Life is a silent journey, and everyone is a lonely passerby.
On the verge of oblivion, pain and your values are intertwined.
During this long journey, you may crave to be noticed and remembered.
However, the cruelty of reality often lies in the fact that no matter how hard you work in the world, most people's lives will not be noticed by the world, and your departure will not cause too many waves.
It's a topic about the perception of presence and value, and it touches on our deep thinking about the meaning and pain of life.
A philosopher said: When you were alive, there were few people in **, and after you died, few people would remember you.
This sentence seems to reveal a pessimistic worldview, but it also reveals an indisputable fact: in the vast universe and the long river of history, the existence of individuals seems small and short.
However, this does not mean that your life lacks meaning or that your pain is not real.
On the contrary, it is your values that shape your understanding of the world, give meaning to your life, and also become a source of your suffering.
Pain is a subjective feeling, and it often stems from the gap between your expectations of reality and reality.
When your expectations are not met, or you experience frustration and loss, pain ensues. These pains are not fiction, they are real feelings, deep struggles and dissatisfactions within you.
However, the source of suffering often lies not in the external events themselves, but in your interpretation and evaluation of them.
Values are the basis of your understanding and judgment of the world, and they determine what you think is important and what is worth pursuing.
In a society where material success is the benchmark, if your values are too dependent on external recognition and evaluation, then your pain may be even greater.
Because driven by such values, you may pay too much attention to the gaze and evaluation of others, and thus lose sight of your own true inner needs and desires.
Trust me, my dear!
Aside from being sick, the pain you feel is something you feel because of your values, not something you really have.
Your suffering is often the product of your self-creation. Your values can cause you to be overly sensitive to certain things and overreact to experiences of failure or neglect.
If you are able to adjust your values and learn to find meaning and fulfillment in life from within, then your pain will be reduced accordingly.
To understand this, you need to re-examine your own values.
You should ask yourself:
What are you really after?
Does your happiness depend on the approval of others?
Are you able to accept your own ordinariness and imperfections?
When you start looking inward, introspecting, and redefining your values, you will find that many of the things that once made you miserable were not actually necessities in your life.
In the process, you learn self-acceptance and self-compassion.
You have to realize that everyone has their own life trajectory, and everyone has their own definition of happiness and success.
You don't have to care too much about other people's evaluations, and you don't have to live to meet other people's expectations.
You are self-sufficient, you should respect your inner voice and be brave enough to pursue the life you really want.
In this way, you can find inner peace and contentment. The meaning of life is not in the recognition of the outside world, but in how you see yourself and how you experience the world.
On the verge of oblivion, you can create your own colors and have a fulfilling and happy life even if you are not remembered by the world.
That's confidence!
Goddess Day is here, I bless the goddesses:
Live seriously, smile naturally, and look up and meet gentleness! May all poisons not invade in the days to come!
Live yourself as a ray of light!
Confident and open-minded, radiant, neither humble nor arrogant......