sent her to the airport and told her to pay attention to safety.
After Zhang Lingxin left, Hu Yaozhi's face showed helplessness. He is over 37 years old, and his parents have been urging him to get married. Although he had considered finding a suitable partner to enter into marriage, he was always reluctant to end his relationship with Zhang Lingxin.
In the next few years, Zhang Lingxin played around while filming, and wrote a happy love story with Hu Yaozhi. Her life is both chic and happy, and she even said to Hu Yaozhi: "If you can't wait and want to build a family, I will bless you and never blame." However, the more firmly she spoke, the more reluctant Hu Yaozhi was to leave. In the entertainment industry, a girl like Zhang Lingxin is really not easy to find.
Hu Yaozhi has outstanding talents, can be qualified to teach in the film school, and can also manage all the students well. From Zhang Lingxin's words, he saw a glimmer of hope, because she could express it like this, which showed that she still cared about him very much.
When 2014 arrived, it finally touched Zhang Ling's heart and made her relax. At that time, the two traveled to Japan together, lit candles on the starlit rooftop, and shared a romantic dinner. Hu Yaozhi looked at the lights in the distance, reached out and touched the white hair at the root of his ear, and said with emotion: "I am 45 years old, if we get married, maybe it will be better." Zhang Lingxin knew that Hu Yao had been carrying love for 16 years in her heart, and at this moment, she was finally moved by his true feelings. She asked worriedly: After marriage, will you really be happier than now?
This question made Hu Yaozhi excited. He promised Zhang Lingxin without hesitation: "As long as you are willing, I will take more care of you." Zhang Lingxin made a request, she was worried that the marriage would fail, so it had to be successful at the first time. She also stressed that you can't wait in line when you get your certificate, so as not to regret it. In order to prevent Zhang Lingxin from changing his mind, Hu Yaozhi went to the place where he received the certificate two days in advance, and recorded in detail the parking location, the best time, the required preparation and clothing. He treated everything as if it were a movie, and thought carefully about every link. In the end, it only took them 15 minutes to successfully get their marriage certificate.
After getting married, Zhang Lingxin had a cat and a dog, but she did not desire to have children, which bothered Hu Yaozhi because her parents had been urging them to have children. Once, they witnessed a couple arguing openly and even pushing and shoving, and a little boy crying on the ground. Hu Yaozhi didn't say a word, he walked forward directly, he didn't go to persuade him, but picked up the child and comforted him softly until the child stopped crying. Then he turned around and went to fight.
Look at their children, how cute! What a happy family! If it were me, I would be rejoicing and there would be no time to quarrel. Hu Yaozhi said.
The couple listened to him, with an embarrassed expression on their faces, and hurried away with the child in their arms. Zhang Lingxin looked at this scene and was moved. She closed her eyes, as if she had accepted everything, and said to Hu Yaozhi: "I have made up my mind, we will also welcome a child. ”
Hu Yaozhi never expected that happiness would come so suddenly. In May 2016, Zhang Lingxin successfully gave birth to a son, Hu Yaozhi was 47 years old, and finally realized his wish to be a father. Zhang Lingxin looked at his son who was sleeping peacefully in his arms and was full of emotion. She once compared her children to "beasts", but she never imagined that it would feel so good to be a mother.
After having a son, Zhang Lingxin never went out too much. In addition to participating in filming, she mainly accompanies her son at home. And Hu Yaozhi also went all out to help Zhang Lingxin take care of the child. The husband and wife worked together and lived a very happy life.
In recent years, Zhang Lingxin has attracted many eyeballs with his excellent performance skills and unique charm. On February 10 of this year, she won the Most Popular Actor of the Year Award at the Chinese TV Drama Annual Ceremony.
Zhang Lingxin's career achievements benefited from the support of her husband Hu Yaozhi. After getting married and having children, Hu Yaozhi devoted his main energy to teaching, and spent the rest of his time taking care of his family. On March 1 this year, Hu Yaozhi was appointed as the dean of the Beijing Film Academy, which also made Zhang Lingxin the dean's spouse.
2024 has just begun, and the couple has already ushered in double happiness. It can be seen that the ancient adage of "family and everything prospers" is not empty words. A happy family requires husband and wife to work together, understand each other and live in harmony. At this moment, Zhang Lingxin was most emotionally aware that he did not stick to what he had seen, but chose to get married and give birth.
Although the outside world is full of different things, what can compare to the warmth of family? Although the outside world is full of **, but **can it be compared to the happy time spent by a family of three?