My friend told me: In the face of those who once said that they would shelter him from the wind and rain, the winds and waves in his later life were all given by these people.
In fact, relying on anyone is suicide, and you must understand that there is no grass under a big tree, which can shelter you from the wind and rain, and it will also make you lose sight of the day.
The only thing that can change in life is yourself.
True growth is never about extending outward, but about looking inward.
Pure life doesn't need so much, I don't need anyone to give me affirmation, I don't need anyone to give me recognition, I don't need anyone to rely on me.
When I no longer need all this, I have the strength to defend a whole and free soul.
The secret of inner strength is that I always like myself and I have the courage to open my heart to all new changes and ideas.
But I never panic because of other people's reactions, I don't doubt myself because of outside evaluations, I allow myself to be denied, but I don't need to agree and I don't care.
Everyone knows that there will be many ways of life in life, and choosing any one of them will have gains and losses, and life is like this.
Even if you have achievements, you can't be high-profile, because low-key is not to suppress one's own desires, but to naturally cultivate character.
Only when a person can think about others and take into account the overall situation can he achieve win-win cooperation, and can have a mind that is detached from desire and indifferent to fame and fortune, so as to achieve a higher state of life.