It's like planting a tree, you may not see it grow now, but watering it, fertilizing it, and one day, it will grow into a big tree and give you shade.
This principle applies no matter how old you are. The good habits you learned when you are a child can benefit you when you are old.
For example, if you study diligently when you are young, you will be able to enjoy the fun and convenience of knowledge when you are old.
At first, you may think, I work so hard, why can't I see the rewards?
But slowly, you will find out that God is actually fair, but the way of reciprocation is different.
For example, if you are kind to a friend, the friend may not have the opportunity to reciprocate you directly, but there will always be someone to lend a hand when you need help. This is the reward for your kindness and hard work before.
Smart people understand that there is always a reward for their efforts, but it may take different forms.
If you give it out, God will see it, and sooner or later it will be returned to you in another way.
If you put your heart and soul into something, you won't regret it even if it doesn't end up as expected, because you've done your best.
For example, some people open a small restaurant for their dreams. From site selection, decoration to dish research and development, he did every detail himself, which was really painstaking.
Although the business was not very good at first, he did not give up and stuck to his own philosophy and style. Over time, the restaurant gradually had regular customers, and business was getting better and better.
The original intention was to realize the dream through their own efforts, even if they encountered difficulties and challenges in the process, but because of their painstaking efforts and no regrets, they could still reap success and satisfaction in the end.
Some people give up halfway, start with enthusiasm for one thing, give up when they encounter a little setback, and end up with nothing to do, leaving regrets.
No matter what you do, you have to do your best and do your best to do it well.
In this way, no matter what the result is, at least we did our best and there will be no regrets.
As the old saying goes, "Do your best, obey the destiny of heaven." ”
As long as we do our best, then even in the face of unsatisfactory results, we can accept it calmly, because we have no regrets.
If you are thoughtful in your work, the future results will often be satisfying.
For example, many people dream of opening their own café. But how many people open stores directly?
Smart people will first understand the market, learn coffee making techniques, and even go to work to learn management experience.
The budget for opening the store was planned in detail, and various possible risks and countermeasures were considered.
When it was time to actually open the store, because of the previous preparations, the store quickly became popular.
Many people's coffee shops are successful because they are very well prepared in advance and do not miss any details.
Whether it's studying, working, or doing anything, as long as you prepare in advance and take into account all possible scenarios, then you will be more relaxed when facing challenges and your probability of success will be greatly increased.
Be careful and careful in everything you do, and try to be as thorough as possible.
In this way, even in the face of uncertainty in the future, we can face it with enough confidence because we have made the best preparations.
When doing things, we should not only consider the interests of the individual, but also the interests of the whole, so that everyone can win together.
Let's say, like a football team. Everyone in the team has their own positions and skills, but if everyone only thinks about how they play well, not how they work together, then the team can't win the game.
Only when everyone puts their egos down and takes into account the strategy and overall situation of the whole team can everyone cooperate tacitly and win the game in the end.
For example, at work, each member of the team may have their own ideas and plans, but the success of the project can only be achieved if everyone can work towards the same goal and put the team's goals above their personal interests.
Whatever the situation, it is important to be able to see the bigger picture beyond the immediate personal gains and losses.
By working together and supporting each other, we can achieve a better outcome together.
As the saying goes, "one wins, one loses", while pursuing personal development, we also do not forget the interests of the team and the collective, so as to achieve a real win-win situation.
Sometimes we have to learn to relax, don't always think that everything is perfect, sometimes we can see the bigger world without a little bit.
For example, when playing mahjong, one person is missing, but isn't this a good opportunity to meet new people? If you don't play because you don't have one person, won't you miss the opportunity to meet new people?
Sometimes, a small team can't finish a project because it's one person missing, but it's a shame to give up because of that.
On the contrary, if you can take the initiative to invite others to join, you can not only complete the project, but also meet like-minded partners and create more possibilities together.
Some people are too desperate for perfection and always think that they can do everything, but they end up being overburdened and can't do anything.
Don't always think about being in control of everything, sometimes letting go, the result can be better.
When faced with imperfect situations, learning to look at things from another perspective can lead to unexpected gains.
Just like life, it is impossible to be perfect in everything, but it is these imperfections that make our lives more colorful.
The seed you sow today may not see it germinate tomorrow, but as long as you are patient, you will reap the harvest one day.
In life, it is common for us to be good to others, and sometimes we may feel that we have suffered a loss, for example, you have worked hard to help others, but people don't even say a word of thanks. That's the opposite of what looks.
However, we need to know that doing good deeds does not seek to reciprocate. It's like watering a flower, you may not see the flower bloom for a while, but that doesn't mean the flower won't bloom. So, don't stop doing good deeds just because you can't see the results for a while.
Smart people understand that the real rewards are not necessarily immediately visible.
There may be a day when you inadvertently receive help from someone else, and that is also the reward for your kind deeds before.
It's like sunlight sprinkled on the ground, you may think it's just an ordinary beam of light, but it can bring life to plants and make them thrive. The same can happen to your good deeds, which may have influenced others and changed their lives for the better.
So, keep doing your good deeds, God has its own arrangement.
Pay attention to me, let the rhythm of words compose the music of life;
"Nightingales leap in the moonlight, their feathers shimmering with silver. Its singing voice was like a wonderful **, which touched my soul deeply. "