Highly sensitive people have always been glass-hearted because of their highly sensitive characteristics.
Whether it's the sensitivity of interpersonal relationships, or the sensitivity of work details, or cleanliness and the like.
In short, life is tiring.
Thinking too much and being hypocritical is usually the evaluation of them by the outside world.
But whether I think so or not is not necessarily.
It is also possible that some people think that they are indeed too sensitive and not very happy with themselves; But for the vast majority of highly sensitive groups, they themselves take these things for granted.
Everyone will also hear the saying, a gentleman is far from cooking.
This sentence has three meanings, one is because it is dirty, the second is because it is tired, and the third is because it kills.
Doesn't it look like that?
In fact, there are many advantages of highly sensitive people.
It is precisely because of their sensitivity that they can think of many points that ordinary people can't think of:
They learn more diligently, think more deeply, think more about things, grasp interpersonal relationships more appropriately, and make others feel more comfortable.
You must have encountered the following people:
1.If you live in the same room, go to bed late and wake up early to make noise with your roommates, and ask your roommates not to make a little noise in the late stages of early bedtime.
2.Occupy positions for a long time, such as occupying the road, occupying seats, and even occupying people when they are not there.
3.All kinds of outward voices, yelling.
4.Careless, arrogant, not at ease, but also morally kidnapping others, generous to others, saying that others think too much.
This group of people clearly brings out the benefits of highly sensitive groups.
But I would say that after understanding the merits of highly sensitive people, we also need to consider different personal characteristics.
Some highly sensitive people think that high sensitivity is a pleasure, while others think that high sensitivity people think that it is torture and easy to waste their energy.
Therefore, the advice I give also starts from these two aspects:
People who believe that high sensitivity is enjoyment, and professional and interpersonal communication work are the first to be recommended, which are very much in line with the characteristics of high sensitivity.
Because highly sensitive people are usually very decent, they can think about each other so that they do not feel uncomfortable or embarrassed.
So, what is the combination of the two?
It's the education industry.
In itself, a professional skill needs to be careful in order to learn all aspects, and you can learn well if you consider these details.
In addition to professional skills, communication with others, comfortable learning and paying attention to the learning feelings of others also make the characteristics of highly sensitive people perfectly played.
In addition to the education industry, this type of person is also suitable for professional work that requires a lot of patience and meticulousness.
Mechanic, management, entrepreneurship are all suitable.
Interpersonal aspects, sales, psychological counseling, media (anchors, hosts, journalists, etc.).
Others, on the other hand, regard high sensitivity as torture and always feel that others are hell and that everything is tiring.
For this type of population, I recommend working with as little communication as possible.
After all, people are more complex than skilled jobs. Although highly sensitive people are very good at taking care of other people's feelings and communicating with others, they also need to consider their own feelings.
Therefore, simple positions with less contact with people are more suitable for them.
What are the characteristics of this type of position?
Accept orders in a single way, obey, work in a small area, and do not need to think about more aspects.
Computer, food, industrial production, architecture, geology, astronomy, archaeology, scientific research, etc.
In this type of environment, they are able to minimize their energy losses and at the same time use their sensitive traits to discover more new things.
Varies from person to person depending on local conditions. Promoting strengths and avoiding weaknesses is the way to break the game.
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