Happy Girls' Day
We are all homogeneous lives from birth.
Go to school - work - retire.
Falling in love - living together - getting married - having children.
It's an order, and in addition to that, we have a very strict social clock.
One of the phrases that you may have heard a lot since you were a child is "what kind of thing to do at what age".
By the end of this sentence, many people may have begun to suffocate.
This means that you and the generation you were born at the same time will be rolled from birth to death.
You have to continue to compete, you have to take the college entrance examination together, and then find a job together, and now it is difficult to get a job, and then you have to fall in love together, get married together, and after giving birth to children, the children will compete together.
This homogenization can make people very anxious and stressful.
And it can also create a phenomenon that once you miss these life course events, and don't do the right thing at the so-called right age, you feel as if you have been left behind by this society, and there is no way to catch up.
It seems that marriageable women miss the age, and it is difficult to find what they are satisfied with, and it is difficult to satisfy the opposite sex.
Once you find yourself infertile at the age of childbearing, it is like walking into a dead end.
Once I don't get a good job, there's no way to find a good person to marry;
Once a man does not have a stable income, he cannot buy a car, a house, or even a bride price.
Or I missed the age at which everyone thought I should get married, and I couldn't get into it smoothly.
Even if you have children, you don't have enough money to enroll your children in interest classes and cram schools, which will leave your children several kilometers behind.
If you don't get married and don't have children, you will have a decline in fertility.
The social climate that has developed requires not only policy intervention, but also relief from all of us.
Otherwise, sooner or later it will be involved at the national level, after all, the decline in fertility will also affect the economy.
We have always embraced the chicken soup culture.
Don't choose comfort at the age of struggle!
Youth is not used to waste time, do nothing, if you don't work hard, there will be nothing in the future.
In the future, you will definitely be grateful to yourself for working hard now.
The homogeneous life course will make us roll and compete at every stage.