A few years ago, my college classmate kindly introduced my son to a partner.
The other girl is from her hometown. When I was a child, I lived with my aunt in Shenzhen and finished elementary school. Because he did not have a Shenzhen hukou, he was forced to go back to his hometown to study in junior high school. After graduating from university, he came to Shenzhen and was admitted to a public school in Shenzhen as a teacher.
It stands to reason that the girl's conditions are good, not only has a stable job, but she also has a Shenzhen hukou, and her appearance is also a good match. The most important thing is that my classmates told me that the girl said that she was very willing to date after reading my son's information and **, but my son refused to date. The reason is that the girl is from the countryside.
I said to my son, what does it matter if you come from the countryside? Your dad and I are from the countryside. Compared with city girls, rural girls are more simple, and they don't have the squeamishness of city girls. Besides, they have also received higher education, and they are full-time teachers in Shenzhen, with a stable job, and their hukou has also fallen in Shenzhen.
After listening to my words, my son retorted, "You are from the countryside, why didn't you look for my mother instead of the countryside?"
My son's words made me speechless and angry for a while, but it was not easy to have a seizure, so I could only continue to be patient and enlightened. After that, the son finally agreed to have a relationship first.
Recently, I asked my son about his relationship. The son said that he had already met and invited each other to dinner.
I continued to ask about the progress of the relationship, and my son said that there was no sense of calling.
After listening to my son's words, I knew that there was no drama. I just wondered in my heart, how can today's children have the idea of disliking rural girls when they fall in love?
Maybe it's because of the generation gap, but in fact, I think rural girls are more worthy of love.