There are many excellent traditional cultures in China, which have been inherited and promoted, but in China's marriage system, the unique culture of bride price, there are always doubts, and people have mixed opinions on it.
Every place has its own local customs, also has its own unique customs, these unique customs determine the amount of the bride price, although the bride price is more or less, but this is a must, as long as the girl gets married, the bride price is an indispensable part, which is also the customs and habits engraved in the bones of the people.
In fact, the bride price existed in ancient times, but in ancient times it was called a dowry, and with the consent of both parties, the man would come to the door to give the dowry and then marry the bride. In ancient times, many people would stick a grass on the girl's head, indicating that they wanted to sell the girl, that is, sell it to others as daughters-in-law. Therefore, in ancient times, many people would say that it was "selling daughters". At one time, some people still say that the bride price is the money obtained from selling their daughters.
But now, some so-called high and noble people advocate the abolition of the bride price, they believe that the high bride price has had a great negative impact on the contemporary young people, and the abolition will reduce the pressure on young people's lives, and even make life easier, simpler, happy and happy.
But in the eyes of many experts, if the bride price is abolished, it will not only reduce the burden on young people, but may even leave them alone for the rest of their lives.
The bride price of the new era is completely different from the meaning of ancient times, now how much a man is willing to pay for your future family represents how much he is willing to pay for your future family, and whether he is willing to pay for the future family, if there is not even a simple attitude of being willing to pay, which one is not even a simple attitude of being willing to pay, and which woman is willing to be with him for a lifetime?
In fact, in addition to the so-called bride price, there is also a dowry given by a woman to get married. This is the woman's family specially prepared for their small family, although we all mention the bride price, but almost no one will mention the dowry, in fact, the bride price and the dowry are mutually reinforcing, are a guarantee for a new person's small family.
So I think that keeping the bride price is actually the trend of the times, if a man can't even give a little basic living security to the person he loves the most, then what responsibility can he have? Boys in China should stand up to the sky.
In fact, within a reasonable range, the two sides reached a consensus that an appropriate bride price can really make the future family have a guarantee, and it can really test whether a man is responsible and responsible.
The bride price is not only a money, but also an attitude and a guarantee, hoping that all people can eventually become dependents and live a happy and beautiful life!