In view of the current social phenomenon, it is worth paying attention to the popularity of young people's unmarriage. The so-called non-marriageism, as the name suggests, is no longer choosing to enter the palace of marriage. Why is this idea becoming popular among so many young people? Actually, the answer is very straightforward. This is because young people are more aware of the true meaning of marriage.
Once upon a time, many people were confused and did not know what the truth of marriage was, but with the changes of the times and concepts, people began to think deeply about the multiple aspects of marriage: from the traditional "men ploughing and weaving" to the modern "each is well", to the "nominal and non-real" marital status, and finally even "too lazy to interfere" and "never want to enter the marriage" mentality change ......However, in the face of the growing number of unmarried people, many parents, especially our esteemed parents, are often worried, believing that being unmarried is a failed life.
This is undoubtedly a great contempt for the hard work of ancestors and parents. As a result, many parents try to persuade young people to value the advantages of marriage, but ignore that marriage itself is actually a mutual adaptation of interpersonal relationships. We can't help but ask ourselves, is the true purpose of marriage really to seek mutual benefits? Is there really a lack of deep affection and selfless devotion in marriage?
Reality tells us that the answer is not. In fact, the essence of marriage is the process of mutual acceptance and acceptance of human beings, which is the balance between spirit and material, the communion of tolerance and understanding, and the long road of life that depends on each other and accompanies each other. The essence of marriage lies in compromise - the development and maturity of society has prompted it to change from group consensus to family harmony, from the interests of members to individual resonance, and become an important part of life.
We should all bear in mind that marriage has a long history and has long gone beyond the external form, it is a deep inner pursuit, a natural expression of feelings, not a material exchange or the transfer of benefits. In this way, respecting the choices of others, being in touch with them, and maintaining tranquility are the true ways to maintain marriage.