My daughter-in-law has been infertile for ten years, and I fell out with her, but I didn't want an accident to happen, and she made a decision that impressed me.
My name is Aunt Zhang, I am 65 years old this year, I work as a cleaner in the village with my wife, my income is not high, but I owe a lot of debts in order to provide for my children to study and get married. We have two children, a daughter and a son, both of whom are in our hearts, and we regard them as our hope and sustenance.
My daughter works in the field and rarely goes home, my son gets married in Shenzhen, and my daughter-in-law's name is Xiaohong, who is a beautiful girl, who has been infertile for ten years, which makes me very anxious. I want to hold my grandson, I want to pass on the lineage, I want to give my son a complete family, but Xiaohong just can't conceive, I think she is an unfilial daughter-in-law who doesn't respect our hearts.
Xiaohong didn't go to work for ten years because of her poor health, and she slept at home and watched TV every day, which made me very dissatisfied, thinking that she was lazy, irresponsible, couldn't run the house, and couldn't take care of her son. I often went to her house to find faults, teach her, and let her correct herself, but she always didn't listen, and talked back to me, saying that I didn't understand her, didn't care about her, and only knew how to urge her to have children.
One day, Xiaohong's sister Xiaoli came to her and said that she had a friend who was a good doctor and specialized in infertility, and asked her to try it, maybe there was hope. I got angry when I heard it, and I had a fight with Xiaoli, thinking that she was nosy, disrespectful to me, and didn't treat me as a family. I said that Xiaohong's body is my business, and I don't need you outsiders to point fingers, you will only make trouble for me and block me.
Later, I discussed with my son and took Xiaohong to the hospital for examination, but it turned out that she had a blocked fallopian tube and needed surgery, which was very expensive, and I was very distressed. I think that for so many years, my wife and I have worked hard to earn money, all in order to give our son a good life, but Xiaohong has spent all our money on treatment, which may not be useful, she is really a bottomless pit, devouring our hard-earned money.
I complained about Xiaohong at home every day, and my son couldn't stand it, so I quarreled with Xiaohong, saying that she was not angry, did not work hard, and was not worthy of being his wife or our daughter-in-law. Xiaohong ran out crying, and her son drove out angrily, but as a result, he got into a car accident, hit a big truck, fell unconscious, and was taken to the hospital.
Xiaohong and I rushed to the hospital, and saw that my son was covered with injuries, his head was bandaged, his face was bruised and purple, and his heart was broken, I cried and called his name, but he did not respond, the doctor said that he might become a vegetative state, so I was mentally prepared, I was even more desperate, I felt that the sky had fallen, and I lost my favorite son.
Xiaohong and I accompany our son in the hospital every day, hoping that he can wake up, Xiaohong also blames herself, saying that it is her fault, she said that she should not quarrel with her son, should not make him angry, she said that she will always take care of her son and not leave him, she said that she is willing to do anything for her son, even if it is to sacrifice her own life. I looked at Xiaohong, I felt a little moved and a little guilty, I felt that she really loved her son, she was not what I thought, she was also very bitter and helpless.
Half a year later, my son finally reacted, his fingers moved, and then his eyes also opened, Xiaohong and I cried, thanking God for the gift, thanking the doctor for the treatment, and thanking Xiaohong for her dedication. The son slowly regained consciousness and was able to speak, he said to Xiaohong that he loved her very much, he didn't care if she could have children, as long as she could be by his side, he said he was sorry for her, he said he would make it up to her and give her a happy home.
I saw the closeness between my son and Xiaohong, and I was also moved, I think Xiaohong is a good daughter-in-law, she has done a lot for her son, and she deserves my respect and love. I said to Xiaohong, I blamed you, I'm sorry for you, I hope you can forgive me, I hope you can be happy, I hope you can be happy with your son. Xiaohong said, Aunt Zhang, you don't have to say I'm sorry, you are my son's mother, you are my elder, you are the person I respect the most, as long as you can accept me, it is the greatest gift to me.
I reconciled with Xiaohong, I also got a job again, we worked together to pay off our debts, and our lives gradually became happy and fulfilling. I think that sometimes, life will give us some tests, let us see the truth of some things, and also let us learn to cherish and be grateful, as long as we have love, we can overcome all difficulties. I don't urge Xiaohong to have children now, I feel that she is already a member of our family, she is already my dearest daughter, and she has given me the greatest happiness.