Some people say that marriage is the anger of love, while others say that marriage is the result of cultivation, and the two completely different attitudes reflect different people's different views on marriage.
A happy marriage is spent hand in hand, with mutual understanding and mutual support, while an unhappy marriage is like living in hell, in prison, unable to extricate itself.
In recent years, the divorce rate in China has soared, and unhappy marriages are forcing more and more families to disintegrate.
Recently, a young woman posted on the Internet to complain about her marriage experience:
The husband is an ordinary air-conditioning cleaner, and he has saved 200,000 yuan from three years of hard work, which the woman is responsible for keeping. Because his younger brother was going to get married recently, he needed to give the woman a bride price, and he had to buy a house and a car, and the family did not have enough money, so he quietly took 100,000 yuan for his younger brother. When the husband learned about it, he became angry and went home to have an argument, beat the woman in a fit of rage, and then kicked her out and did not let her go into the room to sleep. The next day, the woman found that her husband called ** to the Civil Affairs Bureau to consult the materials required for divorce, and then there was a fierce quarrel, and the two parties were angry and wanted to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce.
* Finally, the woman also revealed her personal thoughts, saying that such days have long been enough, and if you don't have a good time, you will divorce.
The woman's complaint sparked heated discussions among netizens, and most netizens expressed their unacceptability to the woman's behavior, since it is the joint property of the husband and wife, why not say hello to the husband and make his own opinion, this is disrespectful to the husband, but also to the husband's hard work is not understood, obviously did not regard the husband as an outsider and a cash cow. This is a typical behavior of a woman who helps her brother, and her younger brother does not have enough money to get married, so she can help, but she must do what she can and make a decision after discussing with her husband.
The woman's husband is a manual worker, regardless of the cold winter and heat, he works hard to climb high and low and risk his life to clean the air conditioner, every penny earned is hard-earned money, and out of respect for his wife, he handed it over to her for safekeeping, but his wife did not consider his feelings and did not cherish the fruits of his labor.
Especially the woman's last sentence "Women don't worry about getting married these days", it is really infuriating, and some netizens bluntly asked, "Why don't you marry your brother directly". It is undeniable that this woman is very sweet-looking, graceful and graceful, and she is indeed a beauty, but her improper marriage attitude and values determine that she cannot be happy no matter how many times she marries.
Netizens sympathize with and understand the husband's anger, his grievances are because of his wife's lies and disrespect, if his wife can communicate and discuss with him, his brother-in-law will definitely help him, but unfortunately none of these are done, everything is done behind his back, which makes him chill and angry!