Text|Baili Ziqing.Men's love logic tends to be very straight. It's relatively simple and easy to understand.
With the change of times, there are many women who will take the initiative to pursue men. And at this time, we need to pay attention to observe the actual response of the man. In fact, if a man is willing to be by you, he will have some performance.
When it comes to pursuing men, as long as you take those opportunities. Basically, small achievements can be achieved. This, in turn, increases the probability of our pursuit of success. When a man wants to be "done" by you, there will be these 3 manifestations, and women must read men's hearts.
Begin to be proactive, or even in reverse, to pursue you.
You will find that it was you who took the initiative to pursue a man in the first place. But now it's the other way around, it's the man who takes the initiative to pursue you. That's a twist.
For women, the wisest thing to do at this time is to let the man take the initiative to pursue you. And you go into a passive state. Although at first it was you who were courting this man. But at this point, men have actually begun to change. It is to slowly accept your performance, and it is also to tell you that he accepts and approves of your pursuit.
This kind of signal is actually trying to be handled by you.
The implication is to establish a romantic relationship between you as soon as possible. For women, it is necessary to understand the logic of men's love.
When a man likes you, he won't beat around the bush. That's how he expresses it directly, and directly through concrete actions.
When you encounter such a situation when you are pursuing a man, you should actually calm down and accept it. After all, you like this man, and the situation is in very good shape right now.
Don't doubt, be brave enough to accept it.
Don't exclude your body language.
Generally speaking, when a woman pursues a man, she has a certain understanding. When they are dating each other, the woman will take the initiative to hold the man's hand. Sometimes he takes the initiative to take a man's arm to go shopping.
In fact, such a move is very likely to be rejected by men at first. But you find that now he accepts it, and it's natural. It's like a formal couple between you.
In such a situation, in fact, the man also tells you through this action that he wants to be handled by you. I also want to find a suitable opportunity to improve your relationship.
Therefore, the woman herself has to understand. If it comes to this point, it can be regarded as a phased achievement in our pursuit of men.
Of course, don't rejoice too soon. It is still necessary to combine the specific situation of reality. For example, this situation is already very common. Then we can be sure.
If it's just once in a while, maybe I'll have to keep looking at it.
Therefore, the woman herself has to make a pertinent assessment of the actual situation. Then combine the reality of the situation to develop the next pursuit strategy.
Accept that you are spoiled by him, etc.
If the man does not accept you in his heart, or he has not approved of your pursuit. At this time, the man will definitely refuse you to be coquettish to him.
In general, women pursue men, and coquettishness is a good means. After all, many times, men still eat this set.
So when you're spoiled its effect is up. In fact, men have already identified your pursuit. He may still be making a change in thinking. And we need to give him a little more time.
It's just that this situation is a signal from a man to you. He's trying to tell you that you can go on. Then when the time comes, the two become officially coupled.
In fact, a man's mind is very easy to guess. They are also not good at camouflage. At this time, it will manifest itself.
And for women, there is no need to think too much. Men generally don't have much scheming. To like is to like, and to accept is to accept.
For women, the next step is to take it seriously.
Emotional Lesson:
In fact, men express their feelings very simply, many times. They don't think too much about it.
There is a judgment deep down. If you like it, you will accept it. If you don't like it, you won't even be able to go on a date.
Therefore, for women, when we pursue men, we must learn to observe such details. When a man approves of your pursuit and wants to be handled by you, there will naturally be some signals. And at this time, in fact, the woman herself can feel it.
When that opportunity comes, all we need to do is seize it. After all, missing out is a lifetime thing. We can't let that happen.
By all accounts, we've put in so much effort. Now that we finally see hope, we should seize it.
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