A parent in Shanghai recently said in the WeChat group of her child's class that in order to ensure her child's sleep, she decided to let her child not participate in morning self-study, but sleep until he wakes up naturally before going to school, which has sparked heated discussions among teachers and parents. The parent believes that the lack of sleep for the child's early self-study before dawn is not conducive to the child's physical and mental health development. After her remarks were widely spread on the Internet, she won the support and recognition of the vast majority of netizens, and also attracted great attention from the education department.
This incident is no stranger to many people, and even the Education Bureau has issued a response to the incident, "The incident is being communicated and coordinated on this matter". It should have been a small thing, why did it have to be like this?
First of all, from the perspective of the incident itself, it should be a personal wish to hope that your children can sleep more, but because of the parent group, soNowadays, parents often hope to achieve their personal goals through the voice of collective strength. This means that the real wish of parents is likely to be that the school can start later, so that their children can not miss their homework on the premise of ensuring sleep.
Dealing with things with such a mindset is absolutely incorrect and can have a very bad impact on the child. Although the request is reasonable and well-founded, when the personal request is expressed loudly in front of everyone, it is no longer a personal request, because if the school agrees to the request in front of everyone, it means that the student has a special right not to attend morning classes, and other parents of students will not have the same demand, but it is likely that there will be a more bizarre request.
Therefore, if the parent's intention is to have his child skip morning school, he should never present in front of the group a right that only an individual can enjoy.
I have always emphasized that personal emotions, stress, and problem-solving methods should not affect children in any way. So,No matter what I do, I hope that as an adult, as a parent, I can mature and think about how much influence it will have on my children in the whole process of dealing with things.
Even if the impact is unavoidable, parents should do their best to get in front of their children, rather than throwing them out as a key point to solve the problem.
If there is discord between home and school, it will only be the children who will be affected in the end. After the incident, although I don't know the child's situation at school, I guess that the teacher will no longer care about the student, and the grades or something will not have much impact on one more poor student anyway, but who will suffer in the end? Parents? Teacher? Or is it a school?