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Bai Yansong's interpretation of the phenomenon of young people "gnawing the old" suddenly became a hot search, why? Because of his point of view, the pig advocates that in fact, "gnawing the old" is not the original intention of young people, and gnawing the old is not the fault of young people, but the protection and welfare provided by society for young people are not in place, and we are not doing enough for young people.
Here's what he said:
If our housing prices are not so high, and our affordable housing, including affordable housing, is well solved, then there is no need for his parents to make a down payment for him, including monthly payments. ”
If our nursery and nursery schools are well solved, we will not let parents go all the way to the young man's home to watch his child being "gnawed" for him. ”
If the work of a young person is relatively smooth, and the salary is growing, then there is no need for the elderly to subsidize him. ”
So, we didn't do enough for young people, but we invented the term "gnawing the old", and it became as if the responsibility was on the young people, which I think was wrong.
When netizens read these three sentences, tears fell.
felt that someone finally spoke up for the disadvantaged, and of course, some netizens said, "These problems are actually being said every year, but they have not been solved for a long time." "I feel that this is only a superficial concern, but in fact, there are no actual actions and measures to face up to and solve such a social phenomenon.
One question with everyone, what is the definition standard of "gnawing the old"?
The explanation of this word found on is:
Nibbling the elderly, also known as the "new unemployed", is a social phenomenon that refers to young people who have reached adulthood but are still dependent on their parents, unable to support themselves and not financially independent.
If you define it according to this explanation alone, there are really a lot of young people who gnaw the old, there are several around me, and they will ask their parents for money when they work, and if the salary is not enough to spend, they will ask their parents for money, which may be a manifestation of gnawing the old, let's dig a little deeper, these young people are really "gnawing the old"?
Take finding a job as an example, I believe that most people are from the internship, regular, promotion and salary increase of the career road to go, the internship at the time of the salary of 3000 is already very high, but you want to rent, cheaper 800 a month, a little better 1000 a month, you still have 2000 yuan left for daily living expenses, three meals a day need to spend money, 30 yuan a day, a month is 900 yuan, plus usually go out to play some messy things, a month's salary will bottom out immediately.
You have to ask your parents to pay the rent next month, this is the reality, in fact, everyone is unwilling to gnaw at the old, maybe it is their own lack of ability, or their lack of experience, but there will always be such a time to ask their parents for money, especially when they first joined the work, they can't support a person's life at all.
and other work is stable, and it is true that at this stage of supporting themselves, most people no longer have to rely on their parents and can support themselves, but more pressure comes, buy a house, buy a car, get married and start a family.
According to the average salary of netizens, the monthly salary is 10,000 yuan, and to buy a slightly smaller house in the county, you have to go without food or drink for about 10 years. If the parents can't afford it, they will take out a loan from the bank and repay the loan together.
I believe that they themselves are not willing to spend their parents' money, and many are even more reluctant to take out a loan to buy a house, because it will seriously reduce the weight of their lives, and they may need their parents to help them in their daily life.
They actually have the choice of not "gnawing at the old", but the reality is that they don't have a choice.
Do you say they "gnaw at the old"? By definition, they work hard every day, improve their professional skills, and work hard for 3-5 years to wait for an opportunity for a promotion and salary increase, but housing prices are rising too fast, and the speed of wages cannot keep up at all, they are working hard every day, but the pressure on them is too great.
For the matter of buying a house, young people do not have the saying of "gnawing the old", because the objective reality is that more than 80% of families cannot rely on their own strength to buy a house.
But as soon as the word "old" came out, it accurately pointed the finger at the young people
It probably means that if you don't work hard, you have to empty your parents' wallets, sit on empty seats, and everything you have now is given by your parents.
It seems to make sense, and I feel that I can't refute it, but there is a feeling that I can't say it.
The root of the problem is that we ignore the social value that young people provideIn fact, we have always felt that young people have always been the recipients of benefits, and what they have done has never been discovered and valued, on the contrary, the pressure we give young people will be amplified by us.
For a very simple example, the wedding of my parents' generation, a bicycle, a color TV, and a quilt were married.
Now it's completely different, the living conditions are better, the house, the car has become the condition for marriage, in fact, this is not everyone's standard, but it seems to have become everyone's standard, hard work, working overtime day and night They can't see it, what they see is the result that you can't afford to buy a house and a car.
Over time, no matter how hard I work, compared to the condition of "I have a house and a car", it seems pale and powerless. Your effort and value contribution are worthless, because the measure of your effort is whether you have the above two things.
The things that young people care about in their hearts cannot be seen and valued, and naturally hearing these three sentences will cause a strong resonance.
One netizen said it well:
In fact, I have really worked very hard, I am just an ordinary person, what I can do and what I want to do are two different things, I can only do what I can now, work hard, study hard, work hard to make money and save money, 10,000 yuan is actually a lot for me at the moment, which means to work hard for 3 months, why do people only see that I can't afford to buy a house and a car, they think I'm useless, I'm really trying to make money. ”
This comment has triggered thousands of netizens to follow.
Everyone is an ordinary person, and they are all trying to prove their worth in their own ways, and it is actually difficult to be useful to society, and we can do it for ourselves.
Don't label young people with random hats, when the phenomenon becomes the norm, you will find that we have always looked at others by the same standards that we see the world.