It is true that Chen Junsheng is a scumbag, and when he met Xiaosan Ling Ling, he abandoned his original family. When he divorced Luo Zijun, the expression on his face was complicated and tangled, and his eyes were faintly red.
Yes, he was very conflicted, it was painful to leave him or not, but he still let it go, just because he wanted to be himself.
Marriage problems are often not unilateral responsibility, and the same is true of the collapse of Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun's marriage.
With Luo Zijun, Chen Junsheng takes on many roles: he is the husband, and he has to try his best to meet his wife's needs for higher materialism. He is a father and takes on the responsibility of raising his children.
He is also the support of Luo Zijun's family, and her family enjoys the material and emotional support that Chen Junsheng brings to them. Zijun's mother is proud to have such a son-in-law who is worth showing off, and she follows her daughter to eat fragrant food, drink spicy food, carry brand-name bags, and live a good life.
Zijun's sister Ziqun also thinks of this rich sister as soon as she is in trouble. When Bai Guang's business failed, the subgroup came to borrow money, and once he borrowed it, it was tens of thousands, and he almost never paid it back.
Usually Luo Ziqun is short of money, and when he finds Chen Junsheng, he doesn't need her to speak, Chen Junsheng habitually takes out money to her, and this habitual action of taking money shows how much she depends on Chen Junsheng.
In addition to financial support, Chen Junsheng also has to take care of their daily life, coupled with the bottleneck and crisis in middle age, which also makes Chen Junsheng feel pressure and constraints.
He has to work hard to earn money to meet the needs of his family, to be a good husband and father, and to meet the expectations of other family members, while also coping with challenges at work. Chen Jun lives a very tired and depressed life, and when he comes home, he can't find anyone to say, he needs to find a balance between multiple roles, physically and mentally exhausted!
Who to talk to when you have stress and distress? Tell Luo Zijun? Say what? has been a full-time wife at home for so many years, except for food, clothing and enjoyment, she doesn't understand other things at work, and she doesn't understand herself.
On the contrary, Luo Zijun's over-dependence and lack of independence made Chen Junsheng feel even more depressed, he said that he wanted to raise Luo Zijun, which was the impulsive enthusiasm of his youth, and this enthusiasm was slowly consumed by various pressures when he reached middle age.
Chen Junsheng plays a variety of roles, but he can't be himself, and he is depressed. He needed someone to talk to, someone needed to understand, and he needed to feel warmth, and at this time, Ling Ling's appearance changed the trajectory of his life.
Ling Ling is not pretty, but she knows how to care about Chen Junsheng in details: prepare medicine for him, sort out the information he asks for neatly, and listen to him tell him about the pain in his heart, which is exactly what Chen Junsheng can't get in his marriage.
Chen Junsheng was able to endure the flowers and plants around him and was not moved, but in the end he couldn't resist Ling Ling's **, because she could understand him from the bottom of her heart and have common topics to talk about with him.
Maybe Chen Junsheng knew that Ling Ling's approach to him was not without purpose, but at this moment he was like a person who had been in the dark for a long time, and finally saw a beam of light, so he walked towards that light without hesitation, after a long time, the role and responsibility he assumed made him feel unbearable, he felt that his married life with Luo Zijun could no longer meet his emotional and spiritual needs, and being with Ling Ling could bring him a new, more real and fulfilling life experience, he chose to cheat to escape the current reality.
Therefore, Chen Junsheng would rather give up the accumulation of the first half of his life, as well as bear the accusations and scolding from the society and the people around him, but also escape from his current life state.
As you can imagine, the people around him were angry with him, he was scolded so much that he couldn't raise his head, and the scumbag's hat was firmly buttoned up.
Even so, after the divorce, he still thought about his ex-wife from time to time, and he did not hesitate to pay for two pairs of shoes at the shoe store where Luo Zijun worked. When Luo Zijun was harassed by the company's scumbag colleagues, he was angry for her fiercely, and the action of beating the scumbag was also very handsome. When he saw Zijun being drunk by his current wife, the scheming girl Ling Ling, he scolded loudly.
Luo Ziqun had no money, found him, didn't say a word, and gave money quickly, he didn't think about why he would give money if he was divorced?
It can be seen that Chen Junsheng is a scumbag with a conscience, so many people can't hate him, and even have some sympathy, and his life is really not easy.
Of course, Chen Junsheng, as a scumbag, was not scolded so much, and another important reason is that actor Lei Jiayin played the role of Chen Junsheng so that the audience couldn't hate it at all.
Chen Junsheng is often full of worries and pitiful appearance, plus he is still trying his best to protect his ex-wife and his family in his bones after the divorce, so everyone is more likely to point the finger at the junior Ling Ling, thinking that it is even more shameful that Ling Ling is a third party intervenes.
Many people didn't expect that playing a scumbag would make Lei Jiayin fiercely popular.
He portrayed Chen Junsheng's nest, powerlessness, helplessness and slightly tired demeanor so that the audience still felt a little sympathy for this scumbag, sympathizing with this middle-aged man who was troubled by his wife and mistress.
Maybe it's because of these many factors that Chen Junsheng, who is a scumbag, can't be hated.
Although betrayal is unforgivable, how to reasonably handle the relationship between two people in a marriage and two families in a marriage must know how to ask for and give, so as to maintain harmony and stability.
This is also a question that people in marriage should think about more, after all, relying on one person to support a big family, the strength is too small, and sooner or later it may not be able to sustain the day of collapse.