She had no choice but to push a wheelchair into the campus every day, not only to take care of her hemiplegic husband to eat, drink and lazar, but also to do her best to prepare classes, give lectures, and mark homework;
She felt guilty that her children were unaccompanied and entrusted to a childcare facility near a school in the city, but she regarded the 55 students in her class as the jewel of her hand.
She lamented that fate really played a joke, crushing the strong man and letting a weak woman play the role of the "pillar" of a family of four.
In eight years, she ignited the light of her husband's life with love, and she infected the people around her with perseverance and perseverance, illuminating the way forward in life. This rural teacher who has gone through a lot of hardships is Li Na, the third-grade head teacher of Yangyuhe Central Primary School in Shangzhou District, Shangluo City, Shaanxi Province.
For the sake of my husband**, it's worth it for me to pick up and urine
Li Na's happy life changed eight years ago.
One morning in June 2016, Li Na was in class when she suddenly received ** that her husband was suddenly sick and was admitted to the hospital when he went out.
Li Na's brain was like a thunderclap, and she lost her mind in an instant. Her legs trembled, and she didn't know how she had come out of the classroom. When she was taken to the hospital by a colleague, her husband was unconscious, and doctors diagnosed a cerebral hemorrhage with a hemorrhage of 80 milliliters. Holding the critical illness notice, tears welled up in her eyes and she signed her name tremblingly.
At that moment, I was like a small boat adrift in the sea, and I lost my way all of a sudden. Recalling the unforgettable scene, Li Na's eyes blurred, "He was only 41 years old that year, his daughter went to school, his son was still in kindergarten, and I didn't even dare to think about how the family of four would live in the future." ”
The doctor told Li Na that if the operation was successful, she could save her life, but she might be in a vegetative state in the future. After listening to the doctor's advice, Li Na bit her lip: As long as there is a glimmer of life, even if you smash the pot and sell iron, you have to **!
After a few hours of surgery, her husband's life was saved, but he was left with serious sequelae, hemiplegia, unable to speak, unable to take care of himself, and inseparable from companionship 24 hours a day.
Day after day, year after year, Li Na's spare time plays a "full care" role. In order for her husband to be able to ** as soon as possible, Li Na turned him over, scrubbed, massaged, and insisted on doing ** training every day. She also held her husband's hand and told stories of the joys and sorrows of the past, trying to evoke her husband's memories.
To be honest, as long as his condition can improve, it will be worth it for me to receive and urine. Although he can't speak yet, with this person by my side, I am not lonely, and I have a rush in life. Li Na hung her head, tears dripping down her cheeks and onto the hem of her clothes.
Faced with the contradiction between work and life, Li Na chose to take care of it. Soon after her husband was discharged from the hospital, Li Na took out a loan to buy an economy car, took her husband to school every day to work, and helped him move his muscles during recess.
In order to take her husband out of the house, Li Na signed up for a driver's license, and I accompanied her to practice driving when I was free. Zhao Yulan, a school colleague, said, "The wheelchair was put in the trunk of the car, and she moved it down and put it on, and exercised like a strong man." ”
Never give up and face difficulties, this is Li Na's style. She is always concerned about her hemiplegic husband, and she still has a group of lively and lovely students in her heart.
Li Na is a role model for our teachers, who is dedicated and hardworking, not only taking care of her husband's life, but also setting a record for excellence in her class. Chen Xiaofeng, chairman of the trade union of Yangyuhe Town Central School, said frankly.
Standing on the podium, I just thought about getting the lecture done
In the morning, I pushed a wheelchair into the campus, prepared for classes, attended classes, corrected homework, reported two meals at the stove at noon, and took my husband home in the evening to cook pot noodles in a hurry. Teaching and housework have become the whole of Li Na's life.
Standing on the podium, I forgot all my sufferings, and only thought about teaching the class well, worthy of my conscience, worthy of the students and parents. Li Na said.
As a teacher, Li Na loves her job very much, and always reminds herself to be a good teacher who can be trusted by leaders, reassured by parents, and loved by students. She is strict with herself and cannot affect her teaching work because of her difficulties at any time.
Since her husband got sick, she has brought him to work with her. I often see her use the recess to help her husband do ** sports, and she cares for her meticulously. Niu Lijiang, a colleague who has worked with Li Na for nearly ten years, said, "Although life is very stressful, she is still conscientious in her work." In general, she is strong and kind in life, and she is diligent and hardworking at work. I admire her! ”
After each arrival at school, Li Na first settled her husband and then went to the classroom to lead the students to do morning reading. As soon as she enters the 40-minute class, Li Na devotes herself to teaching, teaching with a positive and sunny attitude, and also finds herself the happiness of being a teacher.
Teacher Li Na is a banner of our school, she is very dedicated, not only takes care of her husband after work, but also is a district-level teaching expert, is the town's moral model, and is a model for everyone to learn from in life and work. Ni Yuping, principal of Yangyuhe Central Primary School, said.
In fact, Li Na's strength is awe-inspiring. In the most difficult days, Li Na never let go of her students, and every time her husband was hospitalized, she tried every way to overcome the difficulties. In order not to delay the teaching of students, Li Na hired a nurse to take care of her husband in the hospital, and hurried to the hospital after school to change shifts. Before each class, she adjusts herself and faces her students with a sincere smile.
Li Na said: "Actually, my heart is bitter, and when I think back to the hardships of the past few years, tears always roll in my eyes. As a teacher, I shoulder the responsibility of educating people, and only when I am in the classroom with students, can I bring sunshine and rain to children. ”
Over the past eight years, the honor and wreath have inspired Li Na to move forward bravely. At the same time, life has also changed Li Na in Xiuwaihuizhong, and she has learned life skills such as haircuts, grocery shopping, cooking, and repairing water and electricity. Inside and outside the house, the parents are short, big and small things come one after another, and she bears the unbearable weight wordlessly.
The burden of the family, no matter how difficult it is, must be shouldered
From a weak little woman to a "female man" who stands up to the sky, Li Na has experienced unimaginable encounters for ordinary people.
I really don't want to mention the past, and every time I think about it, it hurts like a knife in the heart. The scars in the heart can only heal with time. In the face of heavy pressure, Li Na choked up several times and couldn't speak.
As the saying goes, there is no double blessing, but there is no single line of evil. In September 2017, Li Na was working on hygiene, and her husband accidentally fell when he got up, breaking the neck of the femur and having to be sent to the hospital again for surgery. Another sudden blow is tantamount to adding insult to injury to the already scarred family.
Li Na's husband has to stay in the hospital at least twice a year to do *** At this time, Li Na's two points and one line have become an equiangular triangle, and the school, hospital, and home are all slack.
As a result, Li Na developed a fixed living habit, getting up at half past five every morning, making breakfast for the family, sending the children to school, and pulling her husband to school. Every night, I go home to buy groceries and cook, do laundry and mop the floor, and beat my husband's legs and rub his shoulders ......
In Li Na's eyes, suffering is a trivial matter. However, what haunts her heart is the psychological damage caused by blocked emotional communication and misunderstandings. She couldn't bear it anymore, so she quietly hid in the bathroom and cried for a while.
He was impatient and often lost his temper, and I didn't dare to provoke him, so I chose to tolerate and accommodate, for fear that his condition would worsen after he got angry. Li Na sighed, "He can't speak, he can only nod and shake his head to express his words, and sometimes he sits at the dinner table and weeps alone, I don't know if he is dragging me down by himself, or if I have not done something right." ”
With heavy steps, we are moving forward against difficulties and obstacles. For more than 2,800 days and nights, Li Na not only has to bear her husband's expenses, but also has to support her two children to go to school, plus the expenses of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, there are a few more wrinkles at the corners of her eyes, and some gray hair has been added to her temples.
The burden of the family, no matter how difficult it is, must be shoulderedAs long as I don't fall, the child will have a sense of security and will have a complete home. Li Na's voice was not loud, but her tone was firm.
There is love in the heart, light in the eyes, goodness in the deeds, and distance under the feet. Zhao Yulan said: "Li Na is a person in great need, but she is always kind and generous, to warm others with love, and she brings the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation into full play." ”
Women show their style, sonorous and blooming. Since she started teaching, Li Na has been working as a Chinese teacher and class teacher, and her classes have been rated as "excellent classes" in the school many times. He has successively won the titles of "Shangluo Good Man", "Teaching Expert", "Excellent Teacher" and "Advanced Individual of Teacher Ethics" in Shangzhou District. (Zhang Hong).