There is a kind of person with whom you feel comfortable no matter what you talk to.
Because every word he says can be recognized by you and can be said in your heart.
As a result, you will have a feeling of seeing each other late.
Generally speaking, when you meet such a person, if it is not a confidant, it is because the other person has a high emotional intelligence.
It's hard to find a confidant, but maybe you're just that lucky.
Of course, I prefer to believe the latter.
In our daily lives, we are always keen to argue about right and wrong, and we are obsessed with reasoning. In fact, people with really high emotional intelligence are often unreasonable and do not argue between right and wrong. They are like a clear stream, leisurely in the chaotic world, exuding a unique charm.
is unreasonable, not because they don't understand reason, but because they understand that the world is not black and white, and there is no absolute right or wrong in many things.
Everyone has their own position and point of view, and behind each point of view there is its rationality and limitations. Arguing about right and wrong often falls into endless disputes and contradictions, while people with really high emotional intelligence are more willing to choose understanding and tolerance.
They know how to listen, to listen to others, to understand other people's feelings. They know that everyone has their own story and experience that shapes everyone's values and behaviors.
As a result, they do not judge others lightly and do not impose their views on others. They respect the differences of others, appreciate the uniqueness of others, and accept and understand the world with an open mind.
They don't argue right from wrong, not because they're afraid of losing, but because they understand that winning or losing isn't the most important thing. In their view, truth is not obtained through debate and dispute, but is discovered through communication and communication.
They are more willing to share problems with others and find answers with a calm mind. They know how to compromise and make concessions, but they also know how to persist and fight. They know that it is only through mutual respect and sincere communication that consensus can be reached and they can move forward together.
People with really high emotional intelligence, no matter who they get along with or talk to, can make each other comfortable and make everyone comfortable.
Of course, some people think that this is not high emotional intelligence, this is sophisticated. But I think that a person with high emotional intelligence must be sophisticated, but not necessarily sophisticated.
They are intelligent, intelligent, and good at observing and listening, analyzing. They understand human sophistication, but also understand human nature and despicability. Making yourself and each other happy is also a way of survival in social life.
People with real high emotional intelligence are not only a realm, but also an attitude to life and a wisdom of life.