Retirement marks the end of our career rush and the beginning of a new life.
However, retirement is not always comfortable and peaceful, and we need to be wary of those who can cause us trouble.
Some "people" are like lurking reefs, which can set off storms in our peaceful life at any time.
The following three types of people must be vigilant after retirement and cut off diplomatic relations in time, otherwise there will be endless troubles.
01 Most of the "old acquaintances" who suddenly became enthusiastic want to squeeze the residual value of **
I have to talk about those "old acquaintances" who suddenly became enthusiastic.
They may have been out of touch for a long time, but since you retired, all of a sudden, they've warmed up again, inviting you to dinner today and giving you a gift tomorrow.
Don't be in a hurry to be moved, there is probably a purpose behind this.
They may be interested in your years of contacts and experience, and they want to use you to achieve certain goals.
If you can't help, they will turn their faces faster than books, and they will even go to great lengths to discredit you and discredit you in your circle of friends.
This kind of investment in favor is high-risk.
An old neighbor of mine, after retirement, was entangled by such an "old acquaintance", and as a result, he couldn't help, but was talked about behind his back, and he was so angry that he almost had high blood pressure.
Having retired, we should enjoy life and not become pawns for the benefit of others.
In the face of such "old acquaintances", we should remain vigilant and break off diplomatic relations as soon as possible, so as not to be squeezed of our residual value by them.
02 "Friends" who do not agree with the three views are prone to more trouble
When we retire, we don't have to cater to those who don't speculate and don't agree with each other for the sake of work, and we don't have to reluctantly adapt to those who are contrary to our values.
Getting along with these people will not only make you feel tired, but also easy to have contradictions and quarrels due to the conflict of ideas, and bring unnecessary troubles to yourself.
For the sake of our mood and health, we should resolutely draw a line with them.
Life is too short, so why bother to make yourself unhappy?
I have a friend who, after retirement, finally mustered up the courage to stay away from some "friends" who always made him uncomfortable.
His current life is so comfortable, fishing and raising flowers every day, not to mention how comfortable.
So,For those who make you feel uncomfortable, say goodbye early so that life can be better.
03 "Relatives" who are not good at character will calculate your money
After retirement, you must be careful of those "relatives" who are not of good character.
They may be eyeing your pension and trying to figure out your money and house.
After retirement, our finance** is relatively limited, and our pension and savings are our protection.
Some relatives with poor character may try to get more benefits from you under the banner of family affection.
Faced with this situation, we must keep our money tight, do not lend them money easily, and do not transfer our property without full understanding.
Protecting our property is the foundation of protecting our retirement.
After Uncle Zhang retired, he thought that he could enjoy his old age with peace of mind.
Unexpectedly, some distant relatives came to the door.
They did not come to visit, but to focus on Uncle Zhang's pension and house.
These relatives borrowed money in various names, asked for funding, and even deceived him into trusting him to inherit Uncle Zhang's real estate.
At first, Uncle Zhang still wanted to help his relatives, but later found out that these people were white-eyed wolves at all, and they borrowed money and did not pay it back, and they even intensified their demands, and they no longer dared to interact.
After retirement, our wealth and assets have become "Tang monk meat" in the eyes of some people.
They may approach you for a variety of reasons, in fact, to take advantage of you.
I heard that there was an old lady in the neighborhood next door with a lot of pension, but she was fooled by a so-called relative to invest in some project, and in the end the money was gone, and people ran away, and there was no place to cry.
So,Keeping a distance from such "relatives" and holding your money tight is the best way to protect yourself.
Conclusion:
Retirement life should be a laid-back picture, but there are always some uninvited people who want to disrupt it.
For those "old acquaintances" who have plots, "friends" who do not agree with each other, and "relatives" who have poor character, we must keep our eyes open, cut off relations in time, and do not let them become obstacles to our happy life.
When we're retired, we should live a refreshed and free life, shouldn't we?
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