RuralOn the surface, the problem of singles seems to have been alleviated, living conditions have improved, and people's ideological concepts have improved, but in reality this is not the case. When I went home for the Chinese New Year, I was surprised to find that more than a dozen of my junior high and high school classmates were still single. Through chatting with the neighbors' aunts, I realized that it was not only my classmates who were single, but the whole thingRuralThe proportion of young men in the reserve population who are single is staggering. As parents, they are so worried that they can't even eat or sleep. It got me thinking, whyRuralIn such an economically prosperous and ideologically progressive place, is the problem of male singles still so serious?
RuralThe parents are really heartbroken, and they can't really be happy when they see the annual Spring Festival reunion. They worry about whether their children will be able to find the right fit in the futureMarriageobject, to live a happy life. Unlike the city,Rural's limited interpersonal and social circles make it even more limited for young single men to find a suitable partner. At the same time, due to many reasons, including employment pressure, urbanizationRuralChanges in lifestyles and money concepts have made young men more hesitant and hesitant to face the decision to get married. These conundrums make the singles problemRuralIt's still hard to solve.
In addition to the singles issue,RuralThere are also three strange phenomena that are difficult to solve. The first is the decrease in the phenomenon of marriage. Nowadays,RuralofMarriageIdeas tend to be urbanized, and couples talk sweetly in the process of falling in love, but they are talking about itMarriagebut more practical and rational. Whether it's inRuralOr in the city, marriage requires a certain economic foundation and material conditions. InRuralSocialIt is not only necessary to have a house, but also to have no loan pressure. In addition, variousMarriageCeremonies are also becoming more and more important, from marriage proposals, engagements to three golds, changes of mouth, etc., all of which cost a lot of money. These practical problems discourage many young men.
The second is the increase in divorce. In the past, the older generationRuralAfter getting married, people will live together for a lifetime, even if there are contradictions, they will make do. But now, withRuralThe increase in women's employment and the need for both spouses to work outside the home have led to fewer and fewer opportunities for them to communicate and communicate. The problems caused by this separation can erupt at certain points in time, such as when returning home for Chinese New Year, prompting more couples to choose divorce.
The third strange phenomenon isRuralThe emergence of professional matchmakers. Due to the increase in the number of male singles, many parents have started to ask around for places to find the right oneMarriageObject. And due toRuralThere is no dating platform like the city, so the professional matchmaker industry came into being. They are familiar with the situation of each family, know which family has unmarried women of appropriate age, which family has single young men, and will also match according to each other's conditions. However, this kind of matchmaking does not guarantee success, and there is an additional fee, which is a risk for many people.
Parents are concerned not only about their children, but also about the future of the entire village. RuralThe problem of singles affects not only the happiness of the individual, but also the wholeSocialstability and development. Parents are worried about this, and they want their children to find the right partner to build a happy family together. However, for a variety of reasons, inRuralSocialto find the right oneMarriageSubjects become more and more difficult. This not only brings endless anxiety and anxiety to the singles, but also brings contradictions and pressure to the family.
In addition to the singles problem and other strange phenomena,RuralThere is also a serious problem, which is that the population is getting smaller and smaller. InRuralEach household allocates land according to the number of people. However, with the increase in agricultural products, fewer and fewer young people are willing to engage in itAgricultureLabor. Older generationFarmersI gradually became unable to complete the planting work. This has led to more and more fields being abandonedRuralSocialIt is also gradually dying out.
RuralThe issue of farming is a challenge for the whole country. Because farming isn't just about itFarmersThe livelihood of the individual is also related to the stateFood securitywithRuralStable development. However, in the case of the decline of agricultural products, many young people are reluctant to engage in itAgricultureLabor. On the contrary, they are more inclined to go to the city to work or find other careers with more opportunities for development. And the older generationFarmersThey are unable to continue to carry the heavy burden of labor, which makes more and more fields abandonedRuralThe scene is also becoming more and more bleak.
From the singles problem to the decrease in marriage, to the increase in divorce and the emergence of professional matchmakers, and the decrease in the farming population, theseRural**The current strange phenomenon is embarrassing. Looking back, it's hard to imagine that these problems would beRuralSuch a place of economic prosperity and intellectual progress takes place. But the reality still haunts us.
Perhaps, solving these problems will not happen overnight. RuralThe development needs the attention and support of the first department, and it also needs the wholeSocialjoint efforts. We should encourage more young people to come backRural, developmentAgriculturewithRuraleconomy, creating more jobs. At the same time, it should also be taken seriouslyRuralEducationand cultural construction and improvementFarmerscomprehensive quality and ideological awareness. Only in this way can it be truly solvedRuralThe various problems faced to achieve the revitalization and prosperity of the countryside.