The Spring Festival holiday for adults is coming to an end in a flash.
There is a teacher of children's cognitive and behavioral problems, according to the many cases he has been exposed to, he found that almost all children with Internet addiction, violent habits, and even extreme clinginess and separation anxiety can find a common characteristic, that is"Absence of parental accompaniment".
If the child is home alone for a long time, there is no chance yetBroaden your horizons, which will make it easier for these problems to occur.
In order to avoid these problems, parents and friends should first learn to accompany, grasp the limited time, and seize the time to communicate and express love as much as possible. You can take spending time with your child as an important part of your job in your concept and daily schedule to ensure your child's mental health.
There is one more important task, and that is:When you know that you don't have time to spend with you, for the sake of your child's all-round development, you should seize other ways to expand your child's horizons.
For example, during the holidays, Zhou Qixing, the chief tutor of 100 classes and 1,000 people, and a famous teacher of Cantonese language, said:
Guide children to make holiday plans, arrange their daily content reasonably, and in addition to learning tasks, they also have the persistence of sports and housework. If there are arrangements to go out, it is recommended that parents negotiate more with their children, take the initiative to give way to their children, let them do what they can, and take them to see some cultural things. The most important thing is to review and adjust in time.
But the New Year's Day may be a few days of "family reunions", and there is still a lot of time on weekdays (or "overtime days") while the children are at home. What should parents do in the absence of companionship?
I can't go far with you, but I can still give you the whole world! ”
It is a simple and good way for children to broaden their horizons and read.
In fact, in general, what the tutor requires is nothing more than the following needs to cultivate the child's ability: learning ability, perceptual ability, general education, and cultural integration.
There are many enlightening ideas for understanding the world from books. It's impossible for parents to let their children experience everything firsthand, but books can take them anywhereLet them understand the diversity of the world.
For example, in the "2024 Recommended Reading List for Preschool and Primary and Secondary School Students by Grade during Winter Vacation" released by 93 tutors and picture books and education experts, "Teacher, the water tank is broken! depicts how poor children grow up, and the current state of rural teachers and education, which can make many urban childrenLearn about the life of poverty, let the child embrace a grateful heart.
The book "The Girl's Red Shirt" is reflectedThe blending and difference of culturesTwo children in different cultures exchange identities, from which they can learn a lot about the culture and living habits they don't know. This allows children to develop tolerance and respect for different cultural lives.
It is not only necessary to broaden the horizon, but also to learn the spirit. From the biographies, you can experience the power of role models, get in touch with big names in different fields, understand the stories behind these successful people, and learn their qualities and spirits. The book "The Boy Who Chased the Stars" expresses the story of three different children who overcome many difficulties and bravely chase their dreams. LearnThe power of example, will allow children to gain more excellent qualities.
Let history collide with the future, and children will gain more things. By reading history books, children can learn about the development of humanity and draw wisdom from it. For example, the book "Children Returning Home" tells the story of the heroic and unyielding resistance of the ancestors of a "small city" during the Anti-Japanese War and the difficult living conditions. Through it, we can experience the hard-won life of today's society and let childrenBittersweet memories, angry and strong
And sci-fi can lead themExplore the world of the futureto stimulate the imagination of the authors through their vision of the future and the world. The book "Daddy Bragga's Fantastic Journey" is in this genre, and its author is a master of fantasy who has won 45 literary awards. The collision of history and future, one after the other, not only allows children to better understand the present, but also paves the way for their ideals.
Since you can't go out and forge a pace, footprints in travel books are also essential. Children can follow in the author's footsteps and go to all corners of the world. Just like the book "The Great Adventure of Two Elephants", it vividly depicts the places where elephants live in colonies in the tropical ** belt around the world, and meticulously depicts how people and elephants coexist under different customs in different places, and also reflectsEcological and environmental protectionto provide living space for elephants and many more animals.
It's really at home, and you can experience the scenery from all over the world. In addition to the natural landscape, there is also the cultural landscape. "The Cat Painter in the Summer Palace" allows people to experience Chinese folk customs and folk culture without leaving home.
In fact, in the recommended books for the winter vacation, the 6 books in each grade are in the genuine recommended bookstores, with a total of only more than 100 yuan. This is also paired with the book selection instructorsReading sheets, guided reading micro-lessons, reading and writing guidance live ......You can use an advertisement-style saying: more than 100 yuan, give a child oneFamous teachers and the world accompanyWinter vacation life! It's still "worth it".
Companionship is warm, it means that there are people in this world who are willing to give you the best thing, and that is time! Of course, companionship is also a very common word, day after day, year after year, and in the end companionship becomes a habit. Dong Qing's "Reader" frontispiece).
The growth of children is the most precious gift of parents. This gift cannot be repeated, and every moment is worth cherishing. No matter how busy life is, we must turn that care and love for children into warm companionship and guidance.
A child's smile is the greatest satisfaction for parents. That smile was full of endless love for the child. In the eyes of children, parents are not only parents, but also guides for their growth. We want to tell them with our actions: no matter how life changes, you are the most precious treasure in our hearts.
Although children cannot choose their own birth environment, parents can choose how to nurture their children, so that they can have a broader vision and a richer inner world. Reading is the key to open the window of children's hearts and the wings of their growth, so that children can be exposed to a wider range of knowledge and emotions, and can see a more wonderful world. They are free to soar and keep exploring, learning, and growing.
We also encourage children to read, to discover, and to pursue their dreams.
This is also because each child is unique and has their own personality and talents. Believe in your child's potential and strength, and give them enough support and encouragement. Be honest with your children that nothing in this world can stop them from pursuing their dreams.
Finally, a message to children: no matter what difficulties and challenges you encounter, you must face them bravely. Because you are the hope in the hearts of parents and the sustenance of the future. I hope that every child from an ordinary family can become the master of his own destiny through reading and write his own wonderful life.