Grades or health? The trade-offs in the hearts of parents!
Parents' expectations of secondary education are getting lower. At first, parents thought that as long as they were admitted to a key high school, they would definitely be admitted to a prestigious school. After understanding"985 "with"211 "After college, they felt that it was all unrealistic. The acceptance rate at 985 University is only 2%, and the acceptance rate at 211 University is only 6%. Especially after middle school, the difficulty of physics and mathematics has increased greatly, and the grades have reached new highs. Parents are starting to wake up. There is a father whose son has just been admitted to a key middle school and hopes to be admitted to Northeast Normal University in the college entrance examination. His son's math is weak, so every effort to make up for it has little effect. From the beginning of high school to the third year of high school, mathematics finally reached fifty or sixty points. Later, he was asked if his child could get centimeters in school, and he said"Oops, I'm asleep, what I go in counts. "In fact, it is very difficult to get into a prestigious school. There is also a father who has just entered his first year of high school and is ambitious. Looking for someone to do mathematics, physics and chemistry in the first year of high school, I did very well in the exam at the beginning. Later, the difficulty increased, and slowly he couldn't keep up.
When my son graduated from high school, I asked him how he did on his exams, and he said"You have to be healthy"。Thinking about it, it's not as simple as he thinks. In high school, once you become a top student, you can become a normal child. You still have to have a clear understanding of yourself and don't complain. Do what you can. Accept everything you can get and don't expect too much. Some children go insane under intense stress. By that time, everything was forgotten. Instead of one-sided pursuit of grades, it is better to focus on children's physical and mental health, so that they can complete their studies happily and happily.