Dou Jingtong, this little life who came to Beijing in early 1997, her mother is the well-known queen of the music world, her father is also a famous ** person, and there is an equally famous stepfather.
She is not only a lucky child, but also has experienced a lot of misfortunes, and her mother Faye Wong's two marriages have no happy endings, which has a deep impact on her.
Faye Wong and Li Yapeng divorced, and rekindled the old relationship with Nicholas Tse, which is another psychological adjustment for Dou Jingtong. The relationship between his mother and Nicholas Tse did not move towards marriage, and it also attracted all kinds of discussions from the outside world, and Dou Jingtong was inevitably involved.
In the blink of an eye, Dou Jingtong is 27 years old, she chose not to fall in love or get married, maintaining an avant-garde and rebellious attitude, and she seems to carry the complex imprint of her mother's emotional world.
Let's talk about the story between Dou Jingtong and his mother Faye Wong, Dou Jingtong was less than three years old, and Faye Wong divorced Dou Wei. The little Dou Jingtong followed his mother out of his father's house.
Dou Wei brought this marriage to an end because of the cheating incident with photographer Gao Yuan, and Faye Wong was naturally a little resentful in her heart. After the divorce, she didn't even let Dou Wei see her daughter, and once Dou Wei visited, Faye Wong hid with her daughter and let him go, and finally had to send him out.
Every time Dou Wei left, his eyes were red.
However, Dou Wei's sister Dou Ying and Faye Wong have a good relationship, at the request of her brother, in the spring of 2000, Dou Ying came to Faye Wong's house with toys, wanting to meet this little niece.
Dou Ying said frankly to Faye Wong: "My brother and I grew up in a single-parent family since we were children, and my mother didn't let us see my father and prevented him from coming to the house. We often cry at home, longing for our father's love. My brother's and I were left with a lifelong psychological shadow from my parents' broken marriage. ”
Dou Ying continued: "You and my brother are separated, and it is already an irreparable situation. The most important thing is to minimize the harm caused to children. ”
3-year-old Dou Jingtong held the rag doll her aunt bought for her and ran happily in front of Faye Wong. Her eyes are clear and her smile is bright, like a cute little angel.
This scene made Faye Wong's heart ache: "Yes, our daughter no longer has a complete family, but we must make sure that she can feel the love of her father and mother." ”
Then he moved on to Dou Wei when he was young. Since then, Faye Wong has let go of her past with Dou Wei and agreed that he would come over to visit her daughter freely. However, soon after, Faye Wong moved to live in Hong Kong for the sake of her career, resulting in Dou Jingtong's contact with his biological father becoming quite limited.
Until 2000, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse started a relationship. This more eye-catching relationship was questioned at the beginning and became the focus of attention, attracting a lot of criticism.
At that time, Nicholas Tse did not have his own house in Hong Kong, so he could only stay at Faye Wong's home. This made Dou Jingtong feel uneasy, she saw a strange man suddenly appear in her life, she was so frightened that she couldn't help crying, and even tried to push Nicholas Tse out.
However, Nicholas Tse did not let this relationship affect his concern for Dou Jingtong. He bought snacks and toys for the children, and skillfully coaxed Dou Jingtong to stop being afraid.
In order to obtain exclusive information, Hong Kong** even went to the kindergarten to interview Dou Jingtong and asked her if she expected her mother to remarry Nicholas Tse and whether Nicholas Tse was good to her. All this became the focus of the hype.
How could a little girl who was more than 3 years old possibly answer those questions? The reporters around scared Dou Jingtong into tears.
The kindergarten teacher felt that Faye Wong's private life was chaotic, and her opinion of Dou Jingtong was also affected. Some children also followed the teacher's example and rejected Dou Jingtong. Dou Jingtong began to feel that he was different from other children, and often cried in kindergarten.
When he was young, Nicholas Tse was an outstanding-looking student, and the famous host of Hong Kong TV Dou Wentao said unabashedly in the program: Nicholas Tse is so handsome that men want to kiss him. Because he is handsome and famous, Nicholas Tse enjoys Faye Wong's warmth and is passionate with Cecilia Cheung.
Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse were noisy and separated, which attracted the encirclement and interception of **. This kind of life is not conducive to the growth of her daughter, in September 2002, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse broke up and returned to Beijing with their daughter to live.
Dou Jingtong studied in an English international school, Faye Wong deliberately concealed her daughter's identity, and Dou Jingtong's life finally calmed down.
With the remarriage of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng in Beijing in 2005, Dou Jingtong's identity in school was **.
At this time, Dou Jingtong was only 8 years old and had just entered the second grade of primary school, but he experienced the complicated emotional journey of his parents: his mother Faye Wong divorced, broke up with Nicholas Tse, and remarried Li Yapeng. After his biological father Dou Wei remarried Gao Yuan, he divorced in 2004.
The complicated and tortuous love history of his biological parents brought a psychological shadow to Dou Jingtong. Although her mother provided her with a privileged life, she was not happy, and her eyes were full of sorrow at a young age.
Teachers and parents of classmates always like to talk about Faye Wong and Dou Wei, and if they can't talk about Faye Wong and Dou Wei, they will be angry with Dou Jingtong. They look at Dou Jingtong, sympathizing for a while, rejecting for a while, always looking at her with strange eyes, and sometimes even saying mean things to hurt her. This environment made Dou Jingtong more and more rebellious, she often quarreled with teachers and classmates, and whoever bullied her, she would fight back.
At home, Dou Jingtong also talked back to his mother, and often lost his temper with his stepfather Li Yapeng. However, Li Yapeng is very gentle with Dou Jingtong, no matter what she says or does in front of him, he will not get angry.
But Dou Jingtong and Li Yapeng's mother, who lived together, felt that she was not related to herself and her son, and was more strict with her. In order to protect her daughter, Faye Wong stumbled with her mother-in-law many times.
Dou Jingtong didn't like such a complicated and oppressive environment, and asked his mother to study abroad. But because her daughter is too young, Faye Wong is not at ease. So in 2010, she sent Dou Jingtong to board at an international school in Shanghai.
However, the negative news about her biological parents still haunts Dou Jingtong, who has cried in her dormitory many times: Why do I have such famous parents? If my parents were ordinary people, I would have been able to live a peaceful life.
But a person can't choose her parents, no matter how unwilling Dou Jingtong is, she can't change the fact that she is the daughter of Faye Wong and Dou Wei.
In 2011, 14-year-old Dou Jingtong entered puberty, she began to drink heavily, got tattoos, did not listen to the teacher's discipline, and quarreled with the life teacher.
On weekends, she went to nightclubs and played until the early hours of the morning before returning to the dormitory. She also cut her hair short, dressed like a boy, and was rumored to be gay.
Faye Wong was in a heavy mood and decided to bring her daughter back to Beijing. Li Yapeng wanted her to go to Beijing No. 4 Middle School.
In September 2013, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng divorced. The mother's complex emotions made Dou Jingtong feel distressed. The 16-year-old wrote on Weibo: "The pain is clear, but life has to go on. ”
Faye Wong was not too sad about the divorce, but Dou Jingtong was drunk and cried bitterly while holding the wine bottle.
She is just a young girl who yearns for a complete family, longs for a peaceful life, and does not want to be the center of attention, let alone being talked about behind her back. Faced with a life that did not fulfill his wishes, Dou Jingtong felt an unprecedented confusion.
Soon after the divorce, her mother decided to start over, while Dou Jingtong insisted on leaving Beijing No. 4 High School to pursue her dream of studying abroad. In 2014, Faye Wong chose to send her daughter to Inter Lauken College in Los Angeles, USA, specializing in arrangement.
When applying to the college, Dou Jingtong was required to submit 3 original songs, and she composed works such as "My Days" and successfully won the admission qualification of the college. However, the study abroad life only lasted for one year, and Dou Jingtong became bored with his studies and chose to drop out again.
At this time, Faye Wong had returned to live in Hong Kong, and Dou Jingtong also defected to her mother. Full of love for **, she decided to set foot in the music industry to develop. So, Faye Wong found her own agent Chen Jiaying for her daughter and made him Dou Jingtong's agent.
Under the careful creation of Chen Jiaying, in 2016, Dou Jingtong launched his first *** stone cafes. On the cover, she has short hair and a shawl, and is wearing a jacket and leggings, which is both handsome and cool, showing a mature demeanor that does not match her age.
However, in the process of **publicity,** paid more attention to the emotional topics between Dou Jingtong's parents, stepfather and mother's boyfriend, rather than her**. As early as 2014, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse got back together, but the two chose to live together instead of entering the marriage hall, and this detail became the focus of everyone's talk.
Usually at home, Dou Jingtong has to face Nicholas Tse, although the two of us sometimes have some friction, but in general we get along quite harmoniously.
In one interview, the reporters didn't ask me about ** or creation, but all asked some questions related to family and relationships. For example: Do you support your mother and Nicholas Tse remarrying? How are you getting along? Also, do you keep in touch with your stepfather Li Yapeng? Plus, how is your biological father Dou Wei doing now? How are you feeling?
In the past, I might have just walked away, or even had an argument with a reporter. But now, after going through a few things, I've matured a lot. Even though I didn't feel well, I patiently answered their questions.
After the interview, I went to the bathroom and before I knew it, I was in tears. Having a famous mom, a famous dad, and a famous stepdad in the family, plus my mom's boyfriend, all of these put me in the spotlight.
People tend to be more concerned about the emotional problems of my elders and ignore my personality and talent, which makes me feel very distressed and resentful.
But in fact, I am a very talented singer. I released my second solo ** "Kids Only", which was loved by a lot of fans.
In August 2018, I won the "All** Recommended Most Style Singer Award" at the Chinese Song Festival. My song "Jungle Pink" also won the Golden Melody of the Year Award.
In 2019, I starred in the movie "The Eleventh" and won the Best Supporting Actress Award at the 9th Beijing International Film Festival.
In 2021, Dou Jingtong sang a theme song "Paradise" for the movie "Just an Accidental Trip", and the audience said it was very good.
However, don't look at Dou Jingtong's glamorous appearance on the surface, in fact, she also has a lot of distress and unhappiness in her heart. Her mother Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse have never been married, and the two have always maintained a state of love and cohabitation, which is often hyped.
* When reporting, it is indispensable to involve Dou Jingtong, which will cause some psychological trauma to her.
After Dou Jingtong's father Dou Wei and Gao Yuan divorced, he never remarried. Today, he is middle-aged, looks a little haggard, his career has not been satisfactory, and his life is full of challenges.
Dou Jingtong feels very sorry for her father, but she is not able to help her father solve the difficulties in life. The emotional experiences of her parents have always been a shadow on her upbringing. Every time she almost forgets, ** will bring it up again, stinging her heart.
The unhappy marriage of her parents unconsciously affected Dou Jingtong, she lost confidence in love, was afraid of marriage, and never even considered marriage.
It is now February 2024, and Dou Jingtong is 27 years old, which is a ** period for girls. But she is not in love, nor is she looking for a boyfriend, and even from time to time there is news of homosexuality.
Faye Wong also became very anxious, and Dou Wei couldn't sleep at night for her daughter.