Psychologists have shown that the age difference between men and women who are directly and most suitable for marriage is 7 years, because it is generally believed in psychology that men's psychological age is low and immature, and the age difference of 7 years makes up for the gap between men's real age and psychological age.
However, this is not absolute, and I have many couples around me who have a large age gap or are the same age, and they are all very happy.
But why do people say that most women are afraid of 50-year-old men? Below I will analyze the psychology of young women and use the following points to make a detailed analysis for you.
1. Fear of being hurt.
50-year-old men have achieved success in their careers and have a certain amount of power through decades of struggle, and when men have money and power, they tend to turn bad. Some time ago, the news reported that a graduate woman in the School of Liberal Arts of Henan University accused the school professor**, and the incident continued to ferment.
Why is there an endless stream of news about female classmates of university professors? Why is workplace sexual harassment a problem for many young girls? Most of the heroes of these events are around 50 years old, when they face the 20-year-old "newcomers" often inevitably like using their own power, and achieve a certain goal, when they tear off their disguised masks, remove some gorgeous labels, their true colors will be exposed, however, not all young girls will rise up to resist, research shows that most girls when they are violated, not choose to call the police, but fear, or even silence, which also leads to some perpetrators continue to get away with it.
So this is one of the reasons why most young women are afraid of a 50-year-old man.
2. Different ideological concepts.
When a 50-year-old man reaches this age, the famous psychologist Erickson analyzed in Erikson's eight-stage theory, he believes that men at this age, after experiencing a lot of things, from going to school to just entering the society to achieving a certain amount of power in the society to marrying a wife and having children, after going through many stages of life, at the age of 50, they have more energy and creativity, want to do a big career, want to invest in finance, etc., it is easy to do a career at an age, while women are differentBecause of the influence of society and some old ideas in the past, 50-year-old women may prefer to spend their time on resting, square dancing, playing mahjong, beauty and other entertainment careers, even if they are younger, they can't match the ambition of a 50-year-old man.
So this is one of the reasons why most women are afraid of 50-year-old men.
3. Worry about the other person's body.
The survey found that the average life expectancy difference between men and women is five years, with the average life expectancy of men being about 76 years old and the average life expectancy of women being about 81 years old, so women generally live longer than men. It is mainly due to the difference between men and women, 50-year-old men are indispensable for socializing and drinking, etc., so drinking and smoking are commonplace for them, and these bad habits can easily lead to 50-year-old men getting worse in all aspects of their health.
Men at this stage, as they age, may also have some other medical problems, such as heart disease, high blood pressure, etc.
This is one of the reasons why most women are afraid of men at the age of 50.
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To sum up, the difference between men and women is very large, especially after people reach middle age, they may face all kinds of problems, so both men and women should clean themselves, constantly improve themselves, strengthen exercise, get rid of bad habits, and make themselves better and better, so that they can have an evenly matched love!